Sonakshi ki Diwangi OR Dev's Chivalry?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: --Devakshi--

Nice post...but i think it differently.imagine what would happen if dev tells everyone that he loves sona and will marry only her?

Sona will run away from him as fast as possible...Bejoy won't allow sona to keep even the friendship tag...the so called friendship will be over...may be dev is afraid of losing her permanently like tat..rememeber sona's reaction after his unconscious confession...so i dnt think it a wise idea..as long as sona is in denial, dev can't help it..even in a one to one convo dev is not allowed to say i love you to her..coz that wud spoil their current relationship, which he doesn't want..

Sona knows very well that he loves her..as long as she gives it a friendship tag, nthng is gonna work..she herself need to understand..none can help abt it...

True ...she might distance herself away from him , if he asks her hand again for marriage...because she is not ready to marry anyone...she is scared and that fear is very much justified . She was ditched twice by the same person because of his mom...and even now this marriage talks started because Ishwari wanted to see him married!!

All he needs to do is to tell her that he understands her fear...and will never force her to marry him...but he just cant stop loving her and cant see anyone else in her place...and that he is willing to wait till his last breath...also that they will be friends for life and a great parents for Soha...she will breakdown soon ...all she needs is his acceptance that she is imp in his life ...the rest will fall in place...this is my POV..

Originally posted by: malikakas

Sorry but when has Sona ever put herself on the line to admit her feelings for Dev. Not once! She always wants Dev to do all the work.

Dev understands Sona's pain. Which is why he agreed to her request to not open up that door again. It was she who insisted he marry someone else. Sorry but that's not fair. She basically invalidated his feelings by asking him to marry someone else. So he's making her realize that it was wrong of her to ask that of him. Heck what ask.. she tried to emotionally blackmail him.

Emotionally blackmail him...naah...I thought she smartly left him free to decide...not that Dev lacks decision making skills...he took decision to let her go from his life 7 ys back...he let his family's manipulation win many a times...when he knew she had her insecurities...

There is a saying , when you love some one ...set him free...if he comes back he is urs ...if not he never was...and that is what is did...she left him free ...and he decided to choose a diff path and life partner...true Sonakshi did give him a logic...he was convinced with it...atleast that is what Sonakshi thought abt the situation...we viewers get to see Dev's side ...but Sonakshi isn't privileged ...so from her pov...he wants to move on ...

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

I completely agree with you ashwathy. I have had enough of these games that he is playing. He must not only be chivalrous but also truthful to confess before the world that his love for his mom blinded him so as to not recognise the preciousness of the person that was once his. Sona may live in denial and rightfully so, but he must be firm that it is either Sona or none else. If he has to go and patao Bijoy, so be it.

I liked the views of Lavanya too made somewhere else and kind of suggests something similar to what you wrote...

Yes !! Agreed...he needs to accept it...but not sure how CVs will show the track...only time will tell truth!!

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Emotionally blackmail him...naah...I thought she smartly left him free to decide...not that Dev lacks decision making skills...he took decision to let her go from his life 7 ys back...he let his family's manipulation win many a times...when he knew she had her insecurities...

There is a saying , when you love some one ...set him free...if he comes back he is urs ...if not he never was...and that is what is did...she left him free ...and he decided to choose a diff path and life partner...true Sonakshi did give him a logic...he was convinced with it...atleast that is what Sonakshi thought abt the situation...we viewers get to see Dev's side ...but Sonakshi isn't privileged ...so from her pov...he wants to move on ...

Originally posted by: malikakas

Cmon... telling a guy that he is selfish because he is not thinking of the feelings of others because he is not getting married. That is the definition of emotional blackmail. Especially to a person that she knows has been emotionally blackmailed his whole life? I am sorry but to me that was uncalled for. She was using Dev's achilles. heel. She didn't let him decide at all. And in fact she takes credit for Dev's decision to get married. And Dev keeps telling her is doing it for her.

As for letting someone free in love.. that goes both ways. Dev broke up with her in the hospital.. and she chose to marry Ritvik. So why is this situation any different?

To be honest I don't understand what is expected from Dev and how he is responsible for the Sonakshi's state

Dev wanted reunion but Sonakshi was not interested and she only expected friendship from him .Dev agreed to it and never spoke about getting back/confession after that .
They were happy with the new found friendship but it was ruined by Sonakshi.She decided to follow her ex MIL's Wish and pestered Dev's for remarriage .He said NO very clearly but did she listen . Due to her own insecurities and to prove her mom wrong she came back to emotionally blackmail Dev without giving a damn to his feelings and even claimed she won't be effected by this . Who is to be blamed here ? Why does she think she can decide and has haq on her friend's life ? If Dev had said NO she would find ways to convince him until Ishwari asked her to stop .

Now coming to her getting hurt with his games , has she ever communicated about her likes ,preferences , feelings .From Natasha time till today she has difficulty in saying what she wants .If she is getting hurt she can back out from the girl finding business .Is anyone keeping her at gun point or emotionally blackmailing her ?Infact she is using others to coce her true feelings.

I won't blame Bijoy completely because just like Dev he is kept in dark and Sonakshi has never spoken to anyone what she wants in life .

During Ritwick time Dev was clear about what he wanted (whether it's right or wrong is a different topic ) .He was hurt seeing her with someone and he told her the same .He never tried to act Mahaan by fixing her alliance with someone nor mislead her.

Coming to make her feel special .He has always done that outside the bedroom too but has Sonakshi ever made him feel wanted ? After marriage all her energy was spent on pleasing Ishwari ,lecturing Neha , hiding important details from her husband.Dev openly expressed his feelings and asked her to be his wife first but she never listened nor shared her insecurities .


At times I feel all Sonakshi craves for is best title .She likes to be seen as best Babu ,best daughter,perfect and strong women .In the process of gaining all the above titles he has taken lot of people for granted and believes hiding ones flaw is the way to achieve this

Originally posted by: preethik

In the ritwik case she was ready to come back to him. All he had to do was just say the word but he was waiting for mummy's permission. Even ritwik told him the same.

What Sona is doing is wrong. I agree. She should have not said yes to ish - then & now. But Dev is now with these games is perceived as the smart dude when all he's doing is making her more miserable. If she says she loves him after these games without addressing all the other issues then it a repeat of the marriage track bound for failure once again.

@TM Answering your question

I am definitely not looking for a dramatic SonakshiKiDeewangi .I don't expect her to become drunk and express her feelings infront of everyone nor expect her to dramatically stop the engagement either .All I need to see is Sonakshi expressing her feelings to Dev , tell him what he means to her and how she desires him even today .If she can taunt him by saying Jatin mean so much to her then she can very well express how much she missed him all these years and accept that she can commit mistakes too .I won't doubt her love if she expresses her feelings inside 4 walls of his/her bedroom .I am not expecting any audiences for this confession episode

Later Dev can call off the engagement and can do whatever he needs to make her feel special outside the bedroom or infront of the whole world .

Pointed out rightly. Sona is emotional yet practical. She is forgiving yet stubborn
I don't want Sona to give in easily. Dev has to confess his feelings in proper way , he has to understand her completely.
Get her trust back thru his actions not by words,

CVs have retweeted this time sona is going to propose him