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Posted: 8 years ago
#51
All your thoughts regarding the possibility of infertility track is very interesting. I so wish the Dixits get an eye opening reality check in this matter. How they treated Sona and how low they made her feel. They made a strong independent girl like Sona to doubt herself and ask herself whether she deserves to be loved. This matter needs to come up and make them realize what if Soha was never born. What if Sona did not have a child. Would they still be hating her ?
I hope I am able to convey what I want to say.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pooja118

All your thoughts regarding the possibility of infertility track is very interesting. I so wish the Dixits get an eye opening reality check in this matter. How they treated Sona and how low they made her feel. They made a strong independent girl like Sona to doubt herself and ask herself whether she deserves to be loved. This matter needs to come up and make them realize what if Soha was never born. What if Sona did not have a child. Would they still be hating her ?

I hope I am able to convey what I want to say.

So who are included in ' Dixits" I want to know. The mother ,the son and all the three sisters? Or you included Tripathis also in Dixits? So all these total eight people harassed Sona for her infertility?
Then why did Dev marry her knowing that she can not give birth to a baby?

By the way who hated her? As far as I know Iswari always is insecure and had her reservations in accepting Sona.

Neha had a problem only after Sonakshi meddled in her decision to stay away from Ranveer.

Riya and Nikki,I did not remember them hating Sonakshi. So why are you saying Dixits have to realise. I can not agree with Timba's views also.

Dev already took a decision regarding Sonakshi. He married her despite her infertility. That is his stand. To shout before his mother always is not his method.

Why? Even Sonakshi also is taking it slow with Iswari now. She did not tell her about the relationship. She just said he is Nikki's boy friend. Isn't that half truth? She will say Iswari won't swallow the facts all together. So she is proceeding slowly.

Same was Dev's position then.He wanted to take time and convince Iswari about her infertility. What wrong did he do? What Sona is doing now Dev did the same then. I can't see any difference between both.

Dev loved his mother so he lied and took time hiding the truth.
Now Sona loves Iswari so she hid half the truth.

I don't regret any word that I said here. I mean what I said.


Lakshmi
Edited by ltelidevara - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

So who are included in ' Dixits" I want to know. The mother ,the son and all the three sisters? Or you included Tripathis also in Dixits? So all these total eight people harassed Sona for her infertility?

Then why did Dev marry her knowing that she can not give birth to a baby?

By the way who hated her? As far as I know Iswari always is insecure and had her reservations in accepting Sona.

Neha had a problem only after Sonakshi meddled in her decision to stay away from Ranveer.

Riya and Nikki,I did not remember them hating Sonakshi. So why are you saying Dixits have to realise. I can not agree with Timba's views also.

Dev already took a decision regarding Sonakshi. He married her despite her infertility. That is his stand. To shout before his mother always is not his method.

Why? Even Sonakshi also is taking it slow with Iswari now. She did not tell her about the relationship. She just said he is Nikki's boy friend. Isn't that half truth? She will say Iswari won't swallow the facts all together. So she is proceeding slowly.

Same was Dev's position then.He wanted to take time and convince Iswari about her infertility. What wrong did he do? What Sona is doing now Dev did the same then. I can't see any difference between both.

Dev loved his mother so he lied and took time hiding the truth.
Now Sona loves Iswari so she hid half the truth.

I don't regret any word that I said here. I mean what I said.


Lakshmi

It s ok that you are not agree with my views 😊 . See the thing is you are correct that ishu was insecure and thats why she was having an problem with sona but it is the truth for me that I am still not able to forgive her the way she treated sona when the entire infertility was out I still remember what she said that not I will show what happens in the house and she purposefully go
to the temple. she knows her this act will trigger dev. I agree that dev loved sona and due to the fear to loose the sona she hide the facts and it was started with the one lie that is she is pregnant in the hope that his mother may accept sona which he wants but the same fear had cost him a lot. I am a women so I cannot accept the Ishu's behavior. To take the treatment or not is the couple decision but Ishu forced dev to take this decision without giving the thought how sona must be felling and when sona ask her that after the treatment if she was she was not able to convince what will be her status in dev's life up to that extend sona was broken at that point but dev fail to give her the confidence at that point he should stop her mother and said that let me and sona decide what should get done even previously she was having a problem that dev want to go to paris with sona and when she want the treatment was suppose to start she send them to simala and at that point also she was everywhere in which was disturbing sona to that extend that she feels that she is not here to relax and but for the mission dixit baby. And this is wrong. I know you are having your own opinion and I respect that and its ok to disagree with the other person but at that phase Ishu was very wrong and same with dev his fail our to make the balance had hurt sona. I know sona is also not perfect she also had her share of mistakes in the past but the thing which is wrong is wrong . So I disagree with you. I can say because I have seen many of my friends going with this treatment phase and I know how they must feeling at this point when a woman understands she is having a problem she require a support which dev fail to give. I know he loves sona a lot but at that point she need him. Ones agin this is my opinion sorry if you find my post aggressive but honestly at this point where I am not able to forget how they behaved especially Ishu mata and dev for not handling the situation . I am not angry on them because I feel they have paid the price of this .And about the neha she was having a problem with sona because she was jealous with her and that was the root cause for the problem and this is because she feels her mother had neglected her . If by any how I hurt you then I am sorry for it.
Edited by timbarucha83 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#54
But I don't think dixits r hating sona. Ishwari was insecure about her but she loved her as a person .
Neha she hates sona bcz sonakshi used to interfare in her matter .
Nikki riya umm never..
If u r talking about vikki & radharani then they not part of dixit family

And even dev agree do marry sona in spite of knowing that she can't given a birth of a child

and if cvs show ronita's infirlity just to compare dixits and boses then I will stop watching this show
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@ Timba
Let us agree to disagree.
I don't blame Dev and I feel I am right in my place. Sonakshi can not hurt Iswari by telling her about the live in relationship. She took time. Being a daughter in law she is that concerned about Iswari . So Dev as a son will have more such concern because infertility issue is a much bigger issue,that should be dealt with carefully. I know how it causes bitterness and breaks many families. Hence Dev did not dare to tell his mother. I can understand. It is fine if you think otherwise.

And Iswari did not accept Sona because of Soha. She realised Sona's concern and good hearted ness in Khatri issue. This is my answer to Puja who said what would be Sona's position if Soha is not there.

Any way let us keep our views intact without continuing further. For,I feel the damage caused to Dixit family due to Sonakshi's impulsive break up and meddling in Neha issue etc is more than what she suffered as Dixit Bahu.


I have no bitter feelings for difference in outlook.I know there are less people who think like me. It is fine with me.



Lakshmi

Edited by ltelidevara - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The same old never ending blame game.

Our mahaan bahu, she clearly knows that her dear mom or mil doesn't like her and never leaves a chance to taunt her. Still she never had any issue with her MIL's over flowing love from the moment they thought Sona is pregnant. She even said it openly that her baby is the solution for all her problems with her dear saasuma. She called her baby lucky since her relationship with her saas became over sweet with her pregnancy news that too over night. Wow, so heart touching.

Our monster patiDev, he hid her health issues from his wife as well as mother to keep Sona in his life. He also told Sona that all he wants is she in his life and nothing else matters to him. The immediate next day, he comes and asks his wife whether she is ready for the treatment so that he can bring back the trantrum Queen.

Our masoom maa, she is a woman and a mother of four kids still doesn't had any empathy towards her son or dil when she comes to know that they can't become parents. Because her pain of not able to become grand MA is greater than their pain of not able to become parents. I am speechless with her level of insensitivity when she asked these two whether they're ready for the treatment before entire family by making a dirty drama out of such sensitive and private issue between a couple.

Half baked infertility track was the worst track in the entire KRPKAB history where the makers butchered all the three lead characters pathetically without any mercy. Honestly speaking, I don't have any sympathy for any of these characters in this track.
Edited by LiveLife321 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: _suchi_

But I don't think dixits r hating sona. Ishwari was insecure about her but she loved her as a person .
Neha bbshe hates sona bcz sonakshi used to interfare in her matter .
Nikki riya umm never..
If u r talking about vikki & radharani then they not part of dixit family

And even dev agree do marry sona in spite of knowing that she can't given a birth of a child

and if cvs show ronita's infirlity just to compare dixits and boses then I will stop watching this show

Claps Suchi. Thumbs up . As if they are Mahan people Boses should demonstrate how to treat their DIL. Had hoti hai.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Claps Suchi. Thumbs up . As if they are Mahan people Boses should demonstrate how to treat their DIL. Had hoti hai.


Lakshmi

thanks 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am tired of seeing sensitive issues like infertility or miscarriage, being made a joke in daily soaps, just to increase the drama quotient...

I was really hopeful that this show might finally handle these topics with the care that these issues deserve but unfortunately, it was not the case...

(I have always said it that the reason for the infertility track to be presented the way, it is was to just provide a good enough reason to justify the separation...)

But, anyways, it will be absolutely ridiculous for the creatives to show infertility problems in Saurabh & Ronita's case just to teach Ishwari and Dev where they have went wrong...

In my opinion, Dev has already been punished for his 'not standing up' for his wife by losing the first 6 years of his daughter's life...

And, Ishwari's true redemption is simply her whole hearted acceptance of Sona, not only as his son's partner... But, also welcoming her back in her life as her daughter... I will not be wrong to say that she now truly loves Sona as a mother...

In fact, I believe that the main track of this show (how a mother will accept her beloved son's partner and how the three people involved in this triangle will come to accept and love each other) is already over... In my opinion, the 350th episode marked the end of this main arc...

Now, I believe, they are more or less, closing the remaining tracks or filling the gaps that they have left in the storyline...

And, lastly, while I find Saurabh & Ronita's scenes to be cute... But, I don't have any kind of strong attachment to either of these characters... Plus, I feel the actors portraying these characters don't have the acting prowess required to do justice to this extremely sensitive issue/track... (Since, I have rarely seen them in a scene which requires delicate handling)

We have to also recognise the fact that none of the characters in the Bose family (apart from Bijoy and Asha, to a certain extent) play any kind of significant role in the storyline... They are mostly used as the fillers and it doesn't make much sense for the CVs to make them the center of such a crucial and sensitive track...

-Suyash.
Edited by Harryfan011 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pooja118

All your thoughts regarding the possibility of infertility track is very interesting. I so wish the Dixits get an eye opening reality check in this matter. How they treated Sona and how low they made her feel. They made a strong independent girl like Sona to doubt herself and ask herself whether she deserves to be loved. This matter needs to come up and make them realize what if Soha was never born. What if Sona did not have a child. Would they still be hating her ?

I hope I am able to convey what I want to say.




Pooja, you ask some very good questions. Answers to which are subjective. Some can be inferred. Others will remain open depending on where you look at the situation at. For example, we will never know if Ishwari would have cared if Sona had a baby as a result of the treatment or not. There are many such open questions and we have to wait and watch to see if we get answers to those or not


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