Understanding Sonakshi - Page 3

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Fabulous write up shaavi. May not be able to agree with you completely but I thoroughly enjoyed reading it.👏

@payal, completely agree with you payal but can't blame this guy alone for the current mess. There is no doubt that he needs to earn her trust and most importantly both need healing especially sonakshi because her hurt and fears are very deep rooted this time. But is she giving that chance to him? They both were actually building it brick by brick and suddenly she ditched him by jumping into ishwari side. When it comes to stupidity no one can beat these two. When ishwari brought up this remarriage mess, he was handling her in his way and he also told sona clearly that he thought of remarriage since his mom asked him to marry sona and when she is not ready for that, he respected her choice and when she forced him also he clearly told her that he can't give that place to another girl. After that whatever she did was sheer stupidity. All she could have done is tell ishwari that she can't force Dev when he is not ready for it instead of that she went on with her move on gyan. It really hurts when the person whom you consider as your everything keep on trying to prove you that you are nothing for them. It really really hurts.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I agree with you completely Grace...if Sonakshi has to open up then he should make her trust him again ...make her believe that he is a changed person and he is going to stand by her no matter what the world says...as wrote in one my post ...she doesn't trust him...because with this engagement drama she is being proved right by Dev that Sonakshi was only a choice for him ...

I cant understand what is stopping Dev from saying NO to the engagement...why did he have to plead to Sonakshi for stopping the wedding..I am confused with Dev's character...if Nisha or Sonakshi doesn't stop this engagement ...does that mean he would have gone ahead and married Nisha...Does he not understand like him , she also needs his confirmation if she is imp in his life and not just a choice /option his mom gave... 😭

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

@ Latha

agree with your take. I also thought in the same lines when I was discussing with grace four days back. I posted it here.

I felt Sonakshi should not have agreed to support Iswari at the cost of Dev's inconvenience.

You are right when you said Sona should not be forced to act against her ch But I have a sincere doubt Why can't she disclose her heart before Dev and tell him every truth? Why can't she tell him that definitely he is her love and she has no second thought about it Having said so she can tell him she can't marry him again as she doesn't want to take any risk' Dev would have understood her point and appreciated her.

Sonakshi should have told Iswari that she can try but she can not force Dev, Then Sonakshi would have left the option to Dev himself whether to move ahead or not'

Here Dev also is pressurised to enact the drama against his will If Sona did not force him Dev would have been saved from this tension ' Soha also is facing the heat. She is not an adult How could she withstand the pressure of seeing her father date another girl before her eyes?

Grace the reason for this hopeless situation is lack of transperancy .Both of them are suffering
Sona can be true to her ch by not taking risk if she had given importance to her other ch traits also like frankness transperancy etc that Bijoy Bose boasts as Bose family traits though they are not so in reality

Lakshmi

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Agree with you Latha. I really find sonakshi's need to keep ishwari happy incomprehensible.

Sometimes i wonder why ishwari's happiness is more important than her's or dev's happiness in her life. I also wonder sometimes that who is Sona's true love? Is it Ishwari or Dev? Looks like Dev is the third angle in Sona-Ishwari's love story.😆

Maybe sonakshi thought that since she couldn't marry Dev, she was ensuring his happiness by getting him married to someone else. Faulty thinking and wrong decision. In fact she is doing exactly what Bijoy is doing.

In past, even ishwari thought of his happiness and destroyed his life in return. As Sona says, he is not any kid then why she thinks that she need to force her decisions on him regarding his happiness?

Bijoyis trying to make sona do what he thinks will keep her happy and sona is trying to make Dev do what she thinks will keep him happy. The only thing Bijoy and sona are achieving is severe pain to the object of their affection by their misguided efforts to help.

More than thinking about his happiness, i see all her recent actions as her desperate attempts to runaway from her feelings and vulnerabilities. Past is repeating, if that time it was ritwik's turn then now its Dev's turn. When he is openly telling about what he wants then why cant she tell on his face that she loves him but can't live with him since she dont trust him anymore when it comes to handling their relationship. Let him decide whether to earn her trust or move on.

In fact Dev and sona both are remarkably immature characters but well if they had been mature their life wouldn't have been such a bad mess.