Age-gap or Brain-gap??? How should it have been??? - Page 3

Originally posted by: rtms

Thanks Lizzie 4 opening the thread. evy post is excellent.nice discussion.wish i could add but can't.may be, lack of experience ya imagination.jst a college student who is yet to taste the beauty of love.pardon it.am quite preoccupied with the relevance of Mandira in Ashni's life.pls gals discuss that also.i know most of u r against it but still think abt the other side.smwhere i feel its going to be an eye openner.pls discuss that side of the story.

ohhh sorry sorry 4 the double post

hey...friends...all of u hv written wonderful posts...superb analysis👏...
thanks...lizzi...tanu...vasanthi...mudra...shali..(sorry if i hv left any body)...
i dnot think i can add anything more to this.😛..

its like a thesis paper on the topic AGE GAP😉...

seriuosly yaarrr!!!! whyyy these ppl r stuck up on age gap...

Yeah agree looking at Ashu's life, background, he could have grown as a stronger individual. it's a common factor life is not a bed of roses we grow strengthening with all the hardships and mishaps ...such a common thing why these CV's are failing to understand... no idea 😕

Love everyones post, good analysis another thing I would like to add is when you are in a relationship you just cant force your partner to do what you like, that person has to do things willingly without you having to tell him or her to do. Communication is the utmost important thing in any relation. My husband is one year elder to me but our likes are poles apart but we still are the best of friends and after a decade of marriage both have ended up liking each others like if not wholly atleast partly which means a lot. Giving priority to anyone like a bf before your partner is a big no like how Nidhi does it with Rohan. At time it appears Nidhi is two timing Ashu with Rohan with her talks. And Ashu inspite of knowing that Mallu was/is in love with him giving her all the unwanted details. Somehow I feel the CVs have not done a very good homework regarding the age gap thing and the way they have depicted is just so poor.

well written by everyone and to say that they love eachother is just beyond me my hubby an i have a 4 year gap and were also pole's apart in everything yet we have been married for 11 years and i could not have asked for a better life partner. these two need to be really sort there heads out if they actually do love each other or not and have faith in it because love and trust wins above everything else.

I was partying and ice skating so missed this beautiful discussion... Wonderful points by all of you.

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Age Gap -- Brain Gap --- Communication Gap --- Personality Gap

---Immaturity : Nidhi and her immaturity ... Yes she is 'child like' as Mudra said.. but a child has to grow up??

..I said Nidhi is child-like. I think I am misunderstood here.
childish is the one who has not grown up. child-like is more adorable and masoom. Nidhi exactly fits into it. She has shown enough strength in the other aspects of life. But at the same time she is very tender at heart. She knows herself how bad is Mallika. She suffered a lot due to Mallika. But still when it was Mallika's suffering (suicide attempt), Nidhi went to see her. This is the sweetness of the child-like woman.

I tried to restrict my analysis basis to be the past episodes (what has been shown).. but I dont know whether I missed the fine line between the past and future (what is shown in the unbelievable precaps on various other channels and news prints)

Anyways, I dont know why I am spending so much time behind these characters. May be it is all due to the writers..they have started off a story with difference...other stories give some business magnet with crores of business to run, but blind to step mother and cannot understand simple malfunctions...then no need to watch the show at all. Here, at KTLK, all the characters are normal ones those whom we see in our day to day life. I think some more weeks it will take for Ashutosh to move towards Nidhi and wriggle -off Mallika.

(Dont forget, I am a die hard KTLK fan...Unable to take any negative comments...😉😉)