Malika has earned Ashutosh's Love

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Posted: 13 years ago
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😛 I can't believe how many in the forum are actually supporting Nidhi's downright rude behavior on the show. Malika has spent 12 years of work in building a relationship with Ashutosh and how dare someone like Nidhi just coming along and ruining everything. 😕 In today's world there really is no value for loyalty. Malika and Ashutosh are already good at building things together as evidenced by the success they've had at the hospital. No doubt they can build a great life as well only if Nidhi would just find someone her own age. 😛 Quite frankly it's a disgusting to encourage today's youth to start seducing people twice their age. We must raise our voices and make it clear that we will not support such behavior. The letter M comes before the letter N in the alphabet and so should be the case in Ashutosh's life. 😃 Nidhi belongs with Rangnathan and Angie belongs with one of the interns. Ashu and Malika are meant to be one. 😛


PS-----I plan on " occupying Sony"protest if Ashu and Malika are not together at once. 😛

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i guess u r taking this show very seriously btw i m agree with u on sum things n disagree on sum things.this show is based on luv story of ppl of two different age grp n there is no logic of doing protest against this but yaa i m agree the treatment they r giving to the show is not good n it will affect the youth society deffo but i guess today youth society is so intelligent not to act according a show n if any one is going to act on this then i guess the person can b influenced by any smaller thing so here show is not responsible for this.it will b stupidity of prson. abt mallika cvs handled her character so badly. there is no logic behind turning in the vamp in just few days. her insecurity should be shown in sum other way. i m sure mallika character could gain more attention than dr. nidhi. if we talk abt nidhi her character is also at fault. i m not a regular viewer of show but sumtym i read forum n see it in on/ off manner n everytym nidhi behaviour shock me. she is really a chipkoo. btw if u r really so against this show then ignore it bcoz ur post will hurt the sentiments of show luvers.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Really??

Quite frankly it's a disgusting to encourage today's youth to start seducing people twice their age.


Seducing?? Excuse... me can u enlighten me..where ..when n HOW this 'seduction' took place??? If loving someone.. or desiring someone older than u...is a crime.. i believe... couples like the late Bhupen Hazarika ji-Kalpana Lajmi ji ... Michael Douglas - Catherine Zeta Jones ...n several others wuld have to be ostracised!!😆


U cannot BUILD a LIFE ...by FORCING someone to ACCEPT u ...just coz u happen to be FRIENDS with that person for...the now infamous 'BARA SAAL'..!!


And lmao on the 'Nidhis rude behaviour' .. ur post SCREAMS of the 'ORTHODOX' mentality that... our society suffers from. .n no wonder..!! Mallu is resorting to... deceit to WIN something that NEVER WAS HERS...! Nidhi hasnt SNATCHED something that apparently Mallu had!

At this point we cant say that Ashu is Nidhis as well... since we dunno what Ashu feels..but... one cannot DENY someone something..based on...the mere.. 'AGE' issue..!!! Btw...i hope u go and protest... atleast the Sony guys wuld know that.. there are a FEW GREAT MINDS ..who DO LIKE Mallu 😆
Edited by Armu4eva - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well, your post is famous. Mohnish Behl send me here. He posted this topic in his Facebook.
But so sorry I cannot agree with your any points.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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"12 years of work?"...one just can't force love...

Saying that ashutosh has to reciprocate just because she is loyal is totally unreasonable...it would just be an obligation...

and after 12 years mallika needs to take a hint and move on...not because nidhi is in his life but because it's for her own good...
Oprah was right when she said "he's just not that into you" are the six words that can save years of heartache...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: _MagnificentM_

Well, your post is famous. Mohnish Behl send me here. He posted this topic in his Facebook.

But so sorry I cannot agree with your any points.


Yh indeed... i also checked from his FB status... n wonder why he finds it..'VALID'' 😕

At this rate.. we should all just marry our FRIENDS... since they are with us.. the longest of times


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Posted: 13 years ago
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As far as I can make out Nidhi respects,admires & in the process loves Ashutosh. It doesnt matter to her whether he is 24yrs,30yrs,35yrs or 42yrs. Its upto Ashutosh to decide between Nidhi & Mallika but what we are seeing since the beginning of the show is Mallika being just a very good friend to Ashu and apart from his nothing else.With Mallika its been more of work work & work but with Nidhi he has learnt to smile,crack jokes and do things which he has never done in recent past so dont see the reason why these 2 cant be a pair & frankly speaking Mallika is too like him serious & strict whereas Nidhi brings the elements which are missing in his life & she is refreshing.

So for me its ASHNI alll the way.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't agree with the Malika part of it. Nobody has the right to force someone to love them in the same manner in which they love that individual. So even though Malika has patiently waited for Ashutosh, she should have gotten the idea already by now (many many many times) that he won't come around. For some reason women always hold onto their hopes and think that the man will always change his mind, women are always prone to want of change. But neither of this is true nor fair to Ashutosh. How is it his or Nidhi's fault? If Ashutosh has no feelings for Malika then he simply doesn't. How is that wrong? And why don't his feelings matter?

Love does not force nor does it compel. Love is also mutual. What Malika feels is simply obsession now. And many times she's asked Ashutosh what she should do with her LONLINESS. So does she even "love" him or does she just want him to fill her lonliness because she finds herself compatible with him?

In all honesty, if Malika really was in "love" with Ashutosh, she would let HIM be happy in whichever way he pleases, even if that means without her because love is always putting the other person first.

And that's where the contrast about Nidhi comes in. Whatever she's doing she's thinking of Ashutosh's happiness only.

On a different note, I personally do think the age gap is a little ridiculous in the 21st century with different mentalities and different living styles and so forth
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Armu4eva


Yh indeed... i also checked from his FB status... n wonder why he finds it..'VALID'' 😕

At this rate.. we should all just marry our FRIENDS... since they are with us.. the longest of times


I second you, so it means we have to marry our friends who have been with us for many years even though we feel nothing special about them. U know I follow Mohnish in FB and I have seen he kinda support Mallu-Ashu relation. That sucks.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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if she had earned that love then there would not be a question of waiting for 12 years...and after 12 years also if that realization called love has not dwelt from both parties then it was never meant to be

..ashutosh has never given her any hopes..yet mallika decided to create a mirage which she is trying to reach for 12 years...her friendship and love stinks of ownership issues...if she really cared abt ashu ..he would not have closed himself in a dark existence for 12 years...coz as a friend and lover she would have tried her level best to make him happy what nidhi is trying now...love means that ...happiness for the one whom you cherish...mallika has been too self absorbed in her own bitterness ,loneliness and frustrations to even see what ashutosh is going through or feel any of his pain,,,,if mallika was all that ashutosh would have no reason to open his heart to relative stranger

besides they both are boring to the hilt around each other with so much sadness and loneliness surrounding them that if they get together they will make life miserable for each other and in this process lose a friend too as ashu himself said
Edited by sun29 - 13 years ago

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