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We meet people of different temperament, having diff strengths and weakness..basically very wide range of characters in our lives. REAL ppl..
I am not someone who can argue my point till I shut the other one . but I know I really can't stand the biased opinion of few ppl just coz they are good writers, which I'm not.
Dev, sonakshi, Ishwari, mama, mami, vicky, elena, bijoy, asha , soha are fiction characters, story can go on only if they make mistakes, they represent real ppl. and real ppl are not perfect, so nor the characters should be.
we need to see the show with unbiased mind, as only then we real ppl can enjoy the show after a tiring day. Also many times I feel, after watching TV shows for over 2 decades, that I developed lot of positivity by being unbiased viewer, I saw that every one is grey, We many times never mean the harsh words spoken in anger. Not that it is justified, but ones cool, we need to understand our loved ones and forgive if they didn't cross the limit. If they did cross, they need to seek apology. and redemption always need not be OTT. It is to be felt than said.
I do have my fav, but accepted they can be flawed. As I said show needs drama, and both real n reel characters are flawed.
But this is one forum where I see, biased review for a rather pleasant scene as well.
Hope IF had dislike button for forum posts as well, As I said I can't argue, but would love to tell that being unbiased to a show's characters, will teach one to forgive ppl in our own lives as well.
Even I'm wronged by ppl, circumstances in my life.. but over a period of time learnt that forgiving, heels my soul than blaming them for years.
An example of how I see this show ..
Ex:1 - Dev is stalker .. common we all want to know about the person we love. he may deny to have feeling, may say u hate etc .. but he didn't stalk all the ladies whom he supposedly spent time with. He stalks only sona .. does that say something ? Only a UNBIASED viewer can see that.
He Does still forgive his mom much faster than he should - flawed husband / father and ideal SON .. but that is the basic structure of the character, which we saw in the initial promo while we signed up for the show.
Ex2: - Sona is perfect daughter, mom sister etc ... but does that stop her from falling in LOVE .. no, she did marry when she knew DEV is not her baba ka fav. perfectly fine, but doesn't make her bad daughter. its only adds that she is good lover as well.
An UNBIASED viewer will see even sona had made mistakes, but Dev had a bigger share. I never blame others. As a relationship b/w two parties can be broken only by them, even if others played a part, its only because, they let others come b/w them .
This is just my POV., as I said, neither I'm a good writer nor good at arguing, so please forgive me for my flawed writing.
I am not someone who can argue my point till I shut the other one . but I know I really can't stand the biased opinion of few ppl just coz they are good writers, which I'm not.
Dev, sonakshi, Ishwari, mama, mami, vicky, elena, bijoy, asha , soha are fiction characters, story can go on only if they make mistakes, they represent real ppl. and real ppl are not perfect, so nor the characters should be.
we need to see the show with unbiased mind, as only then we real ppl can enjoy the show after a tiring day. Also many times I feel, after watching TV shows for over 2 decades, that I developed lot of positivity by being unbiased viewer, I saw that every one is grey, We many times never mean the harsh words spoken in anger. Not that it is justified, but ones cool, we need to understand our loved ones and forgive if they didn't cross the limit. If they did cross, they need to seek apology. and redemption always need not be OTT. It is to be felt than said.
I do have my fav, but accepted they can be flawed. As I said show needs drama, and both real n reel characters are flawed.
But this is one forum where I see, biased review for a rather pleasant scene as well.
Hope IF had dislike button for forum posts as well, As I said I can't argue, but would love to tell that being unbiased to a show's characters, will teach one to forgive ppl in our own lives as well.
Even I'm wronged by ppl, circumstances in my life.. but over a period of time learnt that forgiving, heels my soul than blaming them for years.
An example of how I see this show ..
Ex:1 - Dev is stalker .. common we all want to know about the person we love. he may deny to have feeling, may say u hate etc .. but he didn't stalk all the ladies whom he supposedly spent time with. He stalks only sona .. does that say something ? Only a UNBIASED viewer can see that.
He Does still forgive his mom much faster than he should - flawed husband / father and ideal SON .. but that is the basic structure of the character, which we saw in the initial promo while we signed up for the show.
Ex2: - Sona is perfect daughter, mom sister etc ... but does that stop her from falling in LOVE .. no, she did marry when she knew DEV is not her baba ka fav. perfectly fine, but doesn't make her bad daughter. its only adds that she is good lover as well.
An UNBIASED viewer will see even sona had made mistakes, but Dev had a bigger share. I never blame others. As a relationship b/w two parties can be broken only by them, even if others played a part, its only because, they let others come b/w them .
This is just my POV., as I said, neither I'm a good writer nor good at arguing, so please forgive me for my flawed writing.
