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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sonakshi returned everything ... by EVERYTHING I mean even the "Namaste" that Ishwari handed out to her. But Sonakshi's namaste was given out with the utmost grace and dignity unlike Ishwari who was once again in her bechari and melodramatic mode.

Sonakshi didn't just return everything but in turn she also made it clear to one and all present in that room that by helping Dev she was not making any attempts to be a part of their family. She understands Ishwari psychi quite well and knows that Ishwari must be thinking in those lines. Thank fully this time around Dev also understands this. That is why he also addressed the issue with his mom by saying " kis bath se dar gayi thi tu.. mera liye ya phir Sonakshi wapas meri life main na aa jaye is liye"

Dev was indeed baffled by Sonakshi's change in attitude in the hospital but he understood where it came from when Ishwari said to him that she had thanked Sonakshi and she was so scared about his well being. This time he was ready to hand out some verbal punches back to his mom.

Ishwari has always been shown as "miss know it all", even in the past whenever she would lecture her bahu Sonakshi it would always be filled with proverbs, metaphors, analogies etc. Just like today it was about how most daughter in law's give their everything to make relationships work ... Mind you the phrase she used didn't say girls give everything to make "marriages" work it was in fact "relationships" So it was never about how good a wife she was to Dev and kept him happy, but in fact how she could not be a good enough daughter in law. Dev had a fitting reply this time.

Another thing to note was her narrow mindedness over the fact that it is only the women's duty to make a marriage work. Just like off late she is amazed by the fact that Sonakshi is doing so well in life inspite of being a girl. Dev realizes this too. That his mom is backward in her thinking that it why he gives it back by saying that it was in fact a lady who saved him and also that "Mard ko bhi dard hota hai" some wounds are so deep that they cannot be healed.

It is amazing how 7 years of separation can make a person contemplate and think about where he went wrong. Dev although blames himself as well as Sonakshi equally for their break up, but in seven years he has also realized that his mom is a human being with flaws and not the "Bhagwan" that he had envisioned her for 28 years. Her emotional blackmailing is not going to work this time around.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Good point. In fact, Ishwari's advices and metaphorical lectures were never applicable to her own daughters. It's always for the daughter-in-law. She did the same when she advised Sonakshi to sort out her marital problems in Sasural and not to drag it to maika while her own daughter dragged her marital problem to divorce court and settled in maika.
I believe marriage needs work from both sides. But even if we could give Ishwari some leeway for being old fashioned, she fails again due to her double standard.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Good point. In fact, Ishwari's advices and metaphorical lectures were never applicable to her own daughters. It's always for the daughter-in-law. She did the same when she advised Sonakshi to sort out her marital problems in Sasural and not to drag it to maika while her own daughter dragged her marital problem to divorce court and settled in maika.

I believe marriage needs work from both sides. But even if we could give Ishwari some leeway for being old fashioned, she fails again due to her double standard.


True her own daughter was failed in her marriage...she is giving lecture for another girl...double standard.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I love that she returned everything. She cleared that she was not trying to make any rishta.. not even 'ehsaan ka' ! Amazing dialogues
Edited by Pooja118 - 8 years ago
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Great post. Could not agree more.
Now that they are back to at least normal talking, or at least they can, it would have been good to show how mature adults handle differences, mis-understandings, bitterness, and all the pent up emotions... it would be a great message to a hurting world where such things have now even pervaded the home..

Feel very sad that the path being chosen is something else.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="3" color="#663300">Good point. In fact, Ishwari's advices and metaphorical lectures were never applicable to her own daughters. It's always for the daughter-in-law. She did the same when she advised Sonakshi to sort out her marital problems in Sasural and not to drag it to maika while her own daughter dragged her marital problem to divorce court and settled in maika.</font>

<font size="3" color="#663300">I believe marriage needs work from both sides. But even if we could give Ishwari some leeway for being old fashioned, she fails again due to her double standard.</font>



Of course, these special lectures were only reserved for the "BAHU". But isn't that the plight of our society. It is always the Bahu's mistakes but in case of their own daughters their own upbringing cannot be faulted with. I am glad this serial is addressing all these problems.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Amazing post
Sona attitude and dev taunting to ish were highlights
Ish has problems with everything which involves sona even she left dev she has problems and blame her and her family that dev not a puppet anymore .
One good thing happened is dev realized each move of ish the heights of insecurity she is carrying herself .
Dev evolved to be a reasonable person who knows to judge right and wrong but anger of losing sona and anger on his mom that she was the reason of there failed marriage.
The way he gave answers were treat to watch and deserving for ish who constantly tries to poison his mind .
Her lecture today was down market why couldn't she preach her own daughter about staying loyal in marriage and die for it why sona has that rule always .
Ish insecured because she knew sona is smart enough to handle the house and family she knew dev is influenced by her in big way she feared she will occupy her space how foolish is that mother place is different and wife place is different both are equal and most important for men .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mkt2004



Of course, these special lectures were only reserved for the "BAHU". But isn't that the plight of our society. It is always the Bahu's mistakes but in case of their own daughters their own upbringing cannot be faulted with. I am glad this serial is addressing all these problems.


I disagree here. Ishs lectures are only for Sona Devs wife. According to ish Elena is a wonderful bahu! Her rules are only for poor Sona!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pooja118

I love that she returned everything. She cleared that she was not trying to make any rishta.. not even 'ehsaan ka' ! Amazing dialogues



You are right... thanks for pointing it out :)). Sonakshi was smart to let Ishwari know that she doesn't owe Sonakshi anything. You never know Ishwari might return to Bose residence in the pretext of returning her ehsaan in the form of her son while in actuality she wants to get back in her beta's good books again.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Brilliant post.
Sonakshi returned everything yesterday and now the both are equal in terms of obligations. I really liked when she cleared out everything to Dixits because she knew they might think on other lines. Also, she told ishwari clearly that she didn't wanted any forceful relationship with them, be it of Ehsaan also.
Ishwari on other hand still holds Sona responsible for whatever happened. Its like Dev and soankshi are rolling drums in her ears and she is singing her own song by closing her ears.

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