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Posted: 8 years ago
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Know your audience This is the first thing they teach in communication or sales and also is the first form of effective communication.

Know yourself and Know your audience---Tennesee Ernie Ford
I love the second quote more because it extends it to know yourself too and that applies to personal communications

Today Easwari failed to know her audience or her self. She spoke to Dev the 8 year old she knew and who listened to everything she said as Gods own truth but her audience has changed Dev is no longer the son who listens blindly the separation and Sona's stay in his life, though for a short time has taught him that what Easwari wants is not for his good but her own. It looks like today Dev did give her back..I have not yet watched the episode

If we do not know our audience we cannot sell anything I cannot still sell typewriters to the young crowd or the old for that matter because they have moved to computers so if I still am manufacturing Typewriters I will have a failed business. At a personal level we first need to be sure that the party that we are speaking to are open to our conversations, the conversations is relevant and also how we are approaching the conversation- essentially we have to look at ourselves too .

Here Easwari is still holding on to her old ideas of who Dev is and I am thinking today Dev just spoke back but down the line he will really Rebel and Easwari's tactics may push him more and more towards Sona especially since there is Soha in the mix too. So in essence this tactics of Easwari may have worked on the previous version of Dev but not this time and it may actually backfire on her--which I am hoping it would

To Easwari
stop looking for happiness in the same place as you lost it..because that place has changed and so should you

Regarding Soha feel sorry for that child not knowing a father when he is right there. I hope Sona takes the right decision regarding this. As far as the new entrant hope he is Good to and for Sona and Soha and maybe this show can have all of them being happy together even Sona and Dev are not .. Maybe that is what the third promo was about.

I watched a movie La La land and the hero and the heroine love each other but decide to go separate they still love each other but the FL moves on to live a happy life for she got a second chance at life and Love . Maybe Soha is the second chance for Dev and the new guy if Sona wants the second chance for her

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Posted: 8 years ago
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CVs certainly learned their audience and must be reading our frustration. Aaj to dhamaka ho gaya... Kaash yeh dhamaka saat saal pehle hota to Soha ko apne papa imagine nehin karna padta. Par chalo koi nehin. Der aaye, lekin aaye to sahi...
Sabita, today's theme is Pharrell Williams's "Happy"... 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i have to point at Ishwari's character and applaud Supriya Pilgaonkar for her portrayal of a lost mother. She bore four children but she mothered only one. She found a world of support in an eight year old boy and refused to let him walk away.
She has been stuck in her past so much that she can't navigate the world without the hand of her son.


One of the things that happened early on in the show with Ishwari reminds me how she was always in a bubble of delusion. It was when Sonakshi saves Ishwari and then comes in as her nutritionist the next day, that Ishwari complains that the nutritionist who is suppose to tell her how to diet is taking 200000 RS as salary from her son. She was already possessive about the materialistic things Dev owned. and although at the time it looked like a harmless quip by a poor woman, it was a woman who couldn't understand why his son would give someone something without consulting her about it and taking charge of the situation himself.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi,
Wonderful post again.But u coming with posts faster than I can respond to them...😆😆...And unfortunately I am not the twitter variety..It takes me 140 characters to just get going ..That is the downside of being a professor...I get to talk non stop😉..

Anyway...Will get back on this too..but tomorrow..Its late again today...😆😆

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