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Deepa

@deepsel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#91

life sometimes just gets so busy that it gets really difficult to have me time ... 😆 n i completely understand it ...so i will definitely excuse u for measly posts ...n please go to bed ..so that ur brain does not short circuit ...we need u to analyse n make such posts 😆 talk abt being selfish 🤣

hidden dev in suhana ll soon be visible ...but how come bo one has not noticed dat she has dev's eating preferances ...halwas as sweets and aloo posto ..lets c how dey take it forward ...dey may disappoint us at tyms coz of our expectations but dey know wat dey r doing ...

For this week am keeping my posts in Sam's thread Sona since I can't ignore making them😆but also can't afford daily posts and replies as well, so keeping it simple😳

Blame the genes or Cv's convenient insertion for her eating habit😆

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Deepa

@deepsel

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#92

Originally posted by: ifuser
WOW! The original Deeps is back with this post! 👏
perfect interpretation of between the lines👍🏼
maintain this consistancy

hehe so you are fed up with duplicate crazy deeps Neeru?!😆

Will do whenever episode and forum demands 😃

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Deepa

@deepsel

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#93

Originally posted by: gmgi
Deeps, please take care of yourself. 8 hours sleep in 4 days. Next time I will do the honours myself and that too gladly

😲 Geena in terminator mode????!!! OMG me bhaagi 😆

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sona_naksh

@sona_naksh

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#94

Originally posted by: deepsel

life sometimes just gets so busy that it gets really difficult to have me time ... [LOL] n i completely understand it ...so i will definitely excuse u for measly posts ...n please go to bed ..so that ur brain does not short circuit ...we need u to analyse n make such posts [LOL] talk abt being selfish [=))][BR][BR]hidden dev in suhana ll soon be visible ...but how come bo one has not noticed dat she has dev's eating preferances ...halwas as sweets and aloo posto ..lets c how dey take it forward ...dey may disappoint us at tyms coz of our expectations but dey know wat dey r doing ... [BR][DIV][I][BR][/I][/DIV][DIV][I]For this week am keeping my posts in Sam's thread Sona since I can't ignore making them[LOL]but also can't afford daily posts and replies as well, so keeping it simple[:$][/I][/DIV][DIV][I][BR][/I][/DIV][DIV][I]Blame the genes or Cv's convenient insertion for her eating habit[LOL][/I][/DIV] i take it as genes ..n its visibility being made after dev soha intro is like deliberate insertion ...[BR][BR]
n btw deepa ..please take some night sleep ...

Edited by sona_naksh - 8 years ago

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ifuser

@ifuser

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#95

Originally posted by: deepsel

hehe so you are fed up with duplicate crazy deeps Neeru?!😆

Will do whenever episode and forum demands 😃

hahaha... go for it! i'm with u always😊

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Enlightened21

@Enlightened21

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#96

Originally posted by: fanktlk

Oh grace... My heart breaks to hear about your cousin...
Women and specially mothers tend to be too hard on themselves. We have this notion that we have to manage the home, the kids, work flawlessly and feel guilty when we face conflict.

In as much as your cousin feels bad, in any marriage for it to work or doom two people are responsible. Being in an unhappy marriage would have only adversely affected her son. While she feels the onus to save her marriage lied with her, won't the same be true for her husband. If he has had enough hasn't she gone through the same turmoil.

Like I said in hindsight 20/20 vision... Kids are resilient that way. If she can continue to be happy and love her child and respect the child's father without feeling guilty, the son will come around. Believe me he will never blame her. When she gets into the self deprecating mode is when she would insult herself and her struggles.

I hope your cousin is happy and makes peace with her decision... You can love and respect others only if you love and respect yourself equally.

A special one for your cousin.

Bolded - Very true Divya (surprised with me calling u So? 😛. Got your name from your main post today. Shall comment on it there.)

So, as you mentioned above, that is what I am conveying to her these days. But the problem is, her parents also are divorced and since the same happened to her, she has her share of insecurities. And when after each visit to his father, when her son starts comparing her in many things & starts questioning her she feels distressed. That's when she starts going through this thought processes. Same like Sonakshi, she always exceled in her academics that, inspite of going through rough times of divorce and all, she managed to pass a crucial exam related to her profession. Her only fault was that she was very outspoken and was driven by her mother's advices which was mostly against the boy & his mother. 3-4 years back i had warned her to change her behaviour and to start viewing matters from the boy's side too, which she did for next 2-3 months and then again went back to square one. That's one reason she finds herself more responsible for the breakup. But, I keep on telling her that, as she had tried the best for a reconciliation upto the extent that she was ready to beg for his pardon infront of all his relatives , she need not to be guilty anymore. Just like while preparing for exams she will not leave a chapter only because it is tough, similarly to take life's challenges in the same way and to focus on her aim. And that she need to be strong in her relation with God which will help her become strong for herself & the kid.

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