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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

@aarcha: That is an excellent question, so I just googled it, and apparently you can indeed get a fever from stress. It's called a psychogenic fever. Dev has always been of weak constitution, and he must have stayed up all night worrying about what would happen in the morning. Plus, he wanted so badly to get sick that he just made it happen. I am happy to see him using all of his weaknesses -- poor constitution, bad listening comprehension -- to his advantage these days! 😃


I agree no need to Google. .I have experienced it I had it when I was stressed in office 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Sonakshi still respects Ishwari...she considers Dev as a kind and good humanbeing...she is completely enthralled by his charisma...these are not my presumptions...its shown in the episodes...viewers are apprehensive about Dev however Sonakshi is not...we should be happy for her that she has a golden heart to forgive and forget the deeds of her MiL and even today has sympathy for her...may be this is the message CV and PH want to transmit to the audience...

Chitra( Drcs

Totally agree with you. Sonakshi is good at heart hence she is able to forgive her MIL.I agree this may be the message for viewers . Forgiveness is the biggest virtue. Sona has that.

Lakshmi


I agree with some of what you have said here, but don't agree to some. Sona is able to forgive Ishwari because although she holds Ishwari partly responsible, she places a bigger responsibility of it on Dev. Even though she agrees that Ishwari did not accept her or manipulated, she feels it was Dev's responsibility to see through them, to be the bridge between herself and Ishwari. She feels Dev failed rather than Ishwari failed. Hence she is able to forgive Ishwari to an extent. I am not saying it diminishes her big heart, but feel that most of Sonakshi's anger and disappointment are towards Dev's failures and his flaws. She has not really forgiven him for anything. She might say that he is a good human being and help him. But that is her core nature. She is helpful to the needy. Now that Dev needs her help, she is giving it to him.

Just my pov. 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Shaavi


Sorry to disagree but if Dev is a mamma's boy then Sonakshi is a daddy's girl. if Dev was blindly following Ishwari's words, Sona did the same with Bijoy. When Dev fell in love with Sona, he was not dancing to his mother's tune. Even when he married her, he kind of forced Ishwari to accept her and did not really go by Ishwari's way of thinking. He did everything to please Sonakshi going against his mother, be it not questioning Ishwari regarding vrath or when he supported Sonakshi during Ayaan track or any of those n number of times when he went against Ishwari just to make Sonakshi happy.

But Sonakshi has not really done it till now. She has toed the line that was drawn by Bijoy. On the face of it, it may look like Sonakshi was independent and took her decisions against Bijoy, but it is not so. She has not really owned any of her decisions as "hers" when it was questioned by Bijoy. She constantly distributed the blame of such decisions to others. Dev took the brunt of it most of the time. If today Bijoy hates him, Sonakshi is very much responsible for it by not being honest and telling the truth.

If Sonakshi is sensible, then so is Dev. If Dev is insensible, then so is she. They are very much a mirror of themselves in lot of ways. They differ too in many ways in their approach. But underneath it all they complete each other. As much as Dev needed to change, Sonakshi needed to change too. But she hasn't. Unless she does change and really start working as a team with Dev, there is not much future to their relationship. A relationship is made with 2 people. It goes both ways. And it is not just one thing that goes both ways, but everything goes both ways.

Neither Sonakshi, nor Bijoy did any favor to Dev or Dixits. But believing that they did is incorrect. This image of themselves being superior than Dixits has to be broken. For that to happen, the spoiler and the current path chosen by makers is one of them.

This is just my POV. Not intended to hurt anyone. 😃



Shavi dear sorry disagree with you...bit busy now will get back with my response by tomorrow morning...by then Im sure Ishwari' s "Tum donom shadhi karlo" would have been out also...Ishwari should supply a new dictionary to her dearones bcoz what she means only she understands...its beyond the comprehension of the normal people
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Posted: 8 years ago

Sorry to disagree but if Dev is a mamma's boy then Sonakshi is a daddy's girl. if Dev was blindly following Ishwari's words, Sona did the same with Bijoy. When Dev fell in love with Sona, he was not dancing to his mother's tune. Even when he married her, he kind of forced Ishwari to accept her and did not really go by Ishwari's way of thinking. He did everything to please Sonakshi going against his mother, be it not questioning Ishwari regarding vrath or when he supported Sonakshi during Ayaan track or any of those n number of times when he went against Ishwari just to make Sonakshi happy.

Shaavi

Big round of applause. I feel so bad when Dev is called mamma's boy. Either by Sonakshi or by anyone else. Like you mentioned he proved many times that he is not a mumma's boy. But now it is Sonakshi's turn to prove that she is not a daddy's girl.

Lakshmi
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Drcs


Baaprebap...Shaavi. ..no way I don't want this to happen...my heart ached while reading how will I watch😭...Pl no...pretty please. ..come out with another track for sona to realise her love

I don't want it sholud be true please . I want that dev should stand for himself and tell ishu that as he loves sona their is no one possible to take place.why to marry a girl to whome you canot love it is wrong from that girl point of view. If he stand for himself then he will be sun for sona who is able to take the decisions and he can lie to sona with the help of joti that according to her wish he is ready to marry some one else.which will force sona to accpet her feelings.so please i don't want this predtion should be true. I don't want another natasha.if ishu is going to blackmail him then its high time he should say no to it. I will love if sons accepts her feeling then they quickly get married like vicki and elena and come to dixit house as bijoy is not going to change.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Shaavi


Sorry to disagree but if Dev is a mamma's boy then Sonakshi is a daddy's girl. if Dev was blindly following Ishwari's words, Sona did the same with Bijoy. When Dev fell in love with Sona, he was not dancing to his mother's tune. Even when he married her, he kind of forced Ishwari to accept her and did not really go by Ishwari's way of thinking. He did everything to please Sonakshi going against his mother, be it not questioning Ishwari regarding vrath or when he supported Sonakshi during Ayaan track or any of those n number of times when he went against Ishwari just to make Sonakshi happy.

But Sonakshi has not really done it till now. She has toed the line that was drawn by Bijoy. On the face of it, it may look like Sonakshi was independent and took her decisions against Bijoy, but it is not so. She has not really owned any of her decisions as "hers" when it was questioned by Bijoy. She constantly distributed the blame of such decisions to others. Dev took the brunt of it most of the time. If today Bijoy hates him, Sonakshi is very much responsible for it by not being honest and telling the truth.

If Sonakshi is sensible, then so is Dev. If Dev is insensible, then so is she. They are very much a mirror of themselves in lot of ways. They differ too in many ways in their approach. But underneath it all they complete each other. As much as Dev needed to change, Sonakshi needed to change too. But she hasn't. Unless she does change and really start working as a team with Dev, there is not much future to their relationship. A relationship is made with 2 people. It goes both ways. And it is not just one thing that goes both ways, but everything goes both ways.

Neither Sonakshi, nor Bijoy did any favor to Dev or Dixits. But believing that they did is incorrect. This image of themselves being superior than Dixits has to be broken. For that to happen, the spoiler and the current path chosen by makers is one of them.

This is just my POV. Not intended to hurt anyone. 😃


Absolutely fine with your point of view. I am a fan of Dev' s character and am even ok with his worshipping his mom to a great extent . But when it comes to a major decision in life all affected parties should be thought about. I did not like the way he treated her during the infertility track. No other time i was really angry as he had his reasons. But when Sonakshi really needed him he didn't understand the delicacy of her feelings.
I agree that Sona is also a daddy's girl but Bijoy is not manipulative so far. She ignored everyone and ran to Dev at her engagement causing humiliation to him
Infact i think Sona is not very strong. She has emotions bottled up and pretends to be strong. Dev has no pretentions

@shaavi I welcome POVs totally opposite to mine coz it opens up my thinking too.




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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Shaavi


shaavi though initially I had heart break reading this... mainly bcoz of dev dancing to ish's tunes is strict no no...for me..😭he should stand 4 himself first just like sona should stand for herself first...like when bijoy came she readily agreed

@bold...with this I kinda liked your prediction n want it to b true ...as I can see right now t sona taking dev for granted...

I dont know whether I m able to convey what I want ...hope u got it..true analyst u r🤔


Edited by dhank - 8 years ago

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara


Sorry to disagree but if Dev is a mamma's boy then Sonakshi is a daddy's girl. if Dev was blindly following Ishwari's words, Sona did the same with Bijoy. When Dev fell in love with Sona, he was not dancing to his mother's tune. Even when he married her, he kind of forced Ishwari to accept her and did not really go by Ishwari's way of thinking. He did everything to please Sonakshi going against his mother, be it not questioning Ishwari regarding vrath or when he supported Sonakshi during Ayaan track or any of those n number of times when he went against Ishwari just to make Sonakshi happy.

Shaavi

Big round of applause. I feel so bad when Dev is called mamma's boy. Either by Sonakshi or by anyone else. Like you mentioned he proved many times that he is not a mumma's boy. But now it is Sonakshi's turn to prove that she is not a daddy's girl.

Lakshmi


@bold. I am okay with anyone else calling Dev a mumma's boy except Sonakshi. I mean it was fine in the farmhouse when they had the big fight... but when she said it in the cupboard incident I thought it was uncalled for. The cupboard thing was such a minor incident... Dev works 16 hours a day.. he doesn't have time to deal with his cupboard. Deal with it Sona.. try to understand what the issue is...don't just hurl insults like a 6 year old. Unlike most girls before marriage... Sonakshi had a full understanding of how the Dixit household worked-- if you thought someone's a mumma's boy why would you marry him? You can't just call him a mumma's boy because he's not following your instructions to a tee.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Hmm..
Sorry to be such a downer...but I am so fed up of Dev's 'Main kuch bhi karoonga, tu bolke to dekh'

Even in real life, people learn the most from their bitter experiences. This is just nonsense now and too inconsistent for my taste. If for Sona, her bitter experiences mean being cautious with Dev, it also means introspecting on Bijoy's role in her life - negative and positive- which she hasn't done yet.

If Dev has introspected (which he seemed to have done) he knows his mother's limitations and his mistakes. He is the kind of lover, who may wait his whole life, but will not remarry another woman- and if he is weak to Ishwari's manipulations yet again, I for one will stop watching the show.

I'm not being able to connect any more.

😕

Still enjoying all the analysis though! And still love Shaheer & Erica as Dev & Sonakshi.




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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: malikakas


@bold. I am okay with anyone else calling Dev a mumma's boy except Sonakshi. I mean it was fine in the farmhouse when they had the big fight... but when she said it in the cupboard incident I thought it was uncalled for. The cupboard thing was such a minor incident... Dev works 16 hours a day.. he doesn't have time to deal with his cupboard. Deal with it Sona.. try to understand what the issue is...don't just hurl insults like a 6 year old. Unlike most girls before marriage... Sonakshi had a full understanding of how the Dixit household worked-- if you thought someone's a mumma's boy why would you marry him? You can't just call him a mumma's boy because he's not following your instructions to a tee.

I also did not like Sonakshi calling Dev Mumma's boy. The cupboard incident shows her as stubborn,unreasonable and demanding. The issue itself is just ridiculous. While she never did anything on her own ( I never saw her help Asha) why should she demand Dev to do so? It is advisable to change bad habits if any . Just because she doesn't want Iswari to do his work she could force him to do it? He is not sitting idle. She can do it or take help from house help. Sonakshi just irritated me in that scene. Calling him mumma's boy just because he did not keep her word ...really she crossed the limits.Dev did not say anything against her. Dev always tried to appease Sonakshi. Period. Still he is called names.
By the way I dont want to hear mumma's boy from anyone .

Lakshmi
Edited by ltelidevara - 8 years ago

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