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Posted: 8 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: Drcs

@deeps take a bow my dear...fantastic...well balance not at all biased...that's why I love to read your reviews...ditto that's all I can say...as you rightly pointed out if Bijoy can get upset why not Ish? so we are going to back to the question of if papa's daughter is a proud endearment then Mumma's boy shouldn't be hurled with shame right? Lovved your explanation for the lift and YES I also noticed the smirk on Dev's face when he dropped Sona back and he definitely got brownie points from his daughter whose eyes popped out with admiration and contentment...I agree with you Dev has forgiven ISh but not forgotten what she has done...this is what we do with our dearones isn't it? that's the most rational and realistic approach...one thing which intrigues me is Sona has now realised how much pleasure SOha has given to her...don't you think she should think now about Dev's sacrifice who was ready to forgo the pleasure of having an offspring (whom he much longed for) by marrying sona?why we should always glorify the sacrifice of woman only? Yes he is flawed but that was indeed a great virtue in him which is embracing his dearones with love despite their flaws whether it is his mother, sisters or GKB...his love is not conditional unlike his mom's..that is his greatest virtue and drawback also because that makes him irrational/unwise to common man...

PS I am in a hurry so there can be errors, as I know I won't be able to do it unless I do it immediately...that's why penned down my thoughts


Thanks Chits😳. I will never blame Dev for talking to Ishwari as shown in episodes because makers have clearly showed the subtle difference in his mannerisms while handling Ishwari post leap. Its not blind faith like before but seems very calculated. I am thrilled to see if am correct in later episodes. IMO there's nothing wrong to be a momma's boy or papa's girl as long as it doesn't affect other's life indirectly. Myself and my brother are definitely "papa's girl" and "momma's boy" respectively but we both learned where to draw that line when it came to our marital life though we proudly take that title even today😆. What I meant to say is there is absolutely no shame to be an apple of one's eye, be it any gender but what to do each to his/her own😳.

You have raised a very valid concern ! This is why I was mad when the infertility track was rushed because neither Dev's sacrifice nor Sona's pain was highlighted in that track🥱 . Because of this hurried execution Dev's sacrifice was deemed as "Selfishness" and brushed aside after Ishwari's "Get Dixit baby mission" while people successfully sympathized with Sona. Just like how Sona didn't showcase her emotions in S1, Dev is being extremely mysterious about his feelings in S2. I am really hoping to see CVs holding some surprises which will eventually fulfill all our desires😉

Thank you so much for penning your thoughts even if it was in a hurry😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: sowiee


I have always mentioned that... Dev was brought up by a single parent who has a dark past .. and Dev took the responsibility of his family along with his mother at his tender age..

Coming to Sona she too have a past but she took the responsibility of parents n her family at her right age and she do have a supporting family..

So upbringing depends on how the person lead a life..


Very nicely put !!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: timbarucha83

Execlent post dear.

Even I fell dev has given up on ishu that's, I fell and ishu has mission and mission to check the wiliness to bring the soha to dixit mention after her forced visit to Bose house and effert of her previous mistakes. Some how I can't believe that the, buttering and emotional speech is without any selfishness motive because the moment he assurence that he will bring soha to meet her she started her dreams and wishes to welcome soha. So she is back to me , myself. This is completely my openion.


Thanks Timba 😊

What I feel about Ishwari is that her love and longing for Suhana is real but not without an added motive..ie., to get back her Son in original older form who kept her in Goddess pedestal😉. But I feel Dev is deceptive here, lets see if thats the case!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Heyyyaa Deeps... Enjoyed whatever you wrote here... 😳👏🤗

Especially this one
"Leaving aside the age factor and the morality of asking perfection by a 6 yr old, I loved how makers showed young children tend to believe what they see in face value. Suhana for the past 6 years has seen only one father figure and that was Bijoy and for her he is the father value for perfection, hence its not a surprise that she wanted to know whether her "Papa" is at same level or not. This very statement showed how much she missed a father figure indirectly in that tight knit Bose family. Why else a child wishes for a father to be perfect only when he drops in school, asks about dinner , loves at every step, etc etc ..? Somewhere down the line Suhana missed that love Bijoy showers on Sona😳
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Yes... And Sona very much knows this and she wants Soha to have her pappa and that bond for her to cherish for her life... And time and situations have really brought Sona to come in terms with the reality to really move on and not hold on to her grudges, mistakes and blames on each other thus affecting their little girl in the process...
And yes Soha wouldn't have led a sad life with a beautiful family running around to meet her needs but sure she would have had the dream of "how it would have been if my pappa has been around me just like Baaba has been around for my mamma" and without meeting her father that dream would have been incomplete... So I'm happy that gets a chance to get her dream into reality.. Only wish is that this little girl's dream coming true in real sense unlike the other little girl (Sona will always be a little girl of mine and you know that 😉)😳

And I'm confident that Dev-Sona will work towards their common goal, if they collaborate instead of confront 😆 And learn very much from their past to not allow any interference into this new relationship of theirs... 😉


Thanks PP😳. Yes, though I doubt how accurate Sona is about judging Suhana's longing for her father, am sure she does have an idea about that father figure missing in Suhana's life! The very fact that Suhana wants perfection in Dev proves how much she had missed that "papa" in her life. I am sure life would have gone on pretty much smoothly but sure with a vacuum if she hadn't met Dev!

One thing which am sure with Dev and Sona is both will go any heights to see their daughter happy and thats going to form the crux of story in S2. 😉

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Posted: 8 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: coolmeet

Excellent post Deepa
I liked Soha bijoy scene aur that scene reminded me of my father ,kyon ki woh bhi Meri daughter ko uske music school drop karne aur pick karne jate the.And my daughter's music sir is also Bengali.
I also liked Ishwari Dev scene .


Thanks Sri😊

Aww thats very sweet😳. I never had that oppurtunity as I have sons that to staying away in abroad from grandparents
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lovely lovely writeup Deepa. I have had a very busy last few days so caught up on the episode yesterday night but loved it so much that I immediately repeated it two times.
Not sure whom Sona is going to call today for guarantee but looking forward to this week.

Have a great day.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: dhank

nice post deepa😊


I ll repeat..

Boses r suffering "i m perfect syndrome "..which is d issue...suha also has same traits she says to golu main zyada smart hu this attitude is bothering me...which is easily neglected on this forum...


what is perfect 4 1 may not b for other


Thanks dear😊

I totally agree. Self worth is never wrong but inflated self worth is dangerous😳. I believe in this process of perfecting other's faults , Suhana's flaws will also come to front. Did the girl who never hides anything from Mom, reveled about her trip to a stranger house and gulping cool drinks ? I doubt it ! Somehow I feel all these glaring mistakes are purposely shown to us to tie the knots in future episode. Friday's episode has reinstated my beliefs in CVs, will wait to eat humble pie soon if not 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: krystle123

wow di...fantastic analysis 👏👏


just loved it 😳

actually, i was waiting for ur analysis after this brilliant epi, finally got it.😃

after a week torture of ishwari drama and confusion episodes, fridays episode was really surprised one. it gaves so many hopes for upcoming track... hope cvs wont disappoint us..fingers crossed.


Thanks dear😊

I am literally pinned to my real life for the past few days making it impossible to spend time in forum hence the delay😳 But as soon as I saw the episode, decided to ditch my sleep and pen my thoughts😆 because it indeed gave me hope that CVs do knew what they are crafting !!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

Hello deepa 🤗
today i literally checked ur profile to check if u made post or not 😆
amazing post ...
dev's journey from mr.dixit to papa has started ...n dis journey will teach everyone their due lessons ...
n d first one being soha is replica of sonakshi ...dis girl is emotionally dev ..n has his eating habits too ...how come no one noticed till now


Hi Sona😃

LOL posts can be measly for next few days dear..my brains will short circuit if I continue to ditch my sleep like this😆 so please excuse me if you don't see any regularly..will definitely try to pen whenever am little free😳.

Yes the journey has started and how?!😉 Suhana is the definite mixture of Dev and Sona with Dev's qualities majorly doning her interior hidden with Sona's values as exterior and Sona knows that very well . Remember " mein aisewali beti ho tho" and Sona's face after that?!😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gaurimisha

Loved your post

Got to agree even I was surprised to know Dev never tried to know about Sona after she left. It is so much against the core characterization of Dev. There has to be a reason if he did it...a strong reason.

But yes, the look on Dev's face when Soha asked him the qs clearly shows he was taken aback by the simple qs. I doubt he tried to call her. Had he, then by now he would have revealed it...particularly to gain Soha's trust, he defo wud have. There is some other reason.

No one is perfect. Sonakshi isnot either. She has her flaws. She introspects and accepts most of them. And I would like to see Dev growing as a character, learning from his own personal experiences. I am simply frustrated bcoz he has not yet tried to learn or accept his mistakes. I understand him forgiving Ishwari but not forgetting her mistakes. But I dont understand his constant rude behavior to Sonakshi even after knowing the truth. May be its his love or his so called haq. But its difficult to digest a father always accusing his own child's mother for everything.


Ahh...patience is the need of the hour. So, lets wait and watch.😃


Thank you 😊

Yes even I strongly believe there is definitely some valid reason behind Dev not stalking Ms.Bose and her family 7 yrs ago. Waiting to see that.

I feel Dev who in S1 went beyond his way to please the people whom he loved dearly to his capabilities though it always fell short for Sonakshi for various reasons/circumstances, is now living a care a damn life in S2 on his own terms until Suhana happened. Now his core values are surfacing up with his S2 lifestyle making him behave unpredictable. I agree its sometimes disturbing to see him behave ruthless to only sonakshi especially after that office revelation but Divya's (fantik) views in this thread seems to explain this behavior joining the dots of his "strange reason" of staying away from Boses (if any). I am sure we will get more clarity in future episodes and looks like patience is the only way out till then😳.

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