ShaRica -Adda -76 - Page 26

Originally posted by: _sahiba_

OK everyone.I am extremely sorry for my early morning depressed post.This is what happens when you have just one week left for your exam and you are not prepared for it.And then your mother comes scolding you for not preparing and seeing your mobile in your hand ,she asks-subah subah Kis se baat ho rahi hai?and you have no answer to her question as you are reading adda posts.Then you start blaming other people for everything wrong and also start doubting yourself and your decisions.
p.s.I really need a break but again since my previous post I am stalking this adda.god help me.mummy maar daalengi agar paper nahi clear kiya to and ever worse no net connection as no WiFi.

Please log off IF and don't log in until exam is over. Your exam is your first priority. No need to read anymore posts or wonder what others responded to you. Curiosity kills.
Focus on what's important for your life and Good Luck with your exams!

Make a resolution that u will not come back to adda until u finish your exams and keep your resolve.

Originally posted by: _JINAL_

@sun my reaction

https://www.instagram.com/p/BekEFiXgYas/

beautiful write up ...u summed up everything 👏 nd it was needed too

Good morning girls 😃

First things first - 👏 Sun- very eloquently you presented the situation and what most of us here feel about it - there can't be any better or easier way to put it 🤗

So Shaheer is still flying in the air somewhere??? 😆

Btw, Jakarta - Udaipur flights take some 15/16 hrs - so that's a distinct possibility 🤣 ( its a joke btw and should not be taken seriously 😊 )

Sometimes their actions end up creating lots of confusion unnecessarily but the moment you come across some subtle gesture on their part, everything falls in place and our moods are uplifted immediately. This is what the adda is all about as I have come to understand. It comprises of people who lead fulfilling lives undertaking responsibilities of various kinds and come here to share some light moments on a subject which has come very close to our hearts 😳
We share info regarding our super couple, share our thoughts, voice our opinions, clarify our doubts but the bottom line is that we firmly believe that these two share much much more than just friendship at the present moment- what happens in the future is not in our control and nor should we lose our sleep or peace of mind over it - but there is one thing we can do- pray for their well-being and keep the hope alive in our hearts that these two are meant to be - the signs are everywhere and too strong to be ignored ❤️

But we also respect those who may think otherwise as everyone is entitled to their beliefs, thoughts and opinions 😊

Fear is a habit; so is self pity,
Defeat, despair, hopelessness and resignation.
We can eliminate all of these negative habits
With two simple resolves:
I CAN and I WILL

Happy Sunday friends 😃

Originally posted by: sun29

@erilover..first and foremost a very warm welcome to this adda🤗and thank you for coming out of stalking and putting your pov ...

let me clear certain things for you...one we are really not that scary that you need to apologize so many times to us😆..it is just that some people come gun blazing and accuse ,abuse and taunt us without even trying to understand in what context we are discussing certain things...and that ofcourse irks us ..but it does not mean counter views are not welcome..it certainly is...

another thing you say it is not so complicated that they have to make it out such...let me tell you ..for last 2 years we have gone through more downs than ups and add to it shaheer's extremely stubborn behaviour and occasional goof ups and other things..but we reached adda 76 still coz by now we know more or less the pattern they function

thier story is not the boy meet girl and love story ..it is very complicated burdened by the scars of the past...shaheer was destroyed both personally and even more professionally with his last break up..he was publically humiliated and not only that immensely bashed by both his ex shippers and ex fans ..his family was dragged in the mud...and also you know...his ex fans who are so viscous put her daughter up for sale on internet...her little infant...police had to be called in ...he shut himself from the world and even now he has just allowing glimpses of his personal life

erica and her family has been bashed mercilessly and called names and she has been called a pr******e and such vile messages have been send to her entire family...her father's illness has been mocked by his ex fans who think sharica are together...put yourself in their shoes...will you even dare put yourself out in public view..your relatioship...you think sharica fans bash them??sharica fans do not even form 5% of the bashers...if shaheer had to avoid major bashing all he had to do was treat her like he treats all his other friends...ignore her on sns and ensure not even a pic is clicked with her that is personal ...if he had done that 95% of bashing would have reduced and most sharica shippers moved on...

but since she is not a friend and something more and he refuses to let people dictate him how to live you see the occasional pics and posts

and yes it is true..he and she does certain stuff to ensure that bashers are kept at bay ..and this is how they protect each other it is not wrong ...

you have seen the merc pics right...can you show me a single pic that shaheer has put up of her in the showroon...forget pic was she even in a second scene in the video posted..was that rude???then how on earth do you expect him to post her pics if she was at SP's house...did you see the merc video...erica was turning in the oppsite side the moment camera came ..she was not comfortable before camera...and the reason you do not see her in pics ..even if she was at SP's place and clicked pics with them did it occur that she might have requested not to like always..shaeer knows her by now...

recently his FC put up messages from his family for his movie...it was a sweet gesture...but you know what he did??he unfollowed them for invading his privacy to the extent tha tthey had to get down the video for him to follow them back..for a third person that was insulting his family..but his family knows him...

in short he is obsessively guarded about his personal space...if anyone tris to invade it he will ensure anything and everything to keep them at bay ..even if he has to fib 100 times he willl..and erica is his family...

everyone who knows him knows her..his whole family loves her ,his friends ,colleagues ..she is not a secret ..he flaunts her with pride and affection ...the only people not allowed are us..the faceless nameless strangers...tell me if i asked you for your name,home address,personal information or for that matter anyone..would you revela it to a complete stranger like me??never...

his one like on a funny meme has stirred up everyone given we hardly got anything ...we have seen and read worse stuff in past 2 years...about his single status,his loneliness and so on but still believe that we are not wrong...she friendzoning him and so on😆

shaheer would definitely not allow speculations to rise this up if she was not more than friend...both of them on and off have given fodder even after the show is over...

as for tomorrow..no one can predict it...we cannot even predict the next second..only hope and pray ..so God forbid if something happens that the ship does not sail..of course we will feel bad but none are so immature to bash them or curse them...we will console each other and move on with our life...untill then we can pray

and as jaysp said our addas run on speculation ,sometimes we hit the mark ,sometimes we do not...we have fun solving this mystery hece the minute detailing..it is not to porve anything to anyone but just fun...if they were indeed a PDA couple or straightforward...i doubt this adda would have reached 76😆

hope you do visit us regularly and put forward your views...always welcome here...

Originally posted by: sun29

yaar you girls really need to stop apologizing for everything ..kabhi kabhi ha jaata hai...everyone has an off day ...and sahiba..your personal life and exams are much much much more important than this...so please please get off and try and concentrate and study...do not let anything hamper that coz once you lose that chance ther eis no point regretting

hence all the best for your exams and take a break now...no worries..given our phooti kismet we all will be here solving puzzles even after you come back finishing your exams😆😆

thank you 😊

Originally posted by: Ginger2010

Good morning girls 😃

First things first - 👏 Sun- very eloquently you presented the situation and what most of us here feel about it - there can't be any better or easier way to put it 🤗

So Shaheer is still flying in the air somewhere??? 😆

Btw, Jakarta - Udaipur flights take some 15/16 hrs - so that's a distinct possibility 🤣 ( its a joke btw and should not be taken seriously 😊 )

Sometimes their actions end up creating lots of confusion unnecessarily but the moment you come across some subtle gesture on their part, everything falls in place and our moods are uplifted immediately. This is what the adda is all about as I have come to understand. It comprises of people who lead fulfilling lives undertaking responsibilities of various kinds and come here to share some light moments on a subject which has come very close to our hearts 😳
We share info regarding our super couple, share our thoughts, voice our opinions, clarify our doubts but the bottom line is that we firmly believe that these two share much much more than just friendship at the present moment- what happens in the future is not in our control and nor should we lose our sleep or peace of mind over it - but there is one thing we can do- pray for their well-being and keep the hope alive in our hearts that these two are meant to be - the signs are everywhere and too strong to be ignored ❤️

But we also respect those who may think otherwise as everyone is entitled to their beliefs, thoughts and opinions 😊

Fear is a habit; so is self pity,
Defeat, despair, hopelessness and resignation.
We can eliminate all of these negative habits
With two simple resolves:
I CAN and I WILL

Happy Sunday friends 😃

Hello Guyz! And A Verry Good Morning! Since my exam got over..so am frree free right now...aram se Ship karna hai abtoh indono ko ! So Hello Guyz..and phir se swagat nei karoge humara...!😎

Originally posted by: _sahiba_

OK everyone.I am extremely sorry for my early morning depressed post.This is what happens when you have just one week left for your exam and you are not prepared for it.And then your mother comes scolding you for not preparing and seeing your mobile in your hand ,she asks-subah subah Kis se baat ho rahi hai?and you have no answer to her question as you are reading adda posts.Then you start blaming other people for everything wrong and also start doubting yourself and your decisions.
p.s.I really need a break but again since my previous post I am stalking this adda.god help me.mummy maar daalengi agar paper nahi clear kiya to and ever worse no net connection as no WiFi.
genuine apologies if someone felt bad for my previous post.

Originally posted by: Monaleojan

Hello Guyz! And A Verry Good Morning! Since my exam got over..so am frree free right now...aram se Ship karna hai abtoh indono ko ! So Hello Guyz..and phir se swagat nei karoge humara...!😎

Originally posted by: _sahiba_

OK everyone.I am extremely sorry for my early morning depressed post.This is what happens when you have just one week left for your exam and you are not prepared for it.And then your mother comes scolding you for not preparing and seeing your mobile in your hand ,she asks-subah subah Kis se baat ho rahi hai?and you have no answer to her question as you are reading adda posts.Then you start blaming other people for everything wrong and also start doubting yourself and your decisions.
p.s.I really need a break but again since my previous post I am stalking this adda.god help me.mummy maar daalengi agar paper nahi clear kiya to and ever worse no net connection as no WiFi.
genuine apologies if someone felt bad for my previous post.