Is there a difference? - Page 2

Honestly if anyone thinks that ishwari and bijoy are on the same line then its unfair becoz its now a universal truth that ishwari is absolutely obsessive, selfish and a psycho person.

P and Q are like chalk and cheese - you can make them look like from the outset but their texture, nature and taste are all different.

No difference! Story has already lost main idea of mature love story! It's now looks remake of "bade acche lagte hay"! I don't understand if you claim to love someone so much what's stopping you to go to that person! Why in 7 year dev never try to contact sona & same from Sona?

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Thanks for this post.
In last few days two parallels have been drawn one between Ishwari and Bijoy and second between Ishwari and Sonakshi.

Ur post justifies that both these parallels are incorrect.
Ishwari is a insanely possesive mother, who has destroyed her son's life conpletely but still living in denial and blaming the whole world for her son's destruction.

Bijoy on other hand is protective father who developed fears against this family after meeting Ishwari and reading her mind. Dev breaking up for his mother strengthen his belief but he still let his daughter go with her decision and fibal seperation and its reasons have made him anti to that family.

Sonakshi fears are much different than Ishwari. Yes, Sonakshi is hiding Soha's existence from Dev. But how can we forget she was kicked out of Dev's life being told that she was inconplete as she cannot become a mother. Sonakshi is not hiding Soha's presence from Dev, she is actually hiding it from Ishwari because she knows that lady can stoop down to any level to possess Suhana. They are the once who had made prenup clause of Sona's kids will not have any right over Dev's money and property but now that the child is in existence, they will have full claim on her.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I would say ,Yes!! there is a difference .

I would compare P with Sugar and Q with Cigarette

Sugar is needed for body to survive but when taken in abundance will cause Diabetes and will cause harm to the body

Cigarette is not required for the body ...initially will enjoy ...slowly the body becomes addictive and then later it reaches a stage when body will find difficult to breath ...eventually will destroy

Nice analogy.👏
So protective father is good for the child when the protectiveness is in the right amount...when over protective , parents tend to destroy their kids happiness

Possessive parents can be really bad...because they don't allow the child to bloom in the right way...have wings of their own to experience the world and his/her life.

In our story Bijoy is over protective father but thankfully Sonakshi has Asha who tries to warn Bijoy when he becomes over protective. So Sonakshi was allowed to breath, fly and experience ...enjoy life..

In case Ishwari every one around her agrees to her possessiveness and Dev became addicted to it as he didn't have any friends or any one else ...so he also started responding to that affection...but when Sonakshi came into his life the whole dynamics of the relationship betwn his mom and him changed...and Ishwari was not willing to change..

I agree. If Bijoy goes over board with his protectiveness,Asha is always there to make him realise it. Being protective about your child is very natural but that protectiveness should not become so overbearing that it hinders the child to take a decision on own terms and experience life even if it involves making mistakes and facing failure.As parents,I think that line was not crossed by Bijoy-Asha.

As for Ishwari's possessiveness, it was fanned by everybody around her and it grew so much that it ended up suffocating her son.

Honestly I feel bad for Dev ... I guess he never grew up...because his mom never allowed him to grow up...we might look at him and say when he got married he was 28 yrs old high time to understand what is good and bad...but its not easily done ...this guy's love for her is the first time in his entire life managed to have someone other than his mother ...and he himself was not able to gauge what his feel is for her...all he knew is tht when she was not around his life is in turmoil...and she completes him...and he can just him ...he felt no matter what he said or did she would understand his troubles and help him out..

This is because Sona not even once had to show hter vulnerable side to him because she had a strong support system at home...where as for Dev she was his support system...

They both needed to be each other's support system. Unfortunately it was one sided and taken for granted.

Honestly I want him to get his Sona and Soha back...this guy deserves happiness... I know he has spoken very rudely to her because he got angry with her ...abv all under the influence of alcohol ...
When you compare Sona and Dev...I feel Sona was always the blessed one ...even during the break up...and again during their seven long years of separation...Sona always had something to look forward ...ppl to help her to move on...

But that's not the case with Dev...he didn't have anything other than his responsibilities to look forward or move on...his support system at home would always show him that he has taken wrong decisions by falling in love with her ...and take him on a guilt trip...he is the one who is always in pain...
I would be fine even if Dev and Sona do not end up together .Dev was wronged by his family and he did not have a good support system but that certainly does not excuse the pain he caused Sonakshi. Quoting from one of PP's posts- "There is always someone out there whose pain is worse than yours. But that doesn't make your pain less than valid."

Those two have lots to introspect and discuss for any reconciliation to happen.

So yes I do feel for Dev...and I am liking this present Dev too...atleast he has changed to accept that ppl around him are only there because he has money...I just hope he finds peace in his life thru Soha...

I like that he can see the true faces of all members in Dixit family and is giving it back to them.

Originally posted by: AA1122

Very nice write up!

However I want to say just one thing!

End does not justify the means- irrespective what the intentions are perceived to be actions is what matter!

Thanks😊We are what we do and without actions,intentions are just that;intentions.

Originally posted by: Shlroy

Honestly if anyone thinks that ishwari and bijoy are on the same line then its unfair becoz its now a universal truth that ishwari is absolutely obsessive, selfish and a psycho person.

Whereas bijoy too has some shortcomings in him too but it's nowhere near ishwari's erratic behavior. Bijoy is a protective father and he loves sona and will obviously despise anyone who is gonna hurt her which is natural for any parents. Yes bijoy too sometimes become overbearing and loud in his pursuit of protecting sona but the fact that bijoy always acts for the benefit of sonakshi and never against her unlike ishwari who always made conscious effort to always keep herself foremost in dev's life

Originally posted by: jigsaw1234

P and Q are like chalk and cheese - you can make them look like from the outset but their texture, nature and taste are all different.

You have raised a very different thinking though and I wonder are the CVs trying to justify Ishwari by Showing Sona's fears? Son's fears are justified to me but with the wash over on issues this show has shown, it does worry me.