Originally posted by: Armu4eva
Usha. i adore anjie.. she is a darling.. its just few of her 2minute instant solutions are not palatable!
Coming to families... while by gods grace i havent had any heartache.. i have had a very turbulent courtship and finally gotten engaged a few weeks back 😆 after 7 long years... if emotional blackmail had made me give up on the man i have loved with my being... then i say its no love at all 😳
Oye, congrats Tanu, 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗
I am a romantic as well as a cynic and I have realised the hard way that it takes all types to make this world.
Anyway I was talking about moving on when the girl gets jilted (or in this case for the short term has been turned down, we know that but she doesn't know that na). I am not talking about a situation where both are in love and parents are opposing it. In a jilted scenario, young people feel they have to take time to get over the breakup and older people feel the jab we met style is better "gaaliyan do aur better feel karo" is better and flushing the person out of their life is better.
To each his own.
My son was telling me of a friend of his who could not study for his 10th boards because his girlfriend dumped him. I laughed and laughed and laughed. 🤣 🤣
My sister-in-law was not comfortable with her son marrying a UPite and she refused to listen to any of our arguments in support of her son. My FIL told his daughter, I am going to suggest to him to go and get married and that he would definitely attend the marriage to give his blessings whereas my DIL had full sympathy for her daughter. 🤣
My brother in law told my nephew, finish your MS, get a job and do what you want. Everybody had their own take and 'expert advice". Good fun.
He just kept quiet and finally after 3 years she said yes, and they have been happily married for 15 years now. My great SIL, she goes from one end to the other end by trying to learn all about UPites, their likes, dislikes etc etc...making food her DIL likes...🤣