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Posted: 8 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: vibg


@BOLD.. that's because for ishwari sona doesn't exist. remember "yeh dev and soha ke beech me sonakshi kahan se aa gayi" PLUS, ishwari peeche se buraai karti hai aur chura bhokti hai. she didn't even leave her son with this!

Bijoy saamne bolta hai and speaks based on experience. Whereas, Ishwari decided the moment she found out about Dev and Sona that Sona was bad cause she feared Dev will not worship her anymore. and everything she said and did since that moment... was keeping in mind.. Sonakshi is bad!



Double faced Maa- bete... Dikhane daaant alag and khaneke daant alag.

Do you remember that scene ...
DEV ( Gopi bahu reincarnation) - I am willing to stay with Sona for Suhana
Ishwari (MOTHER INDIA) - Dev mere bacche ... how will you manage it.
Dev - Maa ... ye sab sirf suhana keliye maa... mein sab sehlunga/bardashth karlunga.. sirf meri beti keliiye
Sona : rolling eyes ... lol shelunga
Bijoy (the villian): ye tum logon ka natak band karo...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: yyy

Because it was Bijoy's daughter who invited Dev to come and stay with them .If he has any issues then he needs to talk to his daughter first not show his frustration on Dev .Like you said he is not the SIL anymore so they have no right on him nor does Dev have on anyone except Soha .Another reason is no matter what differences Bijoy has with Dev fact is he is Soha's father and like it or not he needs to respect that .If he is having a problem then talk to his daughter and ask her to make different arrangements

Apart from age has Bijoy done anything to gain respect in Dev's eyes or even among his family members ? Would you have any high regards for someone who is acting childish by not serving food for guest,who doesn't spare a innocent child and lashes out at him , try to snatch your daughter from you on the pretext of saving her ,who is ready to create a scene anywhere and everywhere , enjoys food but still makes snide remark about the food .

No one is expecting him to love Dev but having some courtesy for ur guest is needed .If he cannot forget accidental slap then it's his choice but he cannot use that to insult Dev and make everyone around him miserable with his actions especially Soha



Guest? guest who walks in taunting and acting all bully and shows up announced at family function?

if he is not SIL, why interfere in family matters.. STAY OUT of it!

Respect? after being called thief & gold digger by his family, slapped and thrown out of his own house from this spineless husband and SIL?

Accidental Slap? just like sona fell on ishwari when Dev pushed her and told her to get out because she purposely tried to hurt his beloved mother.

Bijoy is OTT but harmless! Dev is OTT and harmful who, not once, but twice, ruined Bijoy's daughter's life! And, Bijoy doesn't forget to remind Sona of the same too!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: dlavanya



Double faced Maa- bete... Dikhane daaant alag and khaneke daant alag.

Do you remember that scene ...
DEV ( Gopi bahu reincarnation) - I am willing to stay with Sona for Suhana
Ishwari (MOTHER INDIA) - Dev mere bacche ... how will you manage it.
Dev - Maa ... ye sab sirf suhana keliye maa... mein sab sehlunga/bardashth karlunga.. sirf meri beti keliiye
Sona : rolling eyes ... lol shelunga
Bijoy (the villian): ye tum logon ka natak band karo...


EXACTLY! I never watched that episode cause of all the comments. that scene sounded so maa beta nautanki then, and sounds so fake again when you reminded me😉 "main seh lunga.." bose house mein, he is bullying everyone, starting fights, misbehaving with Dev as soon as he walked in announced... Wow... what a tolerance👏

Bijoy is OTT but smart man who can see behind Dev and his mother's good looks and smiles. Whereas, Asha and Sona are kind, forgiving women with a clean heart.. who just want what's best for Soha. Neither can be chaalu like Ishwari, no matter how hard they tried. Ishwari to apne bacho ka hi sukh khaa gayi
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Posted: 8 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: dlavanya



Thanks for your pov but sorry i do not agree to anything you said.


lavanya you are welcome to disagree, posts are only to project the alternate perspectives but not with an intention of winning an argument 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

Beacause he is Dev dixit and issueworry ka ladla beta...!!!!

These 2 creatures expect whole world should be nice to them and work according to their wishes



@BOLD.. bhai, yeh "haq" hai inka. they worked so hard to come out of poverty. only them, in the whole world struggled to make a better life so the world owes them everything they want.. at every step. no matter how they treat others.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: vibg


EXACTLY! I never watched that episode cause of all the comments. that scene sounded so maa beta nautanki then, and sounds so fake again when you reminded me😉 "main seh lunga.." bose house mein, he is bullying everyone, starting fights, misbehaving with Dev as soon as he walked in announced... Wow... what a tolerance👏

Bijoy is OTT but smart man who can see behind Dev and his mother's good looks and smiles. Whereas, Asha and Sona are kind, forgiving women with a clean heart.. who just want what's best for Soha. Neither can be chaalu like Ishwari, no matter how hard they tried. Ishwari to apne bacho ka hi sukh khaa gayi


yaar for all those who used bold for my post, i already used a clear word "MANIPULATIVE" for ishwari, ek tarah se uski neeyat is already defined .

saame bolne mein aur be wajah jung chedne me bahut farak hai. like asha said if dev is being disrepectful to bijoy, bijoy too is leaving no stone unturned to belittle him.

i support neither, for me personally both are culprits. since the question was only on why should bejoy be nice to dev, all i pointed out why he cannot misbehave.
like i already replied to lavanya, posts are meant for presenting alternate perspective, not for winning arguments, we all hold our on POV. no one is above the other.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#47
There are mulitple ways to look at a bad past which happened because of an involvement with a third person.
1) Learn from it , be cautious that it doesnt happen again, and be at peace with the issue and the person who caused the issue...
2) Never come out of it ..stay stuck in the time ... spoil present peace of mind by thinking abt it.. in spite of having everything in life
3) Never forget ...nor forgive... wait for revenge to give it back.

In the first case you will be happy because you are not holding any grudge...but have learnt to be strong ...your bad experience gave you a learning ...you will be at peace and hence happy in life ...there by spreading happiness to other ppl in your family

The next two , will eventually destroy you and your peace mind. The third had destroyed you early ...now your figment of imagination and hatred for him will destroy your present too ...wanting to take revenge building up in you ..so much negativity that you are forgetting to live the present life that has been blessed to you...you waste your beautiful present thinking abt your past and finding ways to destroy the other person...there by you are wasting your precious time and thinking abt this person ..instead of building yourself and being happy in life..

Example..during the Haldi ceremony , he got so angry because of the ball falling into the haldi..true it doesnt look nice...but kids sometimes mess up..instead of concentrating on the ceremony he started fighting with Dev and end result..he got locked up in the room and missed his ONLY son's haldi ceremony with a person that he doesnt like...

Imagine if he was at peace with his bad past and learnt to let it go..just like Asha he would have enjoyed and so would the family...you might call Asha a doormat , spineless...but among the lot she is the one who will be the most happiest of them and at peace with herself ...she just knows to enjoy the moment...and because of which ppl around her is also happy with her..

So according to me , he needs to let go ...be at peace with his past...Ishwari also has the same issue...she is stuck with her past ...and is not able to let go...because of which she spoiled her son's life..and hers too...

let bygones be bygones !! Every one will be happy !!

Again its my POV...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: vibg


Guest? guest who walks in taunting and acting all bully and shows up announced at family function?

if he is not SIL, why interfere in family matters.. STAY OUT of it!

Respect? after being called thief & gold digger by his family, slapped and thrown out of his own house from this spineless husband and SIL?

Accidental Slap? just like sona fell on ishwari when Dev pushed her and told her to get out because she purposely tried to hurt his beloved mother.

Bijoy is OTT but harmless! Dev is OTT and harmless who, not once, but twice, ruined Bijoy's daughter's life! And, Bijoy doesn't forget to remind Sona of the same too!


dear when a separation happens both the parties lifes get runied, aise nahi is ek ki relationship bach gaya aur dusre ki nale mein beh gayi.

rahi baath sona ki zingadi ki , it was a choice made by both dev and sona to get married to each other, so both were responsible for it. kisi ek ki galati nahi hain ki unki shaadi ho gayi. Dev ne koi jabardasti yah, agwah karke sona shaadi nahi ki thi.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#49
bijoy doesnt have to be good or bad to dev
He can just ignore him!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randomramblings



dear when a separation happens both the parties lifes get runied, aise nahi is ek ki relationship bach gaya aur dusre ki nale mein beh gayi.

rahi baath sona ki zingadi ki , it was a choice made by both dev and sona to get married to each other, so both were responsible for it. kisi ek ki galati nahi hain ki unki shaadi ho gayi. Dev ne koi jabardasti yah, agwah karke sona shaadi nahi ki thi.



of course.. dono ki galti but sona has moved on and moving. she is happy soha has her papa now. if uhave to bring sona & her faults here.. then i clearly said.. bijoy says the same to his daughter.. phir phas rahi hai us aadmi ke jaal mein but the post here is about "why should bijoy be nice to dev"

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