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Posted: 8 years ago
#21
Sooo true... and this is the 34 year old business tycoon . But people are different in personal life I guess
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Originally posted by: akpoo

Undoubtedly devs love for sona is selfless but things would never get better if he does not stop looking at things from his mothers glasses

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Indeed you raise a valid point. :)

QUOTE=..natasha..]Im soo hoping that dev and sona never reunite and sona soha live happily ever after..!!!!
If soha needs father figure...she has jatin..however i dont think its needed..!!!

Now if dev and sona reunite it will be like dixit clan accepted her only coz she produced soha..!!!

I wish against the wish that CVs could have shown soha as adopted daughter of sona...in such case neither dev nor ish would be intrested in sona..!!!!


Anyways it will be happy ending with sona becoming mrs dumbo dixit again..!!!!
And mata and beta being together made for each other package...!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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WHY Do we accept and condone "man-handling" as "chemistry?" I think this is about the audience and the actors being more responsible :)



Originally posted by: ..natasha..


How I wish...

But this is indian TV...where only chemistry works
And manhandling is chemistry😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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You are right. The marriage didn't break because of her child bearing abilities. It broke because Dev never could understand his mother's insecurities and never stood up for his wife. Couples who have a hard time having kids know how much the support of the other spouse matters - especially when it comes to family pressures. And we see Dev clearly couldn't protect her much there.

I think the point is that she is currently valued for her ability to have a child. Had this been her adopted kid, would Dev bother? the answer is no

Its also not about who loved whom more - its about thinking through where these characters are now... and that is they are at very different levels of maturity, and have different ideas of what being a family means.

As you suggest, if they both end up as mature but separated parents for Soha, would be very understandable :).



Originally posted by: yyy

If she was considered as baby making machine by Dev then he would not have married her in first place .He would have broken his marriage with her .

I don't get why giving birth to a child is equated to baby making machine ..whether to have a baby or not depends on both man and women .Is giving birth seen as abusing women ?

To your second point , Dev is a self made man too infact he had a bad childhood compared to Sonakshi .He struggled hard to reach where he is today

I can say Dev loved Sonakshi more than she did ...if Dev was really an abusive husband then he would not have tried to balance between his mom and wife .He would be happy in his own world and would have let Sona handle everything.

Dev is one character which is not appreciated enough ...and Sonakshi is one blessed character who is t blamed .

If we see the story from beginning one can see Sonakshi made equal mistakes as Dev ...if Dev gave importance to Ishwari then Sona was no less she gave Bijoy the freedom to badmouthe her husband and control their married life .

If we say Bijoy was right about Dev and it was his concern then Ishwari had a point too when she said their love was not strong enough .Infact she was proved right when they separated 3 months after marriage .

For those calling Dev with names like stalker etc ..hypocrite and kidnapper words can be used for other Characters in the show but I would not go to that extent because circumstances has to kept in mind before passing judgement about others .If a father wanting to know about a child is called stalker then what would one call women keeping child away from father .

I am one among them who is ok if they don't end up together. every love story doesn't have a fairy tale ending .As long as they are not biased towards one character I am ok to see them seperate .For Dev , he doesn't need any other women in his life to complete him apart from his daughter.He would be happy as long as he is part of Soha's life ...I don't think him staying single all his life is a punishment for him .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

women can hold a man's collar ..that doesn't come under physical abuse but a man holding a women by her shoulder is compared to physical abuse ..if latter is physical abuse then let's add former to the list too

I am sad to see words like rapists,murderer being so casually used ...it's an insult to those women who go through this

CVs you got some new words for your upcoming dialogue..you guys are copy cats anyway and blindly use in your show ..please don't disappoint me by not using some new words


tell me why Sona hold Dev's collar? Open your eyes who abuse whom? Don't tell me it's insult to those women because I am one of those & I refuse to accept Dev's behavior

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