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Posted: 13 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Alas... i havent seen such SUPER PRACTICAL friends in real life.. n m DAMN sure.. u too must not have 😆 I knew.. FEW of the Anjie loyalists here wuld have their own Anjie Zindabad agenda.. so not surprised...!!
I will hope god blesses u with such super practical.. borderline insensitive but realistic friends.. ! Life wuld be a dream. .now wont it? 😳

Its not being anjie loyalist..but i think anji is not wrong..or for that matter who ever it was ..if the person doesnt love you then you have to move on..and this being a serial where we know dr ashu will finally turn around it is ok. But what if the person is never going to turn around, then the sooner one moves on the better.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: poshah

Its not being anjie loyalist..but i think anji is not wrong..or for that matter who ever it was ..if the person doesnt love you then you have to move on..and this being a serial where we know dr ashu will finally turn around it is ok. But what if the person is never going to turn around, then the sooner one moves on the better.


Life isnt that easy.. moving on is definitely not easy...!! Ofcourse in soap world it wont b surprising if by the end of the week Nidhi goes to a disc with Rohan... but in real life..that doesnt happen...! Cite me one practical case.. i m sure there wuld b none!!

Life goes on.. it will .. nothing can stop that. .but th scars left by a pain remain for a while, ppl like Anjie cant wish them away..! 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tanu,

Just saw this post. Actually I like anji very much and I am also relaxed because I know nidhi is not going to forget Ashu 😛 😆

PS - Tanu, In real life family does even more emotional blackmail to move on and they feel replacement therapy is the best therapy. 😆 And parents usually excel in that, they have taken a crash course in it. It is part of the "Dummies book on how to be a parent" 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: serialwatcher16


Tanu,

Just saw this post. Actually I like anji very much and I am also relaxed because I know nidhi is not going to forget Ashu 😛 😆

PS - Tanu, In real life family does even more emotional blackmail to move on and they feel replacement therapy is the best therapy. 😆 And parents usually excel in that, they have taken a crash course in it. It is part of the "Dummies book on how to be a parent" 😛

Usha. i adore anjie.. she is a darling.. its just few of her 2minute instant solutions are not palatable!
Coming to families... while by gods grace i havent had any heartache.. i have had a very turbulent courtship and finally gotten engaged a few weeks back 😆 after 7 long years... if emotional blackmail had made me give up on the man i have loved with my being... then i say its no love at all 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Armu4eva

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gotten engaged a few weeks back 😆 after 7 long years...

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congratulations!!!!and good luck..god bless u
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Usha. i adore anjie.. she is a darling.. its just few of her 2minute instant solutions are not palatable!
Coming to families... while by gods grace i havent had any heartache.. i have had a very turbulent courtship and finally gotten engaged a few weeks back 😆 after 7 long years... if emotional blackmail had made me give up on the man i have loved with my being... then i say its no love at all 😳



Parents are protective, yes, I agree and most parents would feel better if their kids forgot about the unpleasant past and moved on.. replacement therapy as you aptly call it.. But friends and siblings are another story.. they are more like you, they know what you're thinking and feeling cos their mindset is similar. And Anji should realise that simply asking Nidhi to move on is not gonna work. To move on, you need closure. And Nidhi is hurting so bad.. right now, seething at the injustice and unfairness of it all. If Anji's only agenda is getting Nidhi to move ahead, then she needs to achieve closure and the only way she can do that is by confronting Ashu! Doesn't Anji realise that unless Nidhi exorcises her demons, she's not goona be able to look ahead??? So by patti padhaofying her about forgetting Ashu, she's only getting Nidhi to think about him more!!! 😉😛😊.. Its like Mallu did for Ashu with her whole tirade against Nidhi. So thanks, anyway, Anji baby... you are doing good after all!!
@Tanu.. Glad to hear your Luv Ishtory ki naiyya paar ho gayi, congrats on your engagement, dear!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Usha. i adore anjie.. she is a darling.. its just few of her 2minute instant solutions are not palatable!
Coming to families... while by gods grace i havent had any heartache.. i have had a very turbulent courtship and finally gotten engaged a few weeks back 😆 after 7 long years... if emotional blackmail had made me give up on the man i have loved with my being... then i say its no love at all 😳


Oye, congrats Tanu, 🤗 🤗 🤗 🤗
I am a romantic as well as a cynic and I have realised the hard way that it takes all types to make this world.
Anyway I was talking about moving on when the girl gets jilted (or in this case for the short term has been turned down, we know that but she doesn't know that na). I am not talking about a situation where both are in love and parents are opposing it. In a jilted scenario, young people feel they have to take time to get over the breakup and older people feel the jab we met style is better "gaaliyan do aur better feel karo" is better and flushing the person out of their life is better.

To each his own.

My son was telling me of a friend of his who could not study for his 10th boards because his girlfriend dumped him. I laughed and laughed and laughed. 🤣 🤣

My sister-in-law was not comfortable with her son marrying a UPite and she refused to listen to any of our arguments in support of her son. My FIL told his daughter, I am going to suggest to him to go and get married and that he would definitely attend the marriage to give his blessings whereas my DIL had full sympathy for her daughter. 🤣

My brother in law told my nephew, finish your MS, get a job and do what you want. Everybody had their own take and 'expert advice". Good fun.

He just kept quiet and finally after 3 years she said yes, and they have been happily married for 15 years now. My great SIL, she goes from one end to the other end by trying to learn all about UPites, their likes, dislikes etc etc...making food her DIL likes...🤣


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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ushaaa...🤗🤗...so good to see you here ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: LizzieBennett


Parents are protective, yes, I agree and most parents would feel better if their kids forgot about the unpleasant past and moved on.. replacement therapy as you aptly call it.. But friends and siblings are another story.. they are more like you, they know what you're thinking and feeling cos their mindset is similar. And Anji should realise that simply asking Nidhi to move on is not gonna work. To move on, you need closure. And Nidhi is hurting so bad.. right now, seething at the injustice and unfairness of it all. If Anji's only agenda is getting Nidhi to move ahead, then she needs to achieve closure and the only way she can do that is by confronting Ashu! Doesn't Anji realise that unless Nidhi exorcises her demons, she's not goona be able to look ahead??? So by patti padhaofying her about forgetting Ashu, she's only getting Nidhi to think about him more!!! 😉😛😊.. Its like Mallu did for Ashu with her whole tirade against Nidhi. So thanks, anyway, Anji baby... you are doing good after all!!
@Tanu.. Glad to hear your Luv Ishtory ki naiyya paar ho gayi, congrats on your engagement, dear!


Agreed 👍🏼

But still it is "A" viewpoint. I give advice to my best friend thinking I am right. I may not be right and the whole advice could be turned on its head but it will still be listened to by my friend because she will also be as confused as i am. Ask any advice giver if they have actually tested out their theories, ha ha ha, it will all be hearsay and tukkebaazi.

Both anji and nidhi are best friends and are of the same age and hence have given that leeway to each other to say what they want to each other I guess. They could both be wrong in the way they handle the situation but their 100 hundred wrongs at some point will somehow make a right if it is meant to be.

It is such fun to watch something when you know the end, the tension comes only when you don't know what is going to happen finally, finally. 😆

It was nice to comment on something after such a long time. 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Saj

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