*Season 2, Week 26* Analysis Thread

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Shaavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: Pooja118
All your thoughts regarding the possibility of infertility track is very interesting. I so wish the Dixits get an eye opening reality check in this matter. How they treated Sona and how low they made her feel. They made a strong independent girl like Sona to doubt herself and ask herself whether she deserves to be loved. This matter needs to come up and make them realize what if Soha was never born. What if Sona did not have a child. Would they still be hating her ?
I hope I am able to convey what I want to say.

I didn't think I would reply, but am still doing it. @bold blue. Ishwari's dislike of Sonakshi was not due to Sonakshi's infertility issues. That was one more thing that was added that's all. Her dislike of Sonakshi stemmed from a different place. As to the answer to your question, the CVs already showed the answer when Ishwari asked Dev if he would get Sonakshi back in his life in the name of Suhana. All the episodes where they showed Ishwari still disliking Sonakshi is to show that Suhana had very little to do with Ishwari changing her mind. It is not Suhana's presence or absence that changed Ishwari's perception of Sonakshi. Suhana helped Sonakshi to understand Ishwari's perspective that's all.

And Dixits are really open and understanding when it comes to "family". They understand the meaning of it better than anyone else. And my views regarding Saurabh and Ronita are completely different. But will not say anything for now. But am sure(98%) that the baby track of Saurabh and Ronita will definitely be an eye opener for the Boses, especially Bijoy.

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timbarucha83

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Posted: 8 years ago

#62

By the way guyes what you think about vickki. What do you feel how they will shape this character as per the info which we are getting from the various updates he is getting more and more angry. So what do you think about this character. What is the reason that he get turned like this. Is it the out come of mamji's failed love strory ok let me elebrote the point. Mamji was in love with the another girl but he was not able to get married to her. So some how may be this or due to the mamiji's behaviour he was not able to connect with her as a life partner and due to his more love to her sister and her childern their was alway a comprision between dev and vickki and mamiji's grid become rich had an impact on him. This was the foundation of this character but it seems that now he is getting out of control . What do you think . Preciosuly he was gray but now he is turning black.

Edited by timbarucha83 - 8 years ago

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asha2012

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Posted: 8 years ago

#63

@shaavi

Hi.I hope you dont mind me stating my views to what you have said on this thread:

Dixits may be open and understanding when it comes to 'family' - but it would depend upon who they consider as family. from day one of the Devakshi marriage in Season 1, Sona was not treated as a part of the family. I genuinely believe that Sona would not have gone on an overdrive to fix things in the Dixit household (like neha's marriage) if she was made fully aware of the background of the family and the crosses each of the family members bear because of their past and the reason for the close equation which Dev shares with ishwari.

Ishwari put the entire blame of the infertility issue on Sonakshi - which in my view was very cruel. The whole issue became that Ishwari wanted a grandchild. She actually did not believe that Sona was unaware of the infertility issue. If she really cared about family would she not have rebuked Dev for slapping his father in law. Would her reaction have been the same had Dev 'accidently' slapped Mamaji. I believe no.

The above having been said, I am not saying that Sonakshi was right always. She also made mistakes. Her way of dealing with adversity was trying to win always. Which is also not correct. From Bijoy's perspective Dev had failed him big time twice - one when he broke up with Sona in the hospital, then many times when they were married and finally when te slapgate happened and finally when they were thrown out of their house.

If the Boses were wrong the Dixits were wrong and cruel too in Season 1.

IShwari now has changed for the better. Dev and Sona also realised their mistakes. But see Dev still has not spoken about his missing 7 years yet.

Hence maybe this track would lead them to be more empathetic towards issues like infertility.

Sorry I did not mean to offend you and just wanted to put forward my views.

Cheers

Asha

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thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

#64

Timba..

Originally posted by: timbarucha83
By the way guyes what you think about vickki. What do you feel how they will shape this character as per the info which we are getting from the various updates he is getting more and more angry. So what do you think about this character. What is the reason that he get turned like this. Is it the out come of mamji's failed love strory ok let me elebrote the point. Mamji was in love with the another girl but he was not able to get married to her. So some how may be this or due to the mamiji's behaviour he was not able to connect with her as a life partner and due to his more love to her sister and her childern their was alway a comprision between dev and vickki and mamiji's grid become rich had an impact on him. This was the foundation of this character but it seems that now he is getting out of control . What do you think . Preciosuly he was gray but now he is turning black.

Vicky's hood since that morning has been bothering me a lot.. and then a dear friend pointed out his contacts too.

Like Sam said, this is the difference between Dev and Vicky.. Dev does not take anything for granted. However, this point is lost on Vicky. Be it success at business or being the family favourite. Nothing gets handed over to Dev...

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

In yesterday's scene, for example, his mood was heavily effected by his anxiety regarding his own appearance. And he wasn't just worried about how he looked to Sona, he felt accountable for Golu's faith in him as well (which is what makes him such a great parent -- he knows he has to work to be worthy of that adoration).

What Vicky really needs is for someone to make him feel worthy of what he is. Not like mami goes about it or how mamaji keep demeaning him. Something he is genuinely proud of.. for example the 7K run. He was genuinely happy and proud of himself that morning. Dev being Dev actually used that opportunity and encouraged Vicky saying he needs help here. The absolute bummer though was Vicky brought up Sonakshi into the same conversation and Dev went into a very endearing Sona-charitmanas mode

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thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

#65

Good to see you back Shaavi.. you were missed

Originally posted by: Shaavi

I didn't think I would reply, but am still doing it.

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Shaavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#66

Thanks DQ. 😊

Edited by Shaavi - 8 years ago

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Calvin341

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Posted: 8 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: Harryfan011

In my opinion, Dev has already been punished for his 'not standing up' for his wife by losing the first 6 years of his daughter's life...

And, Ishwari's true redemption is simply her whole hearted acceptance of Sona, not only as his son's partner... But, also welcoming her back in her life as her daughter... I will not be wrong to say that she now truly loves Sona as a mother...

In fact, I believe that the main track of this show (how a mother will accept her beloved son's partner and how the three people involved in this triangle will come to accept and love each other) is already over... In my opinion, the 350th episode marked the end of this main arc...

Now, I believe, they are more or less, closing the remaining tracks or filling the gaps that they have left in the storyline...

My thoughts exactly..it makes no sense to show Dixits vs Boses at this stage when all the characters have realised what they lost when they made some bad decisions...no need to dig that grave again..

Usually in Hindi shows we don't have a start middle and end..but here i used to imagine an end scene..and that is exactly what they showed on 350th episode..

ishwari is not an evil lady who hated her son's wife but was so insecure because she thought her son would leave her when he comes to know about her theft and be proved that she is not perfect..and a girl like Sonakshi who is strong and independent who had a different thinking only increased it..but now she has realised how baseless her insecurities were how wrong she was to think that Dev would leave and Sona would encourage him or worse be the reason for him to leave her..while in reality nit only did Dev not leave her but also that Sona helped the crack between them fill by giving confidence to Dev..👏

And right now all the three protagonists walking half and meeting the other in the mid way in the relationahip is what marks the end for me..

So anything after that is a bonus for me..I will just sit back and savour the episodes like savour the dessert..😆😳

P.S:excuse grammatical or spelling mistakes..types from phone..btw I hardly write here due to time constraints but when I have time I come here to read...great write-ups by everyone..only makes the experience of watching more interesting..

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ltelidevara

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Posted: 8 years ago

#68

Asha

Sonakshi can promise Bijoy that she won't let Dev enter her life again . That is justified. She can not move her finger without her father's consent. .But Dev can not break up for the sake of his hospitalised mother. Right?

Dev failed Bijoy many times after marriage? I will say Sonakshi failed as Bahu and wife. She remained a Bose but never tried to be a Dixit I say.

And slap gate? It was accidental and Dev apologised. Bijoy misbehaved with Dev and destroyed his daughter's family life.

Truly I agree with Shaavi. Dixits are a family ...not Boses.

Lakshmi.

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asha2012

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Posted: 8 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: ltelidevara
The above having been said, I am not saying that Sonakshi was right always. She also made mistakes. Her way of dealing with adversity was trying to win always. Which is also not correct. From Bijoy's perspective Dev had failed him big time twice - one when he broke up with Sona in the hospital, then many times when they were married and finally when te slapgate happened and finally when they were thrown out of their house.

Asha

Sonakshi can promise Bijoy that she won't let Dev enter her life again . That is justified. She can not move her finger without her father's consent. .But Dev can not break up for the sake of his hospitalised mother. Right?

Dev failed Bijoy many times after marriage? I will say Sonakshi failed as Bahu and wife. She remained a Bose but never tried to be a Dixit I say.

And slap gate? It was accidental and Dev apologised. Bijoy misbehaved with Dev and destroyed his daughter's family life.

Truly I agree with Shaavi. Dixits are a family ...not Boses.

Lakshmi.

@ Lakshmi

I think lets agree to disagree.

This is not really about the Boses Vs Dixits. I think i did not get the point across very clearly. I genuinely believe that both Dev and Sona made mistakes. If the wife tries to find out what went wrong in her sister in law's marriage is that wrong? Wouldnt we do that for our own siblings. Also in this case, Neha was openly jealous of Dev and Sona's happiness. Wouldnt that have to be corrected by the matriarch. I am not saying that Dev breaking up for his mother's sake is wrong - but the way he went about it is wrong. He could have always said that lets discuss in the morning. Also I think its a betrayal of sorts if the husband does not reveal a serious health issue concerning his wife to her.

I think he should have told Sona and told her and convinced her that he still wants to marry her.

This is purely my view.

Cheers and have a nice evening!

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timbarucha83

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Posted: 8 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: asha2012

This is not really about the Boses Vs Dixits. I think i did not get the point across very clearly. I genuinely believe that both Dev and Sona made mistakes. If the wife tries to find out what went wrong in her sister in law's marriage is that wrong? Wouldnt we do that for our own siblings. Also in this case, Neha was openly jealous of Dev and Sona's happiness. Wouldnt that have to be corrected by the matriarch. I am not saying that Dev breaking up for his mother's sake is wrong - but the way he went about it is wrong. He could have always said that lets discuss in the morning. Also I think its a betrayal of sorts if the husband does not reveal a serious health issue concerning his wife to her.

I think he should have told Sona and told her and convinced her that he still wants to marry her.

This is purely my view.

Cheers and have a nice evening!

I completly agree at this point that us it not bose vs dixit or dev vs sona . Both dev and sonahad done mistakes and both families had their own share of mistakes. I know now ishu has accepted sona and dev also know his misakes but still it is my wish that if ishu accepts her mistake during the infertitily track then I will be happy . Even I don't want she sholud say sorry to her but I want her relalization . In the same way when vickki and mami's truth will be out I want sona and bose families relasation that they shold have trusted dev and not vickki .