FROM NOW ON I HAVE NO SENTIMENTS FOR SONAKSHI!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Omg u ppl stop acting like ishwari now blaming sona just because dev is in bad state .
Sona was asked to get out by dev and taunted for not having baby because of her infertility and dev even called gold digger and used him for money prenup paper was made by ishwari because she was insecured .
Ppl forgot sona knew ishwari was insecured before even getting married to dev sona even tried to adjust to ishwari but no one can tolerate that psycho but sona did .
Ishwari played games and rift devakshi.
Now sona is insecured any mother will be and every one knows dev has the power to snatch soha and ishwari her emotional drama is enough to snatch soha from sona so sona is fearing to reveal yet she didn't hide it from soha but little angel loves her mom so much she doesn't want to hurt her so she never called her dad so what can sona do .
Even if sona reveals to dev he might not understand and will go to court for custody because his ego and his anger is bigger than anything .
Dev made her jobless to get her as neutralist for that psycho mother of his he even made sure the match which came to sona rejects her .
When dev can do so much to ruine her career and her marriage purposal .
for soha he can do anything to have soha back for himself .

U ppl are too much impossible just because dev is suffering ur against sona and comparing her with ishwari there is no comparison with that psychopath.
when sona suffered so much lost her house homeless her father slapped what not I didn't see this defense mechanism from u guys u ppl support dev seriously

Dev is not a saint either were was he when sona and her family were homeless did he bother then why should sona bother .
Did he try to search for her whereabouts back then now why sona has to reveal her secret to dev .
If sona is to be blamed so dev equally was responsible.
He never cared for sona why should women always think about men just because he was hubby .
I don't understand this double standards.
Is soha suffering no sona is single mom who is giving equal love for soha and in school of topic like father comes she got sad but not soha craves to meet her dad if so she would have said to sona and sona is not ishwari she cleared asked are u sure to soha but little kid refused to talk to dev it's soha problem not sona .
Sona has given freedom to soha so that she can take her own decisions unlike ishwari

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Unlike Dev Soha is only 6 years old. When a mother sees her daughter drawing the picture of her father and writing that her dad is tall, handsome, jovial etc ...like a film hero ...it shows how much she yearns to know about her dad...all three, Sona, Bijoy and Asha understood it ...but this time Bose family very conveniently kept mum just like how the Ishwari used to do...

Soha wanted to meet her dad , but she knew her mom will feel bad and Bijoy was very angry...so I guess it caused fear in the child...

So here I would say that Sona and every one in the family knows that they will have to face this issue of Soha meeting her dad...but they are just delaying it.

Ishwari also has the same problem...she knows what the issue is but she never accepts and she dumps the reason on others...
If Sona doesn't mend her ways wrt Soha and Dev...then slowly Soha will become just like Dev!!

And what about all the times when the Boses actually made an attempt to know Soha' feelings? Sonakshi in the very first episode of the season had said that Soha need not think about her, she should be only thinking about her happiness, whether she wants to meets her dad or not. Even Bijoy, even if through the means of a game, tries to know about Soha's feelings. If the child hides her feeling in spite of the family always having given that environment to express herself, it's only because of some sort of fear in the child's mind that hasn't come to the notice of the parent. And expecting parents to read the minds of their children every single time is as unrealistic as it gets! Just as kids grow, parents too grow, becoming better with time. How many days have passed since Sona' assignment on her father. Hardly a few right? Just give some time for Sonakshi to realise that her child has the very same fear that her father had. Lets compare Sonakshi and Ishwari' parenthood once such a revelation happens.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Unlike Dev Soha is only 6 years old. When a mother sees her daughter drawing the picture of her father and writing that her dad is tall, handsome, jovial etc ...like a film hero ...it shows how much she yearns to know about her dad...all three, Sona, Bijoy and Asha understood it ...but this time Bose family very conveniently kept mum just like how the Ishwari used to do...

Soha wanted to meet her dad , but she knew her mom will feel bad and Bijoy was very angry...so I guess it caused fear in the child...

So here I would say that Sona and every one in the family knows that they will have to face this issue of Soha meeting her dad...but they are just delaying it.

Ishwari also has the same problem...she knows what the issue is but she never accepts and she dumps the reason on others...
If Sona doesn't mend her ways wrt Soha and Dev...then slowly Soha will become just like Dev!!

U don't worry sona won't lose soha because prenup claws are favored to sona after devorce its sona responsibility towards soha .
It will be dev and ishwari will lose soha with there own doing they need to mend there ways soha has a sensible mom who let her fly and sona don't want another dev in her life .
Sona will only win dev will only lost he needs to set his anger ego first and mend things with sona to get soha.

By the way did dev go in search for sona these 7 yrs why isn't she was his wife but why this double standard did soha cry for dev no she is so happy with her sona even revealed about dev and gave ph no but soha opted out not to call so sona can't be blamed here .
Don't forget dev threw sona out not sona

Originally posted by: cancerian87

100%agree with u

No one is justifying Dev or his actions...what he is suffering today is because of the decisions/or silence of his past ...

But what I wanted to highlight was Sona and Bose family when faced with a situation , they also started turning gray !! Every one is good ...but the actual character of a person can be judged ONLY when we see them handle situations... I have always stood with Sona and have felt bad for her too...but today when she faced a situation where she felt in secured wrt her daughter ...she behaved like Ishwari ...that doesn't make Sona bad...but this is just the beginning of her insecurities...if she doesn't change now then she will turn into either Ishwari or Bijoy !!

Originally posted by: cancerian87

100%agree with u

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

U don't worry sona won't lose soha because prenup claws are favored to sona after devorce its sona responsibility towards soha .
It will be dev and ishwari will lose soha with there own doing they need to mend there ways soha has a sensible mom who let her fly and sona don't want another dev in her life .
Sona will only win dev will only lost he needs to set his anger ego first and mend things with sona to get soha.

By the way did dev go in search for sona these 7 yrs why isn't she was his wife but why this double standard did soha cry for dev no she is so happy with her sona even revealed about dev and gave ph no but soha opted out not to call so sona can't be blamed here .
Don't forget dev threw sona out not sona

Custody of a girl child mostly goes to mother and that too who is just 6 yrs...Father gets the girl child custody ONLY if it is proved in the court of law that the mothers character is not good...or mother is not mentally stable to take care of the child...or that she is getting married and that new person is threat to the child .

So I am sure even with out a prenup clause , Sona will win if there is a custody battle

Regarding Sonakshi, I am not doubting her affection towards Soha...all I said is , in the seven years she has changed and her love towards her daughter has become her emotional need ...like Ishwari to Dev...it all begins this way...So if Sona doesn't change her mind set then she is going to be insecure and possessive. I am sure in early stages of her life Ishwari wouldn't have been this possessive...it might have taken years...

If Sona's words that I gave Soha the freedom to choose to call her father is justified then Ishwari's statement to Dev that she didn't ask them to separate , infact she always gave him the choice to choose what he wants ...and that she is happy with his decision is also justified...

Sona cannot be compared with Ishwari; yes today she was wrong agree; but please don't compare her action with that psycho Ishwari; she is unaware about Soha yearning to meet her dad; but the day she comes to know abt it; She would be the first person to take Soha to meet her father even if it means to sacrifice her own happiness.. Which Ishwari never did; This is the Huge difference between them!

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

Don't tell anything no-one will understand

Everyone here is blind fan of dev

I am not Team Dev or Team Sona...I want to See Dev , Sona and Soha together as a family...but that cannot justify Sona's statement today...

As a mother I justify her insecurity and fear of loosing the child...its fine ...every parent goes thru that ...but she shouldn't have justified her insecurities by say that she gave the freedom to her 6 yr old to call her dad , but her daughter denied .

Is it justified to keep a child away from her father , I doubt. Dev's anger is towards Sonakshi and never to his child. That cannot be a reason to hide the fact. No matter what people say or behave the fact remains that Soha is Dev's child.

And regarding the prenup...It need not be valid to as Sona signed after marriage...and Dev can say in the court that his mom got it signed due to her insecurities and while he signed the paper he was in a drunken state..just a thought...any contract can be argued and won...but here Sona has a big chance to win because the child is under age and a girl ...and is financially well off

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Custody of a girl child mostly goes to mother and that too who is just 6 yrs...Father gets the girl child custody ONLY if it is proved in the court of law that the mothers character is not good...or mother is not mentally stable to take care of the child...or that she is getting married and that new person is threat to the child .

So I am sure even with out a prenup clause , Sona will win if there is a custody battle

Regarding Sonakshi, I am not doubting her affection towards Soha...all I said is , in the seven years she has changed and her love towards her daughter has become her emotional need ...like Ishwari to Dev...it all begins this way...So if Sona doesn't change her mind set then she is going to be insecure and possessive. I am sure in early stages of her life Ishwari wouldn't have been this possessive...it might have taken years...

If Sona's words that I gave Soha the freedom to choose to call her father is justified then Ishwari's statement to Dev that she didn't ask them to separate , infact she always gave him the choice to choose what he wants ...and that she is happy with his decision is also justified...

@ bold, I agree with you that Sonakshi needs Soha for her existence. Soha is her biggest emotional strength and it's natural for any mother to feel the way she did today. There is a difference in making a statement and then following up by actions that run in the totally opposite direction. That's Ishwari. But Sonakshi never manipulated Soha regarding her father and then asked her to take a stance. There lies the difference between the two. Ishwari even to this day blames Sonakshi for all the happenings in Dev's life and gets away with her famous line 'maine kabhi tum donon ko alog hone ko nhi kaha', while the truth of the matter is that all the mess is a result of her self-centred actions.