Too Complicated For Simple Minds! - Page 9

Originally posted by: AngelsFlyAlone

We're all entitled to our own opinion and we have a right to express our thoughts, albeit in a respectful manner. If you aren't gaining enjoyment from his posts, you also needn't comment.

Also, just like you are able to back up your own reasons, so is he!

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Hey, you can't say that this is not the place anymore - You are an Avenger! Stay true to your name 😊
We might sound negative but we care; the idea is not express and not impress; so what even if it is negative. The forum belongs to each one of us and we all will exercise and express what we feel.
Mr Das and everyone who is even remotely disappointed in the show, please ignore the posts that miss your/ our point, and continue with the discussions. Love your posts and honestly I keep coming back because of like minded people like yourself.

on a lighter note, Mr Das your post is running into double digits in pages.. it is a super hit! Bingo!

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Hey, you can't say that this is not the place anymore - You are an Avenger! Stay true to your name 😊
We might sound negative but we care; the idea is not express and not impress; so what even if it is negative. The forum belongs to each one of us and we all will exercise and express what we feel.
Mr Das and everyone who is even remotely disappointed in the show, please ignore the posts that miss your/ our point, and continue with the discussions. Love your posts and honestly I keep coming back because of like minded people like yourself.

on a lighter note, Mr Das your post is running into double digits in pages.. it is a super hit! Bingo!

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

Dear sajini. .. tum to poori kind poori dev team pe ho. 😆

But I would like to ask you something. As you said husband and wife relation made by god. I agree on that. But God never said only wife should understand and wife should follow or respect husband blindly. It is equal responsibility of husband as well to make marriage successful. I think sona had contributed enough to her relationship. Now it is dev turn to understand her and woo her back and give her all due respect.

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

First and foremost I am going to clearly say one thing, I at least watch the show because I still love it. If I had stopped liking it I would have packed my bags long ago. Why should I bother to watch anything that gives me a negative vibe? I watch TV to enjoy. Same way I don't post on the forum anywhere except one or two threads where I know there will not be negativity. Again the same logic. I watch the show for entertainment which the show is currently providing. I learnt my lesson when I realised that the negativity sticks with you and gets transferred to your personal life. After all we all have a real life and it's very silly to let it get affected due to just a story. So this is my request to you also Dasji. Please treat this just as a show for entertainment.

Now coming to the characters of the show , I know you are senior to me in age but still would like to ask you a few questions is everything ever black and white? . Is there always only one side of a coin? Are you sure your entire analysis and hypotheses is not based on only one side of the story?

It's natural to look at things from the angle which is easier for us to understand, with which we are familiar.

Is Dev so horrible and Sonakshi so saintly? I don't think so. I love both these characters and both have done their fair share of mistakes, though Dev's mistakes are much more than Sona. If Dev fatal flaw was his mother and his weakness of character (nature not physical ), Sona's was a pride in her capabilities. From where we are standing this doesn't look like a weakness but then behaviour patterns have to be changed basis who we are dealing with, else it is sureshot failure or in this case divorce.

But stating that their love story is dead, I am sorry to say points to a very superficial observation of things. From day one of the leap, there were assertions being made as to how Sona is completely over Dev and doesn't care although it was obvious to any diligent observer that it was not the case.

The accident episode was an eye opener for many. But just after one day, when Sona was again rude with Dev, the same sweeping statements again started. This is actually coming across as funny and shows a very very poor understanding of human behaviour by those claiming to be immature psychologists.

We should wait some time and after a few episodes Sona's love for Dev will again be exposed. If people are not even able to read the female character properly, they are giving verdicts on who is right and who needs to be hanged, I would say it's very funny.

People don't expose their real emotions all the time. It is the fleeting expressions or behaviour patterns that matter

Sona's behaviour from day one was shouting that she is not over Dev. is it not Again a classic case of seeing what we want to?

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

Sajini, yes, you are the one that I met and I am joyed at this. You are a wonderful person for sure and a joy to interact with. I will never talk about what you have told me about yourself for that will be a breach of trust and for me trust matters a lot.

I respect our views dear, but what is there to disagree with after reading your post? You are adding some of your views to it and it is fine by me.

I can write one line or hundred.. the point is be respectful and put up with the alternate view too, neutral, negative or positive. We are all investing our time in the show and are entitled to determine what does and what doesn't touch our hearts.

Finally, you cannot take one line of a post and blow it out of proportion for convenience. Even if you feel you had to, I would have appreciated that you would take note of asking someone, like someone just did, to examine his or her life based on comments on a fictional show! A ridiculous statement!

I am always at peace dear, even in real life. You have seen me. If I did not have this peace, the peace that comes from GOD, I would have withered away long ago. I have lived with the worst of people in real life, in business, in personal networks, what is cyber world.

Thanks and take care..

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

@Dasji

Problem is of balance and understanding that there is nothing known as completely right or completely wrong otherwise that completely right person would be God's incarnation. We want a show which is near to reality but have ever in real life there been a single case where one person was completely right and the other completely wrong?

It's human to err. And it's also very human to not realise where and how we have erred. In fact even if we remember the past, we colour it according to our perceptions and see only what makes us feel better. It is a scientific fact that no two recollections of the same memory are the same.

That is something even the leads are suffering from. There is love but buried under pain and anger. But is it so easy to forget love? Children hurt their parents a lot. Is it so easy for parents to dump their children.

Same way here there but was lot of love. There was an insensitivity on the part of Dev to understand Sona's emotions but there was no dearth of love. It was an immature and insensitive but very very strong love. If it had not been there then the leads would have become indifferent to each other over seven years and would not have been so bitter. So in my opinion there is still a lot of story left for them to understand where they went wrong and to rediscover their relationship.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Sajinifaby

Beautiful post. Loved it.