Originally posted by: Shaavi
Maybe we did. because everyone seems to forget that Bijoy's family never apologized for sending fish to Ishwari's family. Nor for any of Sona's or Bijoy;'s actions. It was Sona who first crossed the line from professional to personal and started poking into Dev's life. She was the one who first started the love affair but never took responsibility for her actions. She is the one who invited Dev to her engagement part with Ritvik, Dev had not come there uninvited. But every time she failed to stand in front of Bijoy and tell the truth. She always made it seem like it was always Dev or Ishwari's fault, but never hers. Just so that her father wouldn't be disappointed in her.
If she is so righteous, she needs to tell Bijoy 2 truths. First one is about who started the love affair and how lot of her actions were not forced by Dev or Ishwari. That she herself is responsible for her actions. Secondly she needs to tell Bijoy about what Ronita's mom had planned for their family during the jewelry fiasco. And how everyone except Bijoy knows what Dev did for their family by taking that blame.
Also, in today's episode, did Dev know that Bijoy was also searching for Ayush?????. All he knew was that it was him, Sona, Elena and Vickki who were searching for him, not Bijoy. It is Sona who involved Bijoy and the responsibility of notifying him falls solely on her. Dev has no role in that. So any expectation or logic of Dev should have informed him is wrong. You can justify as you like, because we are seeing 2 completely different shows.
1. First it was Dev, who poked his nose in her arranged marriage dates & drove Kushal away insinuating Sonakshi was having an affair with him. All so that she doesn't shift to Mumbai. And then opened her profile on a matrimony site without her consent, without even letting her know. It was him first poking his nose in her personal life.
2. Yes, Sonakshi did develop feelings for him but she did not act on those said feelings. She didn't go on proposing Dev. When Dev & Natasha's engagement got fixed, she had planned to go away silently without ever telling Dev how she felt. It was Dev who came to her at the middle of the night to say "I Love You as a man loves a woman". Sonakshi did not go & planfully trap him like Ishwari chose to believe.
3. Sonakshi invited him because Dev asked her to invite him. He promised her he would come, watch her engagement ceremony take place & that would help him to move on. He didn't tell her he was going to drink & create a ruckus & ruin the ceremony. Sonakshi did tell him to stop drinking & go home, but he didn't.
Sonakshi was wrong on many fronts too but she doesn't need to be responsible for Dev's actions as well. Dev was an adult, who acted on his own free will & should take the blames for stuffs he did.
P.S - Oh by the way!
1. Elena & Saurabh did apologize for the fish kand. It was a mistake done by the event planners. Elena & Saurabh came to know about it when they arrived with rest of the shaguns & explained what had happened.
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2. Sonakshi did want to tell everyone, EVERYONE including Bijoy, what happened regarding the jwellery fiasco because she did not want a new relation to begin on the basis of a lie. But Asha & Dev decided against it. Dev apparently wanted to save Saurabh - Ranita's relation by lying about it & Asha supported him on his choice.
Must be a case of different shows!
Edited by NotAMuggle - 4 years ago