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Daayan Bai

@KunwaariDaayan

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#41

I do love Anjie to bits as her character of a good,sweet loving friend is portrayed really well,however I have to agree with you on this one especially lately she is becoming quite annoying...today when Ranga wasa tryuong to say that Asu is not in such a good state himself, she very rudely and abruptly cut him off and said...don't bother with all this or else I will kill you...boy ...I was really taken aback by that as that was so not Anjie...no offense guys but she really looked like a little devil in disguise so I had to keep rewinding that one bit to make sure that those words really came out of her mouth...I 'm still not sure If I was hallucinatiing or not.She could make Nidhi feel so much better by telling Nidhi that she knows that Ashu is in a bad way too and there must be a more valid reason for him doing what he did...but no they have to make her look like an amateaur vampy too...isn't Mallu and mardon ki expert Suhasini enough as the thorns in Asni love story.

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ozone1

@ozone1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#42

tanu ... i m glad at least your post haven't lost the charm...keep giving good ones where we can logically agree/disagree...

on this one most us r right ...what's with anji and her hammering...last few episodes she is shown most boorish person...even infamous bhabhi has her agenda only against mard, or mallika's vengeance against nidhi...but anji has surpassed that... she is rude to ranganth, not in a friend frame with nidhi, may be with new kid coming in she might start saying how better of person he is compare to ashu...
it feels like she is trying to prove her point right...substantial age difference relation don't work...she talks to nidhi as if she falling for a hitman... .she gives her super duper advises not knowing love is...and now things did not fall in right place...her next traumatized words r move on ... look for the brighter day ... and all...tanu u right calling her 2 minute noodle..falling instant moving on instant...she is not being the shoulder on which nidhi can lean and get her distress..agony out...she is like a teacher in rush to finish up chapter after chapter..not caring if the students r comprehending...
even in reality moving was as easy as she says...word depression would not exist...
CVS has lot of female to shut up...in the show.....

Edited by soccer - 13 years ago

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Pooja

@poshah

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#43

anji has been jumping to conculsions very soon and doing all the analysis/judgements for nidhi, nidhi yo love dr ashu, nidhi, dr ashu loves you , nidhi move on.

The first two when she was analysing for nidhi were very irritating, it is like, agree youa re a good friend, but finally nidhi should be the one doing the analysis and not anji.

But for the move on, I think , anji is doing what any friend or family member would do. To see a near/dear one crying and in so much pain, one would behave like that only. For that you dont have to be in love..it is one thing to cry for some one and something to see someone close to you crying like that. I think Anji is not wrong in that sense, Logicallly she may be wrong but as a friend she is just trying to console her friend..

Bringon the brickbats 😆

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@aekiel

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#44

I'm probably thinking too far ahead or looking like a conspiracy theorist here, but I was thinking about a SANE reason for Anji behaving the way she is and came up with this.😆

Anji NEVER wanted Nidhi to fall for Ashutosh in the first place. The reasons we all know- age gap, society, blah blah.

So when she saw Nidhi start to get infatuated with Ashutosh ( note the word I'm using- infatuated, not love), she knew it would probably be too early for Ashutosh to reciprocate the same.

So she set about asking Nidhi to do the tests ( irritate Mallika in the process!) and everything else, knowing that Ashutosh wouldn't quite pass the muster in 99% of the tests and ergo she could convince Nidhi that Ashutosh was a chapter to forget.

For the greater good might have been Anji's thinking 😛

Edited by aekiel - 13 years ago

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rpmenon

@rpmenon

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Obviously since u have not seen it. .theres no point in discussing.. 😆 U wuldn understand the impact of how fast her flip flops are..!! When a relation ends.. ur best friend (in real life ) dun come to u n say.. move on... they give u some time..n space.. n try to first take u out to movies n stuff.. then talk about moving on..!!

And ofcourse.. a person who has never loved before wuld NEVER KNOW THE GRAVITY of love n i support.. Rangas words completely!!

If only life culd be lead by what we PERCEIVE as right or wrong.. 😆 Nidhi herself answered this by saying... 'Its my life.. let me make n learn from my mistakes!'

Kehna bahut asan hota hai.. jispe beetti hai. use hi pata hota hai..! 😳

Well,in that case,Anjie should definitely give Nidhi a shoulder to cry,not just for the first few days,but eternally and refrain from pulling her best friend from the deep depression that she is falling into? Good idea.👍🏼

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tanu

@Armu4eva

Moderator

+ 14

Posted: 13 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: rpmenon

Well,in that case,Anjie should definitely give Nidhi a shoulder to cry,not just for the first few days,but eternally and refrain from pulling her best friend from the deep depression that she is falling into? Good idea.👍🏼

And ... for UR SAKE.. she should .. the moment nidhi comes out of Ashus life.. send her to the wedding mandap...excellent way to show support.. n understanding.. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

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tanu

@Armu4eva

Moderator

+ 14

Posted: 13 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: poshah

But for the move on, I think , anji is doing what any friend or family member would do. To see a near/dear one crying and in so much pain, one would behave like that only. For that you dont have to be in love..it is one thing to cry for some one and something to see someone close to you crying like that. I think Anji is not wrong in that sense, Logicallly she may be wrong but as a friend she is just trying to console her friend..

Bringon the brickbats 😆

Alas... i havent seen such SUPER PRACTICAL friends in real life.. n m DAMN sure.. u too must not have 😆 I knew.. FEW of the Anjie loyalists here wuld have their own Anjie Zindabad agenda.. so not surprised...!!

I will hope god blesses u with such super practical.. borderline insensitive but realistic friends.. ! Life wuld be a dream. .now wont it? 😳

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Kasturilover

@Kasturilover

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#48

Amru,

Am sorry but today I find your point of view different than mine.

I personally think your comments for Angie are misplaced.

You put yourself in Angie or Nidhi's father's shoes. You would realise that

a) you would want Nidhi to have an aim in life and not behave like a love struck 12 year old. For Christ sake she must at least be 22 or 23 or 24. Which 24 year old you know behaves like this?

Sure we are all heady when we fall in love and we must all get the time. Well I think Angie first cautioned Nidhi, then when she saw Nidhi was determined in her love, Angie supported Nidhi then consoled her by being around her taking her to a party

and now she is just trying to be protective.

Angie did accompany Nidhi to the hospital and even gently prod her to go in (as there are other people apart from Ashutosh who have loved Nidhi...for eg the kids). Now Angie is telling Nidhi to look ahead ...that does not mean go have an affair...look ahead in life is simplistically to see the bright side of life

b) you would want Nidhi to find someone closer to her age ...And what is wrong with that??. ...Yes I am all for mature and unusual love stories or jodis. But most of us want to get married or date people our age and our parents would want that too. So why is Angie wrong when she says that.

I am sure your parents or mine would not be too super happy if we one fine day went and told them that we are in love with a guy 20 years older to us...if nothing else there is the simple dynamics of physicality and people belonging to different generations.

c) Lastly, whatever Ashutosh's reasons may be, on a personal, professional and ethical reason, he has indeed done wrong by firing Nidhi without a proper explanation or notice. If that happens to your family member even you would not want anything to do with the man or organisation that fired you. Correct?

To my mind Angie, Ranga and Baba are the only sensibly represented people in this serial. And now I have hopes that this Karan fellow will be shown as sensible too.

The rest seem and act like one note delusional individuals in need of psychological counselling.

Edited by Kasturilover - 13 years ago

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tanu

@Armu4eva

Moderator

+ 14

Posted: 13 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: Kasturilover

You put yourself in Angie or Nidhi's father's shoes. You would realise that

Exactly in the same.. way.. Angie has to b in Nidhis shoes to realise... that love is not a switch.. on n off at a blink!

a) you would want Nidhi to have an aim in life and not behave like a love struck 12 year old. For Christ sake she must at least be 22 or 23 or 24. Which 24 year old you know behaves like this?

My post doesnt praise Nidhis maturity... she infact.. doesnt have much .. given how she isnt even serious about her profession n returns to her job for the sake of LOWEEE n not to find her calling😆 Many posters here have already debated that! Tell me one moment where Anjie has counselled Nidhi to .. take her life n career seriously??? I m not defending Nidhi here by deriding Anjie.. but Anjie off late has been way too much of an irritant...

b) you would want Nidhi to find someone closer to her age ...And what is wrong with that??. ...Yes I am all for mature and unusual love stories or jodis. But most of us want to get married or date people our age and our parents would want that too. So why is Angie wrong when she says that.

Nothing at all.. but u dun tell the person within 24hrs of her heartache to find the guy of her age...as indicated by th promo/precap 😆

c) And whatever Ashutosh's reasons may be, on a personal, professional and ethical reason, he has indeed done wrong by firing Nidhi without a proper explanation or notice. If that happens to your family member even you would not want anything to do with the man or organisation that fired you. Correct?

Why as a family member.. did Anjie whose dad is a lawyer.. din counsel Nidhi to take legal action against the hosp firing her on flimsy grounds?? That wuld establish the depth n maturity of Anjies character imho 😳

To my mind Angie, Ranga and Baba are the only sensibly represented people in this serial. And now I have hopes that this Karan fellow will be shown as sensible too.

Indeed.. the trio are definitely much more sensible than the leads.. but Anjie off late hasnt been much 😆

The rest under the name of doctors seem and act like one note delusional individuals in need of psychological counselling.

The show itself is a blot on the name of medicine the profession... so guess we r left to only ponder