Sonakshi, the keys and maamiji

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Highlight of today's episode was Sonakshi returning the keys to maami. On the surface it looks like a wrong move by Sonakshi, but when i thought about it, it feels like a smart move and in a way right. It will become right if maami behaves the way I think she will behave. If maami misuses then what Sonakshi did will be wrong. I am curious, yet sure that this is the path CVs are taking. 😊 .
Like any other person, even maami wanted a good life. She had hoped to find it through maamaji. But like so many others, he was happy with what he had. What she had expected was when Dev rose, he would take them with him. i.e. elevate them too. But that didn't happen. While Dev lived in a mansion, maami had to live in a small house where there was no A.C or any of the luxuries that she dreamed of. I agree that Vickky was supposed to work hard and gain that for them. But then again he didn't get the good upbringing to do that. It does not excuse them from what they did or do. But it explains their motives. When Dev did not elevate them, maami felt like an outsider. She wanted to be an insider to Dixit family, so that she can reap the benefits of Dev's hard work. She thought her husband had done so much for them and so they should get their dreams fulfilled by them in return. She found a way to enter IN.

She wanted to be in a similar place to Ishwari, get the same respect as her. She thought that money is what brought Ishwari that respect. What she is yet to learn is respect is earned not brought. The greed of wanting that place led maami to do all the things that she did which ended with Sonakshi leaving IN. Maami was happy because she got what she wanted, the ownership of IN in a way. She began running IN like it is her home, her household. She considered IN as her "home". With Sonakshi coming back to Delhi she feared that she will lose her place and all the luxuries. That is the reason she did all the planning to keep Sonakshi away from IN. And Ishwari did exactly what maami thought she would. Ishwari took away the keys and gave it to Sonakshi, thereby indirectly saying that Sonakshi was "apna", while maami was "paraya". Just like Sonakshi or Ishwari, maami too has her insecurities. She always wanted Ishwari and her family to consider her as "apna". Dixit family might have done so in words, but by subtle actions, she always felt that she was treated like "paraya".

Today Sonakshi gave back the keys willingly and thereby told maami that she is not "paraya". That she is in fact "family", "apne". Till now maami took things from Dixit "tijori" as she called it theirs. That she was taking from "paraya". But now that Sonakshi has handed her the keys and said that this house is yours and it belongs to you as much as it belongs to us, she made maami "apna" to Dixits and in a way vice versa. Maami might be ok in stealing from Dixits, but is she ok from stealing from her "own home". I don't think so. The next time maami puts her hand to steal anything, the first thought that will come is "I am stealing from my own home". She truly made IN maami's home, made her dream come true. By giving the keys willingly Sonakshi is taking away maami's will to steal.This might not happen immediately, but as the story progresses, we will see this change in maami.

And this applies to maami and not Vickky. He is another story. 😃 . But my guess is in a way by giving the keys, Sonakshi has created the very needed crack between maami and Vickky. Maami wanted ownership at IN, while Vickky wanted ownership at Dixit Communications. Although maami got respect at IN, Vickky has not got that. Sonakshi by giving the keys has made sure maami is happy and thereby she will be less inclined to plot against her. Although Vickky has got the post of CEO, he is not satisfied. He wants everything. But then he had a partner till now. With the current move, Vickky kind of lost that partner. He is going to be alone and maami will start atoning.

This is my pov. The story might not go this way, but this is my experience and just have penned this down. 😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lovely post Shaavi. The crack between maami n Vicki is something that I am looking forward too.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

Lovely post Shaavi. The crack between maami n Vicki is something that I am looking forward too.



Thanks Geena. It reminded me of Mahabharata. In that too Dritharasthra wanted to be king and couldn't due to him being blind. He always despised Pandava for that. Filled his son's heart with hatred towards the Pandavas. Was happy when his son became the crown prince. Didn't correct Duryodhana's mistakes. But after the fight when Pandavas came back he willingly gave up the throne, accepted his mistakes and went to the forest to do penance for his mistakes. This is what I felt seeing that whole thing.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Exactly! Bang on.

Even i thought that what Sonakshi did was actually a very clever move.i thought it was deliberate.No one knows GKB more than Sonakshi. She knew how GKB might be feeling right now and it was dangerous.She knows how GKB behaves when she is made to feel unimportant.If she hadn't done that then GKB would have started to do what she used to do 7yrs back .. create MUs and started planning and plotting to get that importance back.

The only way to stop maami from doing that was to distract her . And Sonakshi did exactly that. She made her feel important twice ..once when giving back the keys and second infront of Ishwari.She made her feel superior to ishwari.(And though maami has the keys, She doesn't hold the rights anymore- nobody listens to her ) And actually you can see the change in the kitchen scene- GKB being all sweet to Sonakshi.. though she was just acting but still she was so distracted by having the keys with her that she did not mind ishwari and sonakshi's bond which she usually does.


Those who are saying that GKB can create MU between ishwari and Sonakshi due to this then NO she can't do that anymore that's because she accepted the keys. She already lost the opportunity to do that. It would have worked for her had she taken the keys to ishwari during night only and would have told her about sonakshi giving the keys to her and disrespecting her decision and filled her ears against her.

And lastly ,GKB's problem is not Sonakshi but rather her fear of everything being snatched away from her due to Sonakshi so Sonakshi giving back the keys must have somewhere lessened her insecurity.you never know that from now on she starts favoring Sonakshi to have importance in the house.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaavi



Thanks Geena. It reminded me of Mahabharata. In that too Dritharasthra wanted to be king and couldn't due to him being blind. He always despised Pandava for that. Filled his son's heart with hatred towards the Pandavas. Was happy when his son became the crown prince. Didn't correct Duryodhana's mistakes. But after the fight when Pandavas came back he willingly gave up the throne, accepted his mistakes and went to the forest to do penance for his mistakes. This is what I felt seeing that whole thing.


Beautiful analogy. 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shaavi interesting discussion.

I would say this can either work in favor of Sonakshi or can backfire very badly .I am not sure if it's a good idea to trust a person like RR .It's like raising a python as a pet .There will always be risk associated with it

Sonakshi knows how low RR and her red can stoop .A women who can burn her husband's hard earned property for her benefit can definitely misuse the power to dethrone Dixits.

i feel handing keys back to RR is like handing one pair keys to the burglar with the hope that they won't steal anything.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Actually in a way whatever Sonakshi has done is good. If Mami changes because of that then it will turn out to be a master stroke but if she does not then Sonakshi will also learn her lesson in a hard way that it is not always right to be magnanimous, sometimes it's better to just hold back. Also she cannot blame anyone if something goes wrong as she herself has taken that decision and will need to own that up.
Just my POV.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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How things pan out in future wud be difficult to ascertain coz this step of Sona has more chances of backfiring written all over it. But I really feel it was a good move.
By giving keys back to Gkb, Sona might avoid a lot of kitchen politics atleast for some time n be free of such responsibilities which wud definitely cause her more stress. She is not just a nutritionist anymore but a business woman...instead of trying to run a house where she wud be tested on doing works she doesnt enjoy, she can put full focus on her business n get more steessfree time to spend with Dev.

Obviously Ish felt bad Sona didnt tell her first...n Sona apologised for it. This was also good coz Gkb wud see that Sona wasnt forced by anyone to give the keys but she did it on her own.

And you very well said...such acts by Sona can definitely lead to cracks between Gkb n her red.

P.S. I wud hv loved if Sona wud hav returned d keys coz kaun yeh sar dard le...let me enjoy my life 😆😉 who cares abt house keys 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Stupendous post Shaavi👏. Frankly I thought about this angle when GKB's face brightened and softened at the same time when Sona said "this is your house and its true you have managed this all along, even in future you will continue to do it and we will follow you". As you rightly pointed out GKB cannot steal from her own house and may side with Sona in future which is going to be heartburn for Vicky. But her last sarcasm is what holding my horses that maybe its a way for Sona to realise her decision may not always be fruitful since it was exercised without Ishwari's knowledge. Whatever it is am seeing the future story in the line of opening Sonakshi's side effects of righteousness. I maybe wrong but this week episodes have renewed my hope with the makers , so fingers crossed😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beauitful post. I would like to add another aspect of this at thid point I think it is the wise decision.because to get this power in the form ok keys mami has done all this things. At this moment sona requires the peace of mind by which she can constrate of dev and i know she want to bring back the sisters to make dixit family strong. See why mami was able to harm dev and ishu because dixit's was never a family. And mamiji has take all the efforts to reduced the strength of dixits. So from a long term point of view first dev and ishu must be in the firm means ishu should be active in the home so if the keys remains with mami still it is ok but mami required to listen ishu and sona and ishu can be one team.so mami wil use gui in programming tearms and actula logic will be control by dixit sasa bahu.In the same way for dev also he requied some time to get himslf back in the control and for that he and sona shold get time and feel that they are with each other so for that get the time being you required the peace in house.Eventualy as the sisters come back and dev and ishu will be back in action like before dev and sona's sepration things will move in correct direction.and you are true about vickki he want to be owner snd mami only want the hold.but it is also true she will never harm dev or ishu as she loves them at certain point. There are possibility that mami and his red may not be together.which will make them weak.see to give the keys was the ishu's decision and mami has run the house with her benufit but if ishu becomes active in the house again then mami has to run the house but not with her own benifits as ishu is looking whats going on.some how i am positive this time nothing wrong will happen with dev sona and ishu as they have completed the punishment for their mistkes by wheel of karma.This is my take.
Edited by timbarucha83 - 8 years ago

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