Why we are having problem in accepting Ishwari's sudden change? - Page 2

Originally posted by: maharathikarna

I have been saying from beginning that ishwari is not a evil megalomaniac mad villian. She is human who got a bit pyscho due to her insecurities. Now that she has realised error of her ways and has become good. I knew from beginning that ishwari would become greatest devakshi worshipers. I am very happy with that😊.

Originally posted by: Devakshilover

Trust me I have no idea about why I am finding it difficult to digest the fact that she has changed

Originally posted by: grace4317

Ankita...It's because we are not being able to forget what all she had done to our Devakshi...So, to ease your difficulty, I would ask you a question.Before I go to the question, I would like to say that, I am just asking you a imaginative question inorder to help you to step into other's shoes and think. So. my question is, If this happened with your brother & sister in law and your mother is the reason for it; and then later if your sister in law is ready to forget & forgive everything and come back into your brother's life, will you tell her not to do so or will you tell your brother to leave your mother alone and go & settle with his wife. I hope no. So, that's it. If we would try to see Ishwari as somebody who needed some help in overcoming her insecurities, we will not feel that bad against her.

That's absolutely true Di very beautifully explained

Originally posted by: Devakshilover

That's absolutely true Di very beautifully explained

Thanks for the meaningful post Grace...

I dont know if I missed something here,but I always thought that Ishwari didn't take the medicine from Sona because Rr was present.RR had just emotionally blackmailed Ishwari saying that she didn't mean anything to her and Ishwari RR to apna nahin samajhti and all that crap.

Ishwari( at that state) was physically and emotionally weak and vulnerable.Plus she felt guilty about everything and fell for RR's blackmail.That is why when Asha gave her a glass of water she didn't drink it but drank the same water from RR's hands.Similarly, though she had absolutely no misgivings for Sona,she didn't take the medicine from her because she was afraid that would upset RR.

Once she reached home and became physically better ,she also became emotionally clearer. So I don't think Ishwari's behaviour changed overnight.She felt the same way for Sona in the hospital too, but in her bid to please RR she behaved differently.

Problem is not change in Ish..that had to happen some day but it happened way too fast. Something that lasted for 7-8 yrs resolved in 2 days is unbelievable. CVs seem to be in a rush to show Ish positive...which has led to Sona forgetting everything Ish ever said or did to her or her family, infertility track which is difficult to comprehend. Episodes r good but the rush makes it illogical. Had the same happened in few weeks time, gradually building Ish Sona relationship, then it wuc have been perfect.

Originally posted by: rock&roll

I dont know if I missed something here,but I always thought that Ishwari didn't take the medicine from Sona because Rr was present.RR had just emotionally blackmailed Ishwari saying that she didn't mean anything to her and Ishwari RR to apna nahin samajhti and all that crap.

Ishwari( at that state) was physically and emotionally weak and vulnerable.Plus she felt guilty about everything and fell for RR's blackmail.That is why when Asha gave her a glass of water she didn't drink it but drank the same water from RR's hands.Similarly, though she had absolutely no misgivings for Sona,she didn't take the medicine from her because she was afraid that would upset RR.

Once she reached home and became physically better ,she also became emotionally clearer. So I don't think Ishwari's behaviour changed overnight.She felt the same way for Sona in the hospital too, but in her bid to please RR she behaved differently.

Originally posted by: mehraan

Thanks for the meaningful post Grace...

Mkes perfect sense...but i just wished they had concentrated more on Ishus realization with monologues or 2/ 3 scenes delving on her confused thoughtprocess...the thing i see is the fast pace or rushing ...Tats why many like me are confused or dissatisfied...Her instropection required detailing n time!