Bijoy's fault.

I have seen few posts and discussions on forum and SNS that Bijoy is also at fault for the separation of Dev and Sonkashi. I wanted to know how he was at fault in their separation ?

Don't get me wrong, I am not supporting Bijoy here...Some of his post leap actions are irritating I agree... But I genuinely want to know what was his fault and how he was responsible in bringing a crack in Dev and Sona's relationship.. I have missed a few pre leap episodes and read updates mostly so that's why I am asking this question..

Plz tell me which episodes or which actions of Bijoy have resulted in Dev and Sona's separation and also how he was equally responsible as Ishwari..

Originally posted by: Zeddriz7

I have seen few posts and discussions on forum and SNS that Bijoy is also at fault for the separation of Dev and Sonkashi. I wanted to know how he was at fault in their separation ?

Don't get me wrong, I am not supporting Bijoy here...Some of his post leap actions are irritating I agree... But I genuinely want to know what was his fault and how he was responsible in bringing a crack in Dev and Sona's relationship.. I have missed a few pre leap episodes and read updates mostly so that's why I am asking this question..

Plz tell me which episodes or which actions of Bijoy have resulted in Dev and Sona's separation and also how he was equally responsible as Ishwari..

Ppl just blame him and compare him with ishwari but he is awesome father for sona he is hyper at times but he fights for rights that's all and when things get wrong he fights back
Before leap he was not pro for sona marriage yet he allowed sona to marry because he wanted her happiness unlike ishwari who was a cunning fox .
Ppl just blame bijoy for nothing

He and sona have self respect which few ppl are not liking they expected sona to be a doormat and bijoy back off ... but why which father would keep quite when the family mistreated his daughter

Originally posted by: suma74

I feel Bijoy was not wrong in any way which leads to Sona -Dev separation. No person will take the scoldings/shouts of grabbing money from son-in law and middle class status. Its the normal person behaviour when your swabhiman or self respect is hurt. In no way Bijoy was at fault, including Sona.

Hmm yes. As far as that slap incident and episode is concerned, even I feel Bijoy was not wrong there. Obviously, anyone would feel angry when they are being wrongly accused..

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Ppl just blame him and compare him with ishwari but he is awesome father for sona he is hyper at times but he fights for rights that's all and when things get wrong he fights back
Before leap he was not pro for sona marriage yet he allowed sona to marry because he wanted her happiness unlike ishwari who was a cunning fox .
Ppl just blame bijoy for nothing

He and sona have self respect which few ppl are not liking they expected sona to be a doormat and bijoy back off ... but why which father would keep quite when the family mistreated his daughter

@BOLD - Even I feel the same that he was actually against marriage but agreed to do so bcoz of Sona's happiness and also bcoz he trusted Dev.. It's just that I thought I might have missed something that may have resulted in their separation..

IMHO, Bijoy has been the perfect father for Sona as Soha rightly mentioned. He is temperamental, I agree, but all of his anger pre-leap and also some post-leap are all for totally valid reasons.

Originally posted by: Zeddriz7

Hmm yes. As far as that slap incident and episode is concerned, even I feel Bijoy was not wrong there. Obviously, anyone would feel angry when they are being wrongly accused..

Originally posted by: SwaNia_1

I feel in my POV Bijoy is undoubtedly a good and protective father for sona but He should have stayed quiet when DEV said the truth that he was the one who gave money to squrabh instead He started acuusing ish for gold digger n all instead they should have quietly went away.Bcoz the truth was out n infavt Dev took his inlaws side by telling he lended the money to saurabh.

I agree with you that Bijoy should not have said that.. But we have to note this, before Dev told the truth, he and his wife were standing in the middle when two people were accusing them of taking money, something which they never did.. So obviously, some reaction would be expected from the person even after the truth is out..

And well, let us suppose he went quietly after that and let's imagine that the slap incident never happened.. Even if this wouldn't have happened, Sonakshi would have come and returned that cheque , right ?? And that's what created the entire drama and led to separation and Sona being told to leave home..

So basically, Bijoy was bit harsh in saying those words, but I think that was not responsible for the separation.