*Season 2, Week 13* Analysis Thread - Page 35

I can't believe that I am making another post on this forum... I became part of this forum in August, but after seeing the rising negativity in the forum, especially after Dev-Sona's marriage phase made me uncomfortable and I stopped coming to this site...

Originally posted by: hanishank

very well presented by Sam

Sona's transcendental love differed from Dev's demonstrative love.

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thanks for sharing this post Lakshmi

it given me a different approach to Devakshi relation

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

What her mother does in her time should not be any of Soha's business. Just like what Dev does in hotel rooms should not be her business either. If Dev brings a girl home and spends time with her, Sonakshi and the society should not have a problem with that.

Opposite gender best friends is not a theoretical concept. It's a practical reality

Originally posted by: deepsel

First things first ... Khatri is back (Grace join me😆). KRPKAB kitty is still loaded with surprises !! Time to revisit this thread I guess😉 https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kuch-rang-pyar-ke-aise-bhi/4735821/what-if-the-past-is-much-darker

Now moving to brighter sides, am seriously disappointed how except Meher and Charu no one drooled on "Kya boloon" million bucks face from Dev to freshly showered Sona😲. This thread seriously need some fresh droolers here.. DQ aap bhi chup ?! not done😆 Mahua care for some gifs or pics to be shared on that scene here ?😳

Ladies oh I have so much to read
Deepa heya I will be back with my reply soon its weekend and I kinda wanted to unwind myself and enjoy lol

Keep it up guys
just follow rules DQ and Sam have repeatedly reminded them so have healthy discussion :)

I rewatched the Friday's episode and found the camera work very interesting for the Asha - Bijoy convo. When they start talking both are on the couch next to each other. Then Bijoy walks to the front and his image is clear while Asha's is faded, not so clear. It is like that till Bijoy says that "Ishwari will never change, she cannot think beyond Her son". But after that Asha is shown in focus and after that even though Bijoy is in the front it is Asha's image which is clear and no t Bijoy's. It felt like an indication of shift in Sonakshi's character. She is both Asha and Bijoy. But right now she is very much reflective of Bijoy. But with the way that scene was shown, it was like even though Bijoy's image is in the forefront, it is Asha's influence which will be more visible.

In that convo between Bijoy and Asha, Asha says that Sonakshi is self righteous. But is Sonakshi really that self righteous that she never makes any mistakes and is never wrong. Is she always right and correct. Is being correct all the time more important than anything else in life.

I know I have made compromises in life. Is it that bad to sometime compromise and just accept I am wrong even when I am not and I know that. Ex -- when my son was small, I had not cut his hair. He had a ponytail and I had also had his ears pierced. Sometimes in mall and places like that he was confused for a girl and I usually did not bother correcting them. It was like what is the big deal. If Sonakshi is the way one is supposed to be, am I that wrong. Did I really make such a huge mistake when I compromised on certain things. Something that I continue doing like I stay home with kids when they are not feeling well. I don't say I stayed home last time they were sick. I don't feel anything wrong in that. Is my moral compass screwed that I am not good anymore.

Sorry for the rant. Having too many thoughts on being Self Righteous. But if anyone can answer m, it is very much appreciated. Thank you. 😃

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Not caring for the society is Dev's style, not Sona's. The society did nothing for Dev and his family. His mother was taunted for wear a torn saree instead of those upper class families giving her one of their old sarees. He thrived inspite of the society not because of it

Sona on the other hand cares for the society a lot. She follows the societal rules and I suppose we don't need to list them here

The society I am talking about will talk about Dev and Sona sharing a room when they aren't together anymore. What happens when Soha or Golu tell their friends this? Or mami tells this to Mrs mondal who then spreads this in her and Boses' common community?

Jatin is a friend and dev is perceiving him as a threat for no reason. What if he was a woman or gay and sona was starting get cabin fever and wanted a break? Sona is in a houseful of people. Does Dev not trust elena? Or does he think mami and/or vicky will harm soha? He looking in the wrong place.

Jatin was fixing her earring in full view of the world. They probably ran into each other. They weren't meeting in a hotel room. They were sat in the car and they don't need to find reasons to meet. They have the office.

What would the society say when a young nutritionist was dropped every night by her young boss late at night? Or when she was in his room alone many times? These days this is common place. In urban population this is very common.

Sona has a life outside of being a mother. If she doesn't do that she will end up like those mothers who cling to their kids and we know who I am talking about 😃

1. :Self righteousness

   convinced of one's own righteousness especially in contrast with the actions and beliefs of others : narrow-mindedly moralistic

   
   This is the way it was defined by marriam Webster and it is almost same as per others like Cambridge . Self righteousness is thinking that they have higher morals when compared with others. The person who thinks he or she possesses this is smug and arrogant for thinking so. It is a trait that is not hailed but criticised for valid reasons.

   
   Shaavi your post left me deliberate and wonder how important self righteousness is . In comparison compromise always helps in the growth of a person. You compromised and stayed with your child it gives you mental peace. It makes your child happy and it makes your family relieved since no one can take care of the child better than a mother. One compromise achieved all this for you. So I feel that compromise is worth the sacrifice you did by foregoing your other responsibilities.I hope I could convey what I wanted to.

   
   Sonakshi's self righteousness is causing hindrance in seeing sense in others ' opinions.She made a choice to go out leaving Soha on Elena which is just right in her view. In her self righteous mode she becomes over confident of her ability to take decision since she always feels she is perfect in every way.If Dev pointed out she is wrong in roaming with Jatin without attending Soha she will attribute it to his jealousy. She fails to realise the propriety of staying by Soha because she doesn't even think she may do a wrong thing.

   
   So self righteous ness doesn't convey that a self righteous person is always correct. They feel they are right and look down on others.Sonakshi also is prone to do mistakes but she fails to accept them. Reason? Self righteousness.