Tell me why bijoy should be nice to Dev? updated on pg 5 - Page 6

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Posted: 8 years ago
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have u noticed ishwari ignoring sonakshi...
smiliarly just ignore dev Bijoy babu!!!!!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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like i said, as long as sona is the one to have asked dev to move in, and sona being a bose it does not matter whether bijoy welcomes him or not. if he has issue then just like asha said that sona does not get to call the shots in saurabh and ronita case,the way she strongly said its her house her rules, bijoy too should have said the same to sona. his house he gets to call the shots. taking out his frustration on dev doesn't stand valid for me.

Sona is the daughter of the house and Dev is the visitor. Just because my friend invites me to her house, I wouldn't go about insulting her father, would I?
at the same time i would also not expect that the friends's father would turn me out from the door. isn't it. that's why i said, if bijoy is right in venting out his frustrations, dev too is correct in reacting to the frustrations
true dev is in anothers man's property but not tresspassing. sona did give him a valid visa .haan like for the examples you sited,we dont/cannot do them because the do's and dont's are clearly defined while giving the visa itself. similarly when sona made a decision of week and week just like the way she drew up a legal document before she allowed dev to take suhana with him,she should have drawn up another one. when the frames are not set, the boundaries are self defined.
Lets not forget that Dev and Sona threw suggestions on the table. Dev chose one. Sona asked him at the door, why didn't you call before coming and he thought it was cute to say "I don't take more than 5 mins to make a decision" 5 mins to barge into someone's house? 5 mins to buy BP tablets on the way? Dev Dixit as usual bent the rule to his convenience and then claims there no frames set?
dev's entry cannot be technically called as barging in.he did give lead time to sona to inform the family about her and dev's decision. for a lady who's current motto is no decision taken after 5 min is worth it, how long does it take to spell out her verdict😆😆. where are the rules in the first place to say that dev dixit bent them??😕 didn't i make it clear that neither of them had anything spelt out with regard to the arrangement and they should have gone for a proper agreement ?

there is a lot of difference in the relationships and reasons between the time that sona was in ishwari nivas Vs dev being in bose house now. there is no comparison in the situations, its like comparing apples and pineapples, both sound the same but yet they are poles apart.

The only difference I can see is Dev is an unwanted guest in Bijoy's land. Sona was an invited guest in Ishwari's land. Still Sona and Bijoy were treated the way they were at Dixit house.

That said, times are different so one would have expected Dev to show some humility. Its not like Boses kicked him out 7 years ago and made him homeless? Even if his anger is justified, like someone said, show it at the right place and right time. 7 years ago, Dev slapped the man and they are sworn enemies. End of story. Why come to Bijoy's house, offer BP tablets and expect respect?
Any grown man with an ounce of intelligence would stay away and find a legal way to resolve the problem not obtrude someone's life and home. This is the Dev Dixit?

so what according to you is a legal way for staying together, remarry ? there problem was soha wants both her parents to stay together . the only reason why dev landed up at bose house is because of the only path that sona is willing to take. in a way she is responsible for closing all doors.. no point for Bijoy grunting at dev for the mess they are in now.

by saying stay away what do you mean sorry i cannot understand your pov here.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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dear when a separation happens both the parties lifes get runied, aise nahi is ek ki relationship bach gaya aur dusre ki nale mein beh gayi.

rahi baath sona ki zingadi ki , it was a choice made by both dev and sona to get married to each other, so both were responsible for it. kisi ek ki galati nahi hain ki unki shaadi ho gayi. Dev ne koi jabardasti yah, agwah karke sona shaadi nahi ki thi.


of course.. dono ki galti but sona has moved on and moving. she is happy soha has her papa now. if uhave to bring sona & her faults here.. then i clearly said.. bijoy says the same to his daughter.. phir phas rahi hai us aadmi ke jaal mein but the post here is about "why should bijoy be nice to dev"
yaar bijoy kya sochta hai sona ko lekar is least of my concern. like mamaji advised ishwari that she cannot be the bhagyavidata for dev- sonakshi relationship, similarly bijoy too cannot take it upon himself to write the fate of dev- soha relationship.
the way i see bijoy bose's taunts at dev is only because he wants to keep "DEV DIXIT" away from "SUHANA BOSE". my opinion just because dev is staying with boses does not give him a free ticket to taunt him, as long as dev stay does not complete the one week agreement of dev and sona , just like sona said to dev, i too would use the same words ... DEAL WITH IT for bijoy bose.

dev dixit will forever remain the papa of suhana bose, mr bijoy bose no amount of your rants can over write the fact, no point being grump over it. you dislike this arrangement, talk to your daughter and tell her to look for alternatives or convince your grand daughter to give up her zid that she wants both her parents to stay together.

yeh dono nahi karsakte toh yeh roj roj ka cheeka chillana, bandh hi karlo to behtar koga , kuch to apne sehath ka dyaan rakha karo, yeh roji waali tension se nuksaan aap hi ka hain. 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Because Dev is such nice-hearted person with good intention. So what that he utter callous in displaying the 'intention' which is often misconstrued as bullying and harrassing, it's the responsibility of others to roam around with a microscope fitted at the tip of a pipe which they should insert into his chest from his mouth to read about his ACTUAL good intention.

Whatever happened with the sayings 'Action speaks louder than words'. Do hell with it. Why Bijoy no trust Dev on his 'words' and always focussing on his actions 😭

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