Originally posted by: gmgi
Aditi, beautiful post as usual. Sona was not only Dev's wife but they were best friends. When she left him and he pushed away his mother he was left with an emotional void because he had an emotional connection only with them. Golu filled that void. They both nurtures each other.
And it is not that Ishwari cannot see. Before she did not want to see because it was akin to admitting that her son needs Sona in his life or that she is important to him just like his family. Now she wants him to open up to her. He cuts her off emotionally. She can see and feel his facade and the way he puts on a show but even when she tries to connect with him he just shutdown. She can't get through to him. The irony of it. 😔 When he showed she looked the other way and now she wants him to show he pushes her away
yes i agree ishwari can understand too that dev gets affected by sona...i hv written it in some other post and i will write it here too...
ishwari can read his eyes but only reads according to own convenience...during the first separation track dev was literally dead...he did not eat properly...he neglected office...stalked sona all the time...returned home late and wat not...still ishwari showed no concern except that dev is not inhuman so obviously cant forget sona in one day and his pain will go in a few days...
wen dev was dying inside obviously his eyes mirrored the same...mamaji cud read it and so went to his room one day to tell him that he has done a great mistake by leaving sona...
wen i say ishwari cant read his eyes i mean that she cant read it in the true form...if dev's eyes shows that he is dying widout sona then ishwari reads it as a short term malady that will get cured in a few days...of course now with 7 years gone ishwari is aware dev is still affected by sona...
today she feels that he is affected but the intensity of pain i am sure she can never feel...and the reason is that she does not want to believe that dev can feel so strongly for someone other than his mom...