@ LizzieBennett
To quote from ur last post...They seem so reluctant..almost scared to talk to each other... Why??? 😕
Lovely post Lizzie and this is precisely what I wanted to say...Ashni should first and foremost sit together and talk this thing over...As in the coffee shop Ashu said he is afraid that all this is just a dream and Nidhi said she was strong...etc, etc...where did all this go???????
One important place where this show falters is they leave conversations in mid-air...I mean one episode ends on a convo and the next one instead of starting from there starts from a totally different point...
Take the episode where Ashu offers his hanky to Nidhi, it ended with Ashni laughing over the fact that their relationship is not all that old for them to fight... then why did the next epi start from that point???????
Ashni are aware that their relationship is going to be filled with problems all the way...so why don't they sit and talk it over...I mean when Baba talked about Mandira and him not accepting the age gap, Nidhi should have told this to Ashu and together they could have thought of something...
Lizzie ur title is so appropriate...This is truly a brain-gap problem...Not just a brain gap but a total missing of brains...Two doctors...One an eminent brain surgeon and the other who ranked 14 in all India exams..but both act like juveniles...the top-noch surgeon runs to his Momma Mallu and not only updates her with all his activities with his lady love, but even cries his woes out in front of her...that also after knowing all that she had done to keep them apart...what do we call this if not brainlessness?????
And the other...who claims she is stronger and braver than her beau, but who at the drop of a hat runs to take advice from another brainless juvenile...her BF, and if one is not enough...she cross-checks...sorry seeks 'second opinion' from love guru Rohan...as though its an illness to diagnose which she needs a second opinion...
In my opinion if Ashni just talk over this matter they can find a solution to face not only Baba, DB, Mallu, the whole of Lucknow but even the world at large...
From Thursday and Friday's episodes i have made the following observations...
In Thursday's episode Nidhi showed great maturity...The way she told Ashu I came only because of u and if u are not here what will I do here...and then in the car she told him so sweetly that so what many people can't dance...I felt wow here Nidhi has acted more mature than Ashu...Ashutosh on the other hand got upset because a girl called him 'uncle' and said his GF looked better with the younger guy...It appeared as though his ego was actually bruised rather than his heart...He could have very sweetly turned on his dimpled smile and told that girl i am so proud that she loves me and not the younger one...That would have put the girl in her place...
Then on Friday...why did Nidhi have to tell Ashu to take dancing lessons??????? Can't she accept the fact that he is not interested in dancing????? Maybe after their relationship progresses and their love deepens he himself will learn a few steps just to accompany her ...
Now coming to Ashutosh...His reaction on Thursday as I said before was more because his ego was hurt...Ok he was upset, and his dialogues in the car were also good...He was justified in thinking what future their relationship held and whether Nidhi would be happy in this relationship...Then on Friday he goes and spoils it all by describing how the idea of the disc was a flop...etc, etc, and giving the cat something more to gloat over...That too after knowing how Mallu had tried all the tricks in her book to separate him and Nidhi...How can he give a ball to ball account of his romance with Nidhi to a woman who he knows is obsessed with him and will go to any lengths to have him????? if this is not insanity then i don't know what is...
The Cvs need to realise and show that a relationship has to be nurtured with love and understanding and then only will it the bond between the two strengthen and the relationship will succeed...behaving like two juveniles is not going to help them...
Let me quote a personal example here...When I married my hubby I did not know ABC of cricket...but it was his passion so I had no alternative but to follow the maxim..."If u can't beat them join them"...and thats what i used to do...I learnt a lot about the game and even began to like it a bit..although I am still not overly fond of it...After a while he realised that I was watching it on sufferance so he did something quite surprising he got me a separate TV and cable connection so i could watch what i liked while he watched his games...Now I sit with him and watch cricket and he even sits with me and watches my shows...although not all ...and that also willingly...What want to say is this is how a relationship should grow and a bond should strengthen...
As for the precap...since when did differences in preference for food be a result of age gap??? My hubby and I are more or less of the same age but are choice of food is way different!!!!!! CVs should realise that choice of music and food are simply differences in preferences and not the result of age gap...
Sorry for the extremely long post...and if I have bored u all also I apologise...Also excuse the different colour print but i thought different aspects of the post would be better in different colours...
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