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Posted: 8 years ago
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I appreciate your thoughts. but I look at it this way.. to each their own.

people are biased or unbiased based on their own circumstances and how well they relate or not relate to a character. yes, we watch for entertainment but noone of us can watch it 100% unbiasedly. from what I see, mist of us got hooked to this show because it did have beautifully flawed characters, real situations.. same saas bahu drama but with a different treatment. if some ppl feel show has moved away from that and moved into "beaten path" where ML's negative actions are glorified as tashan or love.. if a hero will act bad.. he will be viewed as "villian" for some! if hero will constantly, in literally every episode, taunt, verbally & physically abuse the FL, he will be viewed as a bad guy!

then viewers have a right to have that opinion. everyone invested their time inthis.. whether we watch it regularly or not now, we still want to see how the story ends.. i dont watch if episodes are particularly regressive for me and watch if comments make it sound fun. I can never watch one person harassing another or bullying another and call it fun!

I have seen both sides of the isle.. ppl justifying Dev or Sonakshi or Bijoy or Ishwari despite downright nastiness.. in Dev's case harassment and abuse! if a viewer finds it questionable and against societal norms... they should question and discuss it! I am OK with it.. in fact I come to see what ppl liked and cant digest. what I find objectionable is defending your favorite to the point of abusing the real personwith real views!!!!!'

this forum is to discuss both we liked ir not liked! its not a fan club!!! if the show will constantly show negativity, it will create a negative environment!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepakloveskat


I know what u said... I m just saying I have certain set of. Post to. Dislike.



Completely agree ... which is what I ment by saying it would be interesting to see which side of opinion scores more ..

Finally we both agree on this :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibg

I appreciate your thoughts. but I look at it this way.. to each their own.

people are biased or unbiased based on their own circumstances and how well they relate or not relate to a character. yes, we watch for entertainment but noone of us can watch it 100% unbiasedly. from what I see, mist of us got hooked to this show because it did have beautifully flawed characters, real situations.. same saas bahu drama but with a different treatment. if some ppl feel show has moved away from that and moved into "beaten path" where ML's negative actions are glorified as tashan or love.. if a hero will act bad.. he will be viewed as "villian" for some! if hero will constantly, in literally every episode, taunt, verbally & physically abuse the FL, he will be viewed as a bad guy!

then viewers have a right to have that opinion. everyone invested their time inthis.. whether we watch it regularly or not now, we still want to see how the story ends.. i dont watch if episodes are particularly regressive for me and watch if comments make it sound fun. I can never watch one person harassing another or bullying another and call it fun!

I have seen both sides of the isle.. ppl justifying Dev or Sonakshi or Bijoy or Ishwari despite downright nastiness.. in Dev's case harassment and abuse! if a viewer finds it questionable and against societal norms... they should question and discuss it! I am OK with it.. in fact I come to see what ppl liked and cant digest. what I find objectionable is defending your favorite to the point of abusing the real personwith real views!!!!!'

this forum is to discuss both we liked ir not liked! its not a fan club!!! if the show will constantly show negativity, it will create a negative environment!




Certainly agree, all of us are entitled to have an opinion, but when the ML does a good thing. we should not find sarcasm in that, just coz the character has been bad before.

My request was to be unbiased.. but if you fell you can't be fare enough, I would prefer to voice my opinion that its not a healthy discussion.

I have been a silent reader in many forums, but this is my first longest post. As I was just not able keep quite any more.

Better we agree to disagree with each other.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#14
Yes the dislike button should be there.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I read a post after a long time...ur title attracted me...beautiful post...
M a person who is watching this show with an unbiased mind to just enjoy...Somuch negativity made me stop coming this forum once..Now a days m not getting time to visit here,So I don't know what is happening here at all...
Loved ur post n POV...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hello TM,
I completely get what you mean! I, personally am not an extremist in real life hence my opinions are most of the times based on trying to understand everyone's perspective...not many times I would judge in terms of black or white. But then thats my personality...not everyone is the same and each personality has its own pros and cons.
In this forum, I find it interesting to read people's perspective on the same situation ... it indicates somewhat how they would have reacted if they ever faced it in real life. As for characters, I feel a bit more for Sonakshi because I am a woman and have faced ups and downs of relationships around me. But at the same time I try my best to understand Dev's character, his intentions, his flaws and his good side. To be honest, I like both of them for different reasons!
About dislike button, I personally don't think I need it because I don't dislike people's opinions but find it interesting even if they differ from me. Isn't that what you also meant that we all have different temperament, strengths and weakness?

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Posted: 8 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: mybro_2004




Certainly agree, all of us are entitled to have an opinion, but when the ML does a good thing. we should not find sarcasm in that, just coz the character has been bad before.

My request was to be unbiased.. but if you fell you can't be fare enough, I would prefer to voice my opinion that its not a healthy discussion.

I have been a silent reader in many forums, but this is my first longest post. As I was just not able keep quite any more.

Better we agree to disagree with each other.



I cant speak for others.. but one good deed cant outweigh the 10 negatives that come immediately after! it conpletely ruins the character for me. I for one loved the flawed Dev in season 1. however, for me Dev is an outright negative character right now, shaped by his own decisions and circumstances! yes, we agree to diaagree that everyone has a right to form an opinion on the character. We all have been watching the show from beginning and know each characyer's personality, struggles, mistakes. so everyone has a voice!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#18
We have report button which is basically dislike button. Whenever we see something which dont upto our standards just hit it. Mods are very active these days they will take necessary action
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I personally don't like the concept of dislike button. If there is something really wrong with the post (personal attacks, name calling) it should be reported.
Otherwise please put forward your counterarguments or tell where you disagree. Let their be a healthy, peaceful discussion.

If you hate the poster too much to reply, then ignore.

Again, just my opinion.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20
Also, the stalker part-- Is stalking romantic? Does the fact that Dev ONLY stalks sona means that he has something with her that he doesn't have with anyone else?? Yes..
But in a good way.. hell no! Stalking is creepy.. it mostly shows the obsessive and unnatural shade of love.. more like lust.
If you think it as love, it's not your unbiasedness.

I was one of the biggest fans of Dev Dixit. I had my days of liking him to the point of debating for him. But he is wrong and laughable in a lot of ways.. And that's that.
Edited by Ananya. - 8 years ago

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