I also wanted to tell a few things.
I really felt bad for Dev yesterday.
I just wanted to tell him that the woman standing before you is not your sona anymore
I was thinking about bijoy & iswari.
These two don't have any regrets in spoiling their children's life.
As a good father, he should have supported sona emotionally.
If he felt Dev was a bad choice, he should have discussed with her in detail not immediately, but in due course.
Only then sona would have opened up.
They have lived their life.
Is it too much to ask to a parent to think about the future of their child??
In that case bijoy have not understood sona at all.
She has a forgiving nature.
She loves Dev with all his weakness & flaws.
What bijoy thinks right may not be right for sona.
If he had showed some greatness as sona did in birthday of dev ,
Things would not have gone this bad. I am not defending anybody.
Was thinking what could have saved their marriage.
Ok . They had separated. Atleast then bijoy should have advised her to move on.
He thought about his insult only .
True, sona has become emotionally distant from them.
Soha is the only solace for her.
For Dev ?? He lost everything.
If iswari has not learnt anything after this , then nobody can help.
If parents think that it is not their fault, then what children will do ?
This is a big eye opener for those parents who think that they know better what their children want from life.
They didn't need 400 chores. They just wanted their home back, right??
Bijoy should have been the person to make sona understand that there is much more to life than ego & pride.
Any parent in this situation would have done that.
I am not saying go & marry sona off to another person the next month itself.
Bijoy did the same mistake during their break up & now also.
According to them sona & Dev are strong (bijoy & iswari)
They always hid their vulnerable side from their parents,
Alas !! If they think like any normal parent, then Dev & sona would not be in this situation.
Sorry for my long rant.
As parents, we have to be mature & responsible.
Forgiveness is one thing which anyone should have & need to teach the younger generation also.
Today's world- where divorce is so common on some trivial issues,
Parents always have an important part to play- to guide them in right direction.