*Season 2, Week 14* Analysis Thread - Page 26

Originally posted by: Aishu13

@Payal

Di, I agree with you, but I have a slightly different take on it. I think he chose his mother's happiness because he was conditioned to it. I mean for years now, he has been pushed to be basically a machine for his family. Do you remember that one scene, in which Dev as a child was playing and his mother broke a vase and was slapped just to get his attention. That Dev thew his bat and ran to his mom, where she basically told him that you don't need fun (my paraphrasing). Even from that point, Dev was expected to be selfless, the golgappa wala flashback. Don't get me wrong, kids love their parents but he was a 8 year old but told to act like an adult. What is so depressing about this situation is that since Sonakshi never said anything about her feelings, Dev being brilliant he is with emotions thought that Sonakshi was ready to do what he had been doing for years.

Originally posted by: Aishu13

@payal

Di I agree, yet at a different point. Just because Sonakshi walked out did not change Dev's attitude. He still puts everyone's happiness above his own, the only that has happened because of separation is the fact that Dev is more vocal (not yet completly) about his thoughts. I think that is why Khatri is introduced, to crumple Dev with the fact that a lot of the things he did was useless, until Dev does not see the fact that he was used he will not see his issues soon.

Originally posted by: malikakas

I still feel Sona shouldn't have chased Khatri. Her enthusiasm to do good to Dixits specially to Iswari made her jump into the matter without analysing the person she is dealing with. Now she must have understood how dangerous Khatri is. She assumed that he must be a small time blackmailer greedy of money. Khatri has more potential than she thought of him. He was least perturbed by Sona and her ultimatums. Now what would Sona do? Khatri now knows that Sona knows that some issue exists between him and Iswari. Would he keep quiet? I doubt. Then Sona has to protect Soha who is the legal heir to Dev's property. Looks like Khatri aims at a bigger bait as he has much evidence against Iswari God knows what it is.

Precap gave me hope that finally Sona understood she can't do anything without Dev's support in this matter. It is better if she let Dev handle the matter and offer moral support to him. They should work as a team to face Khatri and tackle him in the right way. I hope Sona would realise how wrong it is to involve Jatin in this matter instead of Dev.

I agree Dev considers himself dispensable and Sona as indispensable. It is a fact also. No one can replace a mother especially when the child is sick.So he followed Sona to know what she has to deal with when Soha is sick. And then followed what can be expected of them both. Even during the outburst Dev poured out his feelings to Sona while Sona still has that wall around herself to expose her true feelings not for Jatin but exclusively for Dev. Good thing yesterday was they communicated though not on a full scale. I hope Sonakshi also will unveil her heart's innermost feelings.

It is a wonderful scene I mean the confrontation that is well written,nicely directed and superbly acted. Such scenes touch the heartstrings and make us believe in the universal emotion called love. Blessed are those who get this love from the soulmate.To love and to be loved.. both will fulfill the purpose of life.Success or failure in love doesn't matter. Only the emotion reigns supreme...Dev and Sona are fortunate to love each other and live for each other even in separation.

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Hello everyone.

I know the general consensus is that Dev loved Sona and Ishwari equally but somehow I always felt that when push came to shove, he always chose Ishwari's happiness over Sona's. This is what led to the final break down of his marriage because by the time he decided to choose Sona over Ishwari, it was too late.

People will always try to force you to choose them and their happiness all the time but it is you who has to maintain the boundaries. You have to learn to say NO. Dev didn't. On top of it, he always expected Sona to 'understand'.

Yes, Sona understood but that didn't mean her heart didn't break in the process. Slowly and steadily her patience corroded till she had nothing left. It was like the last straw to break the camel's back. Dev keeps on insisting that Sona left for a straw. He forgets the weigh she was already carrying.

PS- I actually enjoyed Devakshi scene a lot yesterday. Dev's pain was very raw and he behaved the way a jilted lover would. Regarding what he said, when we are very hurt we try to hurt the other party as much as we can so that they realise and understand our pain. Dev was just being human

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

@Grace I know I am in minority for this. If Sonakshi wanted to move ahead in life with Jatin, she shouldn't have agreed to stay with Dev in the same house, same room. This is also not supposed to be a stop gap arrangement but is supposed to stay for all times to come.

Some consents are implied. There are some unseen lakshman Rekha also.

If Dev after agreeing to this arrangement, is found drinking with Shruti in a bar at 3 am, how will it appear? Won't Sonakshi be hurt and humiliated. It is not as if these two don't know that they still love each other. On top of it they are already living in an arrangement of sorts.

Obviously it is going to hurt and hurt very badly. Dev has always been shown to be the emotional sort. Murders happen due to such issues at times. So, I don't feel Dev's anger was completely out of place.

I know Dev used to sleep around. But that was before the 'fact'. Has he done anything like this after agreeing to this arrangement!?