give ashu a chance - Page 2

Originally posted by: Mehek25

@ Deepa

The way he told Armaan why should i have lied shows that he believes in being honest in his relationships. Remember how hurt he had been when his bag had hidden the truth about his family? And also he has always been honest with Mallu also. Actually this honesty is a plus point in him. Imagine how he will feel when he comes to know that mallika had used unscrupulous ways to hurt Nidhi! Maybe that will be the turning point in mashu's relationship.

Honest??? Really?? Firing Nidhi.. on the weird excuse of inefficiency ... keeping Nidhi hanging after promising to come to meet her Baba?? Where is the honesty? 🤔


I think the CVs are actually wanting us to read between the lines and study and understand expressions and reactions...instead of putting everything into words.

Reactions of Ashu have been utterly disappointing.. but MB however has excelled .. in presenting the hitchkichahat! 😊


Sorry if i have bored u all but this is just some of my feelings...

Mehek i love to read ur posts.. we are always on the opposite side of the river.. but its nice to read ur posts 😳

Originally posted by: achiever

lets c aur kya kya Ashu karta hai to prove himself worthy!

Originally posted by: deepa_jd

I know many of the FF members are😡 now

Cant help it!

Ashu is so unromantic,insensitive ,he doesnt care for nidhi,he cares for mallu ,he doesnt buy her gifts...no kissin no touchin bla bla

y is every one against him

god!

its not wat v want from Ashu either.. can u plz tell tht to CVs.. puhlease..to show clearly with actual scenes tht Ashu cares for her more thn Mallu.. so tht v dont compare Ashu's differentiating and impartial behaviour towards 2 lady's in his life..😳

We all know his history, he is a orphan and has never known a family...he never had one...when Dr M unofficially took him in,he was a grown up and even though he loved baba,he must have had a void in his heart...he wasnt brought up until then in a secured environment(remember MB's post on Ashu's story?)...even though Dr M gave him a home,he never gave hm a sir name...I ask u...how often do we get asked abt our families...how often do we share our sib's pics and talk abt family get togethers ,cousins n all...he never got any of those memories..when his frens would talk abt it,how would a teenager or a kid ashu would feel...when they would have asked abt his family,he would have had 2 mention his sad story and ppl who looked at him like a par or even looked up 2 him, would see him as a inferior...would pity him...when ashu told nidhi abt his life be4 that car scene,didnt we all feel sad for him?

He never had a normal childhood n hence he was and is bitter...he has never gotten those things most of us take for granted...he had 2 fight dogs ..remember?

when ashu met mallika,he found a true friend...even though mallu loved him,he never loved her back and she knew it...but she stuck wid him nevertheless...she had hopes but ashu never gave her any...it was a true frendship and ashu who was lookin for a frend clinged on to it..

when baba left him,he would have been devastated...mallu was there ofcourse...remember that happened 5 yrs ago and we know ashu mallu frenship is 12yrs old...so when baba left him,he must have turned 2 her for solace ...and she did not disappoint him...he survived...bitter but yes he survived...that credit should go 2 mallu 2 some extent...arman would have helped as well I guess...but mallu would have been there wid him when he moved from baba ka makan 2 his present home...i bet it would have been painful...and she was there wid him...if he was stupid she would have manipulated him 2 marry her and Iam sure she tried...but never managed.

We know that ashu probably has a past...he has had a gf ...but we dont know wat happened...when the gal or her parents found out he was a orphan and dint have a family name, they or worse ,she might have backed out...ashu who is already alone would have been crushed...again Mallu would have been there...coz we know she was his frend from med school...and Iam guessin ashu wouldnt be stupid enuf 2 fall in love be4 12th class...

no he is not stupid...he is a brain surgeon for god's sake...and a reputed one at that...so when he has mallu for a friend Iam sure he has a good reason for that...he trusts her unconditionally...even when she told him abt all the tricks she did at mumbai et al,he 4gave her...n why shoulnt he...after all,she was there wid him thru thick and thin...

If he would have ditched a 12yr old frenship for a barely 12 day love,what is the guarentee that he will not ditch nidhi for sum one else...He did not ditch mallu and this shows his strenght of character...we know nidhi truly loves him but he doesnt...right?...once bitten twice shy.

its better if CVs actually show each and every solid reason Ashu has for being so faithful to mallu and forgiving her every time...so tht v dont end up "believing" and actually see those wonderful Ashu-Mallu f'ship scenes on screen...😳

he doesnt buy gifts for nidhi simply coz he doesnt know how 2 woo a gal...he didnt have that kind of easy life wich nidhi had...rohan n arman had...he is simple and honest...he didnt lie to nidhi abt the tie coz he never thought it was a big deal...he doesnt ask for a date coz he is takin his time in the relationship...testin waters I guess...gettin 2 know her...he is amused by her and he is just startin 2 be happy...the more he gets 2 know her,he will know wat she likes and doesnt like and behave accordingly...thanks 2 arman...

he loves her...we know..his bechaini 2 meet her. even when he is busy..his reluctance 2 be wid mallu...all this is love...

his acid test was when he came 2 know abt nidhi's house...if he came through that hatred,there is nothin 2 stop him from lovin her...4ver...even when that hatred tries 2 cum back in some way,he will remember that sadhvi's last words...

nahi aata par at least 1 baar dene ki to soche to sahi.. jab nidhi itna kuch de rahi hai...😳

as far as no huggin kissin is concerned,Iam happy that for once ,they are not rushin into it...dont we all say...GUYS ONLY WANT ONE THING...y is it un natural when a guy behaves like a gentleman...he doesnt feel the need to touch her ...he is in love wid a gal and loves her for who she is and not for her body...if they would have jumped into it na,Iam sure we IF members would have have shout ourselves hoarse...abt wat happened abt fallin in love thing... we would have commented abt how despo they are ...or atleast ashu is...

Their love is more out of respect and understandin...and thats the kind that lasts ...not the wham bam thank u mam kind...

but Iam sure we are not missin it...coz we have such wonderful writers of FF in the forum...hats off to them for doin a amazin job of story telllin...the CVs couldnt have done it and they wouldnt have shown it on tv as well...

Who wants kiss!.. Nidhi ke itne critical and tense situation mein pyaar se haath pe haath rakh kar emotinally support karna is to ask for too much?... 😲

just my thought ppl...

Originally posted by: saya312

Deepa, believe me, we are giving Ashu a chance to get this right, to make us realize how much he loves Nidhi. We understand his insecurities, his background, his comfort level with Mallika, and his attempts (?) to woo Nidhi. I also understand his guilt regarding Mallu's suicide attempt. And, yes, Nidhi and Ashu are totally different, and this process of bridging the gap can be written beautifully.

The cvs skipped the whole process of falling in love. Instead, we had this passionate declaration by Ashu and I went along with the cvs.Now, we are at this point where he is supposed to be so deeply in love with Nidhi and just can't help himself. Great!! love it...I then wait for this guy to show us how starved he is for love, to give and receive love. This guy finally has someone loving him unconditionally. I did see the tadap in him on Monday and would love to see more of that. However, I failed to see why he had to be told by Mallika to go after Nidhi in the hospital scene. I've been trying to understand that...and I also need help in understanding why the guy lied so effortlessly to Nidhi in front of Mallika and then pulled out the tie from his pocket right after she left the room!!! why couldn't he just take out the tie when Nidhi was in the room and discuss it with the 2 women?? what kind of message is he sending to his 12-saal dost??

u know even I thought that they rushed in the confession...it shouldnt have happened so soon...but the damage was done when KP wasnt there probably...but now that he is back,he is tryin his best to do damage control...and we can see that...we need to be patient ...and wait for ashu to woo his lady love...Iam sure wid armaan by his side,he will definetely do that...

nidhi n mallu r 2 diff parts of his life...ashu shared n shares almost everythin wid mallu...she ,being a friend of 12yrs knows almost everythin abt him...so he felt comfortable sharin the secret that he got the tie on him wid her ...wid nidhi,he was in dilemna...he dint wanna tell her (dint dare,rather😆) that he will not wear the tie ,but at the same time dint wanna wear it as well...he needed a push...if arman would have given that push,Iam sure he would hve done it...but for poor ashu,that push was by mallu(watever her reasons may b)...

as far as nudgin is concerned,I think he should have gone behind her,but then may be he was enjoin the conversation or just he was sharmaofyin in front of mallu...I found it very cute on ashu's part...

As for BALH, they are an adorable couple and that story is totally different, and so I will not compare it to KTLK.

We are not asking for a physical relationship, just the need to reach out to your lover...This has nothing to do with age. It is so vital in a relationship. We are not asking for even a hug. For eg, just the simple act of removing the hair from your lover's forehead can be so romantic. Maybe Ashu isn't there yet...

Originally posted by: Mehek25

@ Deepa

A superb post Deepa. U have explained Ashu's behaviour beautifully.
After watching yesterdays episode i too was at first upset that he behaved as he had done. But when i saw it today in repeat i too felt that i had been too hasty in judging him.

There can be no 2 words that he loves Nidhi a lot...but he is unable to express his feelings...and how can anyone blame him for that? He has never learned to show his feelings. The only 2 people he has ever been free with are Armaan and Mallu.

The way he told Armaan why should i have lied shows that he believes in being honest in his relationships. Remember how hurt he had been when his bag had hidden the truth about his family? And also he has always been honest with Mallu also. Actually this honesty is a plus point in him. Imagine how he will feel when he comes to know that mallika had used unscrupulous ways to hurt Nidhi! Maybe that will be the turning point in mashu's relationship.

Ashu's reaction in the last scene yesterday spoke volumes...He was not keen on going with Armaan but as soon as Armaan said it would give him an opportunity to manaofy Nidhi if she were still angry, he immediately agreed.

I think the CVs are actually wanting us to read between the lines and study and understand expressions and reactions...instead of putting everything into words.

Sorry if i have bored u all but this is just some of my feelings...

Originally posted by: LizzieBennett

The CVs are hell-bent on butchering Ashu's character to allow them to drag out tracks or introduce new ones.. he's their fave fall-guy.. it happened from the time he fired Nidhi and it kept happening over and over.

His concern for Nidhi was actually more then.. he recommended her for a job (now that she doesn't have one, he isn't bothered and doesn't offer to take her back in KGH offering a lame excuse! 😕)

His impatience and anger with Mallu was more then.. when she hadn't schemed and plotted so much, remember his shortness and sarcasm with her?? But now when he should be giving it to her left, right and center, he's playing an adorable puppy dog!

@ Mehek: you say its his honesty and simplicity that makes him different..but he isn't being consistently honest.. not with Mallu, not with Nidhi and today, not even with Armaan. So its like he's being switched on and off by the CVs whenever its convenient for them. Right now the present track depends on Ashu being fooled by Mallu.. and Nidhi getting jealous ... so WHAM!! let's just send his brain cells into cold storage for now..

And Deepa.. no one is asking for touchy-feely scenes between them.. all we're asking for is to convince us that Ashu loves Nidhi... show us the need, the desire to be with her..to put her above everyne else..to respect her love, her feelings, her insecurities, her fears.. to show concern for her life and loved ones... to show her he trusts her by telling her what's in his heart. He's been so closed all this while..and now finally having a person like Nidhi to share things with, why are they not showing a more open, trusting relationship between them??? Ashu is all words and no action and sometimes not even words.. Where is the evidence of that beautiful self-actualization scene in the mandir where his love triumphs over hate? Where is the proof, the manifestation of that all important statement that baba, the house and Nidhi are the 3 most important things in his life? He's been so passionate abut his first two loves.. baba and the house .. then why not about the third one.. the one who deserves is most of all..the one who has been the most faithful..the one who has only been giving.. without asking, the one who truly loves him back, despite everything? Why is it wrong to expect him to place this person... who selflessly loves him..above everyone else?