Originally posted by: Tunotuno
Its called a Psychological desorder. Its a mental condition that requires treatment. We are surrounded by such people, and a lot of them. Its difficult for an individual and the family members to accept the condition as a psychological desorder and seek treatment, most importantly noone accepts it. And it worsens with time. All that I am saying is..when you judge..if you are doing that..and which I see everybody is doing that...then judge with totality.. And I dont think, the makers have spoiled Dev's character...or any such characters. Those are the shades of each character in the show..and over a period of time because of their acts..what they get and what they lose. Thats all about it.
Somebody said. Dev raised his hand..and would not tolerate injustice for women. Did he raise his hand on a woman? Did he first of all raise his hand. Come on guys...let the directors have some creative liberty. Its a bit of dramatisation to show how his hands move up to fold and to remind the viewers that he did raise his hand by mistake once.
No one judged da. Just like in life we have our priorities and choices,so when it is a show it has.Im someone who signed up for this show not because of devakshi love story but because of Ish's insecurities.First time i saw a complete grey character.I totally understood her as a lonely mother when she gave that speech for Dev on her birthday.But lately her character does not make sense and to top that they are butchering others just to justify her insecurities just because her star value is more.
She is coming across as self centered,selfish and narcissistic.
Her dialogues Ill note some of them down does not stem from insecurities but a deep need to stay in control of her son's life.
"Dev aur suhana ke beech sonakshi kya kar rahi hain"
"Agar boses ko pareshan kia toh unke saath meri poti bhi hain?
and the list is endless.
Do you seriously expect ppl to not judge such a character.I cannot seriously empathize with such a character coz given her way she can wreak havoc.
She wont flinch twice before taking soha away from sona.
She needs to be treated and regulated,but ppl are fanning her over inflated ego.
Its always abt I,me myself.Do you know how unhealthy an environment such a person creates??
Im just scared for Sona coz she is the one who paid the price without any reason.
Dev is her son and has the obligation.
If we are talking abt realistic portraying.
In reality no DIL will be as tolerating as Sona,no son will be as delusional as Dev. His moms insecurities are there for everyone to see.Still he conveniently blames Sona.And on most occasions they deliberately dumb down sona or dont give her strong dialogues just to cater to the heros star value.They never show the emotional journey of sona.What she feels or thinks is still a mystery other than few statments here and there.
My problem with Dev is not that he raised his hand at bijoy.My problem is his partial reasoning when it comes to his family and others.
In my eyes that is wrong so ill call out for that.I always belive in standing up for the ones i love.And Dev is not a weak person,he can stand up for Ish that means he just chose to not stand up for Sona.
Forget Ish he could not even shut up Neha(she is his younger sis rite).
Isnt it very obvious Dev;s love is as per his convenience.
Or the script and screenplays have major glitches that it is coming across so.
I love this show.That's why i take the pain to criticize.This is the first time i have participated in any forum for any show.
I did not find any other Indian show worth my analysis.
But that doesnt mean ill accept that is thrown at me.
If tommorw Sona(I dont think so) behaves as an ass,Ill call her out also.
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Edited by mily_mathew - 8 years ago
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