FROM NOW ON I HAVE NO SENTIMENTS FOR SONAKSHI!! - Page 5

even i was very disappointed with sona today...her fear that dev might take her daughter away from her is justified but to say soha does not want to meet her father makes no sense at all...

Yes, Sona is wrong is hiding Soha from Dev. From beginning she should have told him, it's his right as a father. But there is no way and I mean NO WAY Sona is anywhere close to being as selfish and ignorant as Ishwari in motherhood. The day Soha expresses her feelings, Sona will walk her to Dev herself!!

Well Sona and Ishwari can't be compared! Ishwari probably had a beautiful home and husband while she had her FOUR kids- secure home environment! Sona was jobless and separated from her husband when she was pregnant! Sonia's father and brother were not earning at that time- she was solo income provider for the whole family. Ishwari' husband died a natural death, while Sona parted ways with Dev with all of misunderstanding and hurtful insults from his family! She is not morally or legally answerable to them given the pre-nup clauses! Ishwari hAd her struggles in life but probably didn't have a over possessive MIL/SIL who made life hell! I think Sonia's experiences have been far more traumatic than Ishwari's-- so a little insecurity for her SOORAJ is justified-- this was the same baby that gave her a ray of hope when she lost everything! She doesnt want to loose that LIGHT! She doesn't TRUST the Dixits. She is broad minded woman and will sooner than later be able to see Soha's desire to meet her dad! It will happen. She and Dev will forget their differences and get together for Soha (similar to what happened during their accidents last week)...

This is what I worry. I think the writers are using Sonakshi to justify Ishwari. What a joke!

Originally posted by: aadk

Ishwari was aware of how Dev yearned for Sonakshi right from the first break up. Yet she would brush it all under the carpet with words like 'barsaati naala', khilauna' and what not just to be in her delusional world where she was the centre of Dev' world.

But Sonkashi is unaware of Soha' hidden emotions for her father. Soha is just like Dev when it comes to masking her emotions to not even remotely hurt her mother. Sonakshi has always given Soha the kind of environment needed to express herself freely. The day Soha opens herself up, Sonakshi would be the first one to take her to her father.

It amuses me how convenient it is to compare Sonakshi with Ishwari for no good reason!

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Omg u ppl stop acting like ishwari now blaming sona just because dev is in bad state .
Sona was asked to get out by dev and taunted for not having baby because of her infertility and dev even called gold digger and used him for money prenup paper was made by ishwari because she was insecured .
Ppl forgot sona knew ishwari was insecured before even getting married to dev sona even tried to adjust to ishwari but no one can tolerate that psycho but sona did .
Ishwari played games and rift devakshi.
Now sona is insecured any mother will be and every one knows dev has the power to snatch soha and ishwari her emotional drama is enough to snatch soha from sona so sona is fearing to reveal yet she didn't hide it from soha but little angel loves her mom so much she doesn't want to hurt her so she never called her dad so what can sona do .
Even if sona reveals to dev he might not understand and will go to court for custody because his ego and his anger is bigger than anything .
Dev made her jobless to get her as neutralist for that psycho mother of his he even made sure the match which came to sona rejects her .
When dev can do so much to ruine her career and her marriage purposal .
for soha he can do anything to have soha back for himself .

U ppl are too much impossible just because dev is suffering ur against sona and comparing her with ishwari there is no comparison with that psychopath.
when sona suffered so much lost her house homeless her father slapped what not I didn't see this defense mechanism from u guys u ppl support dev seriously

Originally posted by: randomramblings

@blue :i don't think sona unaware of her child's feelings I think deep down sona is well aware of Soha's plight. what worries her the most is that just like her, soha will also have an instant liking to dev and dev being dev will leave no stone unturned to get back his daughter once he knows about her. she is not yet ready to share her daughter with him.

@ Red: is the bose family really giving the liberty to soha to express herself freely?

do we really think the children are blind and cannot sense their surroundings or the people with whom they interact. if yes, then better re watch the scenes of dev and golu.

with Bijoy getting so hyper , asha and sona having constipated faces, sharing eye locks whenever there is mere mention of the word DAD , soha will be pushed more into the shell .

Sona is embroiled in her own set of misgiving and insecurities and unknowingly re-creating another Dev in soha who will forever give up on her feelings to be able to match the expectations of her mother.

There are warning bells everywhere if only sona could see them. , " papa ko to kuch bhi nahi mila", " the incident at school" , " kissing her drawing of dad"..

If the same mahol of bose house continues, and if there are going to be talks on sona's remarriage with Jatin then for sure soha will NEVER open up in front of her mother. entire bose clan is so obsessed wtih Sona's moving on that they are neglecting to see " soha" and her desires.

someone said, sona is not painting a bad picture of her dad to soha ,she is not a bad mother and so on. honestly even if sona painted a very negative image of dev, and soha gets to meet dev, she will never get carried away by what sona told her. For a child unknown to us, they always connect with their parents, they need to see the filth with their own eyes before they start hating any of the parent. they may dislike/hate but the element of longing will never go away.

I will have to disagree with you on this. Every time Sona has made an attempt to talk to Soha about her father, the latter has always refused to acknowledge that she misses her father.So, I believe she is still unaware of what's actually going in her daughter' mind. As Tia rightly put it, Sona is taking everything at the face value for she knows how things would only get worse for Soha if she gets involved with the Dixit family. So the situation as of now is a combination of the child's denial of ever missing her father and the mother' protective side wanting to guard the child and her fear of losing(not sharing) her child.

@ blue, that's the reason I mentioned Sonakshi and not the Bose family as a whole. Sonakshi ,as a mother, has given her child the freedom to decide things for herself, from small things as the fights in school to the big decisions as Soha meeting her dad. And she believes Soha is capable of taking her decisions (though am not sure if a 6 year old is capable of that, but that's her liberal way of parenting where the child is accountable for both the choices and the consequences). Yes, Bijoy and Asha sometimes do take away that space to express freely, but even in such situations Sonakshi has stood by the view that Soha got to make her decisions, not anyone else for her. This could be seen in the way she didn't let Bijoy decide for Soha in the first episode. So often we aren't in control of what happens around us. Bijoy' outbursts and the Bose family' dislike for Dev and the Dixits is something that can't be controlled by Sonakshi every single time. In spite of such liberal parenting of Sonakshi and knowing that she can confide in her mother, Soha hesitates for her own reasons. You can't expect Dev-Goul dynamics to reflect in that of Sonakshi-Soha. These relationships have born and grown in very different circumstances to even compare them. Soha' fears need to be addressed lest she becomes another Dev. And for that, we need to give some time for Sonakshi to realise that her child is has grown up enough to hide her emotions from her mother. Just because of some irrational fear in the child's mind, questioning the very credibility of Sonakshi' parenting and the Bose' upbringing seems far too much for me.

Hahah good der aye durust aye..u know what wgen she her to called I dint like that itself..4 god sake shes 6 yrs old...sonakshi is just like ishu means options do but make sure she should select ultimately ehat shw wants..she said no...how bluntly she said...really??? Poor kid don't she d drawing n she kissed... She is convenient listener like bijishwari ...period

Tu maa banogi toh pata cahelga bacche ka moh kya hota h..isues line she is proving right..