Why is everyone on Sona's case?

Todays episode especially the precap where Ishwari and Dev were just pointing the finger at her: im thinking why are you picking out her faults when u urself are making even greater mistakes?

Dev on one tell his mother that sona and soha need time and when asks for time, he gets upset and turns up the volume in the car? Dev really is a quandry and has similar traits to his mother where he cant handle multiple things at once. Very tunnel vision approach the both of them.

Ishwari is repeating what she did with her kids with Dev kids. Constantly suffocating Ayush with over attention and not letting him settle plus complaining that Sona should recognise and feel for Ayush instantly as Sona was pregnant with him for 9 months? Her logic dumbfounds me as u have to given anyone in Sona and Soha's situation time yet she cant grasp that. Thought Ishwari had changed coming into season 3 yet i think she hasnt at all.

My favourite part of the episode was the precap when Ishwari you shouldnt differenciate between ur kids yet Sona said how can you say this when you differenciated between Dev and his sisters. Glad she said something so blunt that Ishwari had no comeback. She needs a reality check that your not always right and u cant repeat the same mistakes of the past.

If a mother, which only Ishwari is (just for Dev bdw Sisters are not in the family tree also), you should turn on the love like a faucet. S1, Ishwari made Sona feel guilty about finding love at the workplace, inability to be a mother (like what!), and leaving Dev. S2, How could Sona go back to work! Am I saying Sona is perfect, N, but this guilt-tripping is getting old.

Dev was so caring in S1, when Sona texted H, he came to her house, took care of his employees. Now he is cracking old uncle jokes at the dinnner table.

Ishwari feels Soha is mannerless and Sona isnt dealing with it. Is she not the person subjecting Ayush to the same overload of love? Give some time to the kid, he looks so bechara.

Originally posted by: King07

Todays episode especially the precap where Ishwari and Dev were just pointing the finger at her: im thinking why are you picking out her faults when u urself are making even greater mistakes?

Dev on one tell his further that sona and soha need time and when asks for time, he gets upset and turns up the volume in the car? Dev really is a quandry and has similar traits to his mother where he cant handle multiple things at once. Very tunnel vision approach the both of them.

Ishwari is repeating what she did with her kids with Dev kids. Constantly suffocating Ayush with over attention and not letting him settle plus complaining that Sona should recognise and feel for Ayush instantly as Sona was pregnant with him for 9 months? Her logic dumbfounds me as u have to given anyone in Sona and Soha's situation time yet she cant grasp that. Thought Ishwari had changed coming into season 3 yet i think she hasnt at all.

My favourite part of the episode was the precap when Ishwari you shouldnt differenciate between ur kids yet Sona said how can you say this when you differenciated between Dev and his sisters. Glad she said something so blunt that Ishwari had no comeback. She needs a reality check that your not always right and u cant repeat the same mistakes of the past.

I feel that the same mistake as Season 1 is happening again. Dev couldn't handle the differences between Ishwari and Sona post marriage because he tried to give them undivided love and attention, separately. So while he was busy with one of them, the other suffered. Similarly, this time both Suhana and Ayush are suffering because their parents are trying to love them separately, at each other's cost. When Ayush played the video game, Suhana had to give up her turn. When Suhana got her share of pampering, Ayush was not part of it, giving her misconception that she doesn't has to share her parent's attention with anyone.

There is a weird parallel between insecure Ishwari of S1 and Suhana of S3, and unwelcome/outsider Dr. Bose (pre-marriage) of S1 and Ayush of S3.

Both the kids need to be brought together and nurtured together by both the parents to heal their differences. When Suhana entered Golu was also insecure, but the elders handled it right and now the kids are thick as thieves.

The fact that Dev is not understanding how difficult it is for Sonakshi to suddenly come to terms that she did not know about her son Ayush for so long.. the guilt which she feels whenever she looks into Ayushman's eyes can't be understood. That too when Ishwari is repeatedly telling that a mother had to feel her child. Imagine the turmoil Sona is facing.

Ayush is also not ready to accept them as parents, he also needs time to understand what had happened. So baby steps are necessary. What Ishwari did during the pooja was so wrong. They had to give time to both the kids to understand the whole situation and that only Sonakshi can do. Just Dev needs to give her time.

Precap was amazing yesterday when Sonakshi answered Ishwari back. She needed it so badly. Ishwari despite living with her kids since their birth was able to heavily differentiate between them whereas Ayush has just entered Sonakshi's life and they still can't give her the time needed.

Originally posted by: King07

Todays episode especially the precap where Ishwari and Dev were just pointing the finger at her: im thinking why are you picking out her faults when u urself are making even greater mistakes?

Dev on one tell his mother that sona and soha need time and when asks for time, he gets upset and turns up the volume in the car? Dev really is a quandry and has similar traits to his mother where he cant handle multiple things at once. Very tunnel vision approach the both of them.

Ishwari is repeating what she did with her kids with Dev kids. Constantly suffocating Ayush with over attention and not letting him settle plus complaining that Sona should recognise and feel for Ayush instantly as Sona was pregnant with him for 9 months? Her logic dumbfounds me as u have to given anyone in Sona and Soha's situation time yet she cant grasp that. Thought Ishwari had changed coming into season 3 yet i think she hasnt at all.

My favourite part of the episode was the precap when Ishwari you shouldnt differenciate between ur kids yet Sona said how can you say this when you differenciated between Dev and his sisters. Glad she said something so blunt that Ishwari had no comeback. She needs a reality check that your not always right and u cant repeat the same mistakes of the past.

Okay, now I am definitely feeling the pressure on Sona.

Literally everyone in the show and outside are picking at Sona. Dev, Ishwari and even Mamaji are of the opinion that she is not making an effort. That side, Jatin and now from the precap, Bijoy are also asking Sona to make an effort.

I hope the makers have a point with all of this and are going somewhere with this. Because this is an enormous amount of heat on one character. It is particularly new where a mother is forced by every person available. Usually in Indian movies and TV, the mother is this infallible perfection of a human being, when it comes to her child. I feel everyone is holding Sona to this standard.

Dev is making the exact same mistake he did in Season 1 with Ishwari and Sonakshi. He admitted this so beautifully in the dinner episodes, that he loved each of them separately, when he should have been a bridge of love between them. Now, he is loving Suhana and Ayush separately when they aren't getting along, when he needs to find a bridge between them. Damn, how they have thrown away the character development of everyone!

Dev’s upbringing gets purely reflected in whatever he does in this case. Truth is sometimes he kick started his brain for some logical activity, again he fails miserably to differentiate between what is reality and what is succumbing yourselves in ma’s love. His education has to break the wall here and let him differentiate and how to treat people and understand them. But Good Lord! The man is drenched for a life time ethereally in mom’s pyaar. We know u had a traumatic childhood, ur mother was the ultimate self sacrificing woman. But shouldn’t blindfold you entirely when it comes to showering freedom and spoiling the life of others too for mother’s sake. He hasn’t still learn the balance or in my opinion, he doesn’t want to or feels it isn’t necessary at all.
the post makes a lot of sense