Originally posted by: sun29
@erilover..first and foremost a very warm welcome to this adda🤗and thank you for coming out of stalking and putting your pov ...
let me clear certain things for you...one we are really not that scary that you need to apologize so many times to us😆..it is just that some people come gun blazing and accuse ,abuse and taunt us without even trying to understand in what context we are discussing certain things...and that ofcourse irks us ..but it does not mean counter views are not welcome..it certainly is...
another thing you say it is not so complicated that they have to make it out such...let me tell you ..for last 2 years we have gone through more downs than ups and add to it shaheer's extremely stubborn behaviour and occasional goof ups and other things..but we reached adda 76 still coz by now we know more or less the pattern they function
thier story is not the boy meet girl and love story ..it is very complicated burdened by the scars of the past...shaheer was destroyed both personally and even more professionally with his last break up..he was publically humiliated and not only that immensely bashed by both his ex shippers and ex fans ..his family was dragged in the mud...and also you know...his ex fans who are so viscous put her daughter up for sale on internet...her little infant...police had to be called in ...he shut himself from the world and even now he has just allowing glimpses of his personal life
erica and her family has been bashed mercilessly and called names and she has been called a pr******e and such vile messages have been send to her entire family...her father's illness has been mocked by his ex fans who think sharica are together...put yourself in their shoes...will you even dare put yourself out in public view..your relatioship...you think sharica fans bash them??sharica fans do not even form 5% of the bashers...if shaheer had to avoid major bashing all he had to do was treat her like he treats all his other friends...ignore her on sns and ensure not even a pic is clicked with her that is personal ...if he had done that 95% of bashing would have reduced and most sharica shippers moved on...
but since she is not a friend and something more and he refuses to let people dictate him how to live you see the occasional pics and posts
and yes it is true..he and she does certain stuff to ensure that bashers are kept at bay ..and this is how they protect each other it is not wrong ...
you have seen the merc pics right...can you show me a single pic that shaheer has put up of her in the showroon...forget pic was she even in a second scene in the video posted..was that rude???then how on earth do you expect him to post her pics if she was at SP's house...did you see the merc video...erica was turning in the oppsite side the moment camera came ..she was not comfortable before camera...and the reason you do not see her in pics ..even if she was at SP's place and clicked pics with them did it occur that she might have requested not to like always..shaeer knows her by now...
recently his FC put up messages from his family for his movie...it was a sweet gesture...but you know what he did??he unfollowed them for invading his privacy to the extent tha tthey had to get down the video for him to follow them back..for a third person that was insulting his family..but his family knows him...
in short he is obsessively guarded about his personal space...if anyone tris to invade it he will ensure anything and everything to keep them at bay ..even if he has to fib 100 times he willl..and erica is his family...
everyone who knows him knows her..his whole family loves her ,his friends ,colleagues ..she is not a secret ..he flaunts her with pride and affection ...the only people not allowed are us..the faceless nameless strangers...tell me if i asked you for your name,home address,personal information or for that matter anyone..would you revela it to a complete stranger like me??never...
his one like on a funny meme has stirred up everyone given we hardly got anything ...we have seen and read worse stuff in past 2 years...about his single status,his loneliness and so on but still believe that we are not wrong...she friendzoning him and so on😆
shaheer would definitely not allow speculations to rise this up if she was not more than friend...both of them on and off have given fodder even after the show is over...
as for tomorrow..no one can predict it...we cannot even predict the next second..only hope and pray ..so God forbid if something happens that the ship does not sail..of course we will feel bad but none are so immature to bash them or curse them...we will console each other and move on with our life...untill then we can pray
and as jaysp said our addas run on speculation ,sometimes we hit the mark ,sometimes we do not...we have fun solving this mystery hece the minute detailing..it is not to porve anything to anyone but just fun...if they were indeed a PDA couple or straightforward...i doubt this adda would have reached 76😆
hope you do visit us regularly and put forward your vie
s welcome here...