Originally posted by: yyy
I can understand Dev's feelings in today's episode but somewhere I feel he is overthinking and hurting himself in this process .My heart went out for him to see him so insecure.Is this Karama for loving his mom and wife unconditionally that he has no say in Soha's upbringing.
@ Nitu Just imagine Dev's mindset. He left everything behind to bond with Soha. But this Jatin is stepping into his shoes and attending on Soha 24/7. He must have done so before but why should he still go and pick her up? It is not easy to see your own daughter bond with some one else. My parents used to feel so insecure when my daughter shower her love for my in laws. Not with a bad intention. But Naani Daadi feuds continued forever. Here Dev is the father who is deprived of Soha's presence. He will feel immensely satisfied doing her things. Jatin should understand and step back. But I see no such intention in Jatin's behaviour.
Dev needs to trust his love and Soha's love for him .Jatin is Soha's uncle and there will be uncles in our life who will be close to us but can anyone replace Dev in Soha's life .Soha was ready to leave her mom and everything so that she can stay with her dad .If Jain was so important to her she would have asked her mom to stay with Jatin just like she demanded Sona and Dev .
@ I won't blame Soha since she is a child who can not understand Dev's pain. Dev is not insecure. He knew Soha loves him . Still he is hurt seeing Soha 's continuous interaction with Jatin. It is quite natural. He cooked non veg and Soha did not even take a bite. How disappointed he must be. I appreciate Dev. He did not create a scene despite Bijoy's taunts.
One more thing I noticed is Is Soha really close to Jatin .Dev is Golu's uncle too but he considers him more than Vicky and is ready to leave his parents for his BigCha but does Soha think like that about Jatin ?
@ Yes. I agree Soha is closer to Jatin. But I hope she won't let go Dev and his love for Jatin. At this moment Soha is not comparing both. She fairly acknowledged Dev's role as her father. Kids bond not only with parents but with uncles, grand parents,maasis Buas... But that doesn't mean they will love their parents less. Here situation is different since Dev just entered into Soha's life. Hence his irritation towards Jatin who is grabbing his time space with Soha is justified. Had he lived with Soha from the begining he wouldn't have bothered about XY or Z who bonds with Soha.
Can Dev just accept the fact that Sonakshi is not in right frame of mind to understand his fears and she is not gonna assure him to make him feel better .Her words are gonna hurt him more .He needs someone who can understand him and unfortunately he had none on his life .He needs a friend in his life .I think talking to Jatin would have been a better idea than sharing his fears with Sona .
@ Yes,Sonakshi is the last person to understand his fears.She knows only one thing. Hurt him shout at him at the top of her voice. You are right. Dev should discuss the matter with Jatin himself. He may get a solution if Jatin responds positively.
Can they bring back Bunty or any of his old friends who can provide him assurance without being biased