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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

Aditi, beautiful post as usual. Sona was not only Dev's wife but they were best friends. When she left him and he pushed away his mother he was left with an emotional void because he had an emotional connection only with them. Golu filled that void. They both nurtures each other.
And it is not that Ishwari cannot see. Before she did not want to see because it was akin to admitting that her son needs Sona in his life or that she is important to him just like his family. Now she wants him to open up to her. He cuts her off emotionally. She can see and feel his facade and the way he puts on a show but even when she tries to connect with him he just shutdown. She can't get through to him. The irony of it. 😔 When he showed she looked the other way and now she wants him to show he pushes her away


Completely agree. She very well understands that Dev was disturbed seeing Sonakshi after 7yrs but just like before Ishwari wants Dev to come to her and open his heart out, seek her advice and remain emotionally dependent on her only. She knows if she probes further or bring out Sona's topic again, she wud again get more resentment from Dev. This is the biggest problem with both Ishwari and Dev...they wud just do anything to avoid direct confrontation and believe problems will be solved on their own with time. They don't try to find solutions but try hard to avoid accepting the problem itself. If she accepts her fault in separating Dev and Sona, then Dev could bring Sona back and that is unacceptable to Ishwari. The only that will work for Ishwari will be Dev hating Sona n putting all blame on Sona.

Dev was okay few minutes back but after talking with Ishwari he becomes sad...So when Golu sees Dev sad..it not just abt Sona..he is sad abt Ish too.

P.S. Ishwari wud send Golu to boarding school soon coz Dev is giving him much more importance 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings



Completely agree. She very well understands that Dev was disturbed seeing Sonakshi after 7yrs but just like before Ishwari wants Dev to come to her and open his heart out, seek her advice and remain emotionally dependent on her only. She knows if she probes further or bring out Sona's topic again, she wud again get more resentment from Dev. This is the biggest problem with both Ishwari and Dev...they wud just do anything to avoid direct confrontation and believe problems will be solved on their own with time. They don't try to find solutions but try hard to accept the problem itself. If she accepts her fault in separating Dev and Sona, then Dev could bring Sona back and that is unacceptable to Ishwari. The only that will work for Ishwari will be Dev hating Sona n putting all blame on Sona.

Dev was okay few minutes back but after talking with Ishwari he becomes sad...So when Golu sees Dev sad..it not just abt Sona..he is sad abt Ish too.

P.S. Ishwari wud send Golu to boarding school soon coz Dev is giving him much more importance😆


😆 your P.S cracked me up. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She can sense everything that's why she came to console him. Internally she knew that dev us not happy without sona but she is helpless can't do anything as she thinks sona left her son nd her son lost faith in her. So she is totally helpless nd depressed, no mother wud want her son at roam unpurposefully. I think she will emotionally blackmail dev when she gets to know abt soha.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Sure. Yes, I meant Dev. He has a tendency to blame everyone but himself. However, I have seen many men who are unable to see their own fault, realises their mistakes when their daughter says it.

When he sees Soha as an independent, smart, honest little girl, he will realise where he went wrong and why his marriage broke up or I hope he does.


Tia its not just dev who needs to understand why the marriage failed. Sona too needs to be shown a mirror somewhere down the line. Like how soha pointed out yesterday, she taught her not to get bullied, but did not give it back to Dev when it was due. she carried the baggage and let it out a very wrong place and in a very wrong way.

To me both the parents have double standards, a lady like sona who believed in prince charming, telling her daughter that her dad was not just good enough for her but at the same time training her daughter to be a "boy hater" in a general sense , sound very hypo critic.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful post dear...
I loved it...

I also loved dev golu scene... So pure and magical it was... I felt evn golu understands dev more than sona...

Forget ish... She is a gone case... I just hate her false love...

Also one more highlight was how dev immediately came yo golu when he was willing to tell abt his school happenings... Bt gkb and vik neither seemed interested... Bt his big cha is always thr fr him... And den golu ki line... I missed u bigcha...
And vileena regrets being parents... Chi...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinatartari

Ur post ws an honest nd beautiful depiction of their relationship..
Bt it made me gape in horror..hamary dev babu 35 yrs k ho b gayye??lagty tou 25 k bhi nhi..
Koi 35 yrs myn itna dashing nd smart kxey o skta nd harr roz dev aur young o rha..aakhir kia raaz hai isme??


rofl dev was 27 and then he had his bday which made him 28 and so after 7 years he is 35...come on...35 is not old especially a man...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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So beautiful post
Very well written 👏

Really dev and golu's relationship is so sweet
He understand that his big cha is in pain
So sweet relationship

I loved that scene
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings


Completely agree. She very well understands that Dev was disturbed seeing Sonakshi after 7yrs but just like before Ishwari wants Dev to come to her and open his heart out, seek her advice and remain emotionally dependent on her only. She knows if she probes further or bring out Sona's topic again, she wud again get more resentment from Dev. This is the biggest problem with both Ishwari and Dev...they wud just do anything to avoid direct confrontation and believe problems will be solved on their own with time. They don't try to find solutions but try hard to avoid accepting the problem itself. If she accepts her fault in separating Dev and Sona, then Dev could bring Sona back and that is unacceptable to Ishwari. The only that will work for Ishwari will be Dev hating Sona n putting all blame on Sona.

Dev was okay few minutes back but after talking with Ishwari he becomes sad...So when Golu sees Dev sad..it not just abt Sona..he is sad abt Ish too.

P.S. Ishwari wud send Golu to boarding school soon coz Dev is giving him much more importance 😆


first of all ur P.S. v funny 😆

@ ur bold part...well i wud like to disagree here...dev was sad after meeting sona and the confrontation and getting arrested by police and all...

he was sad when he entered the house and golu noticed it that time only but mentioned it later in the bedroom...wen ishwari left golu was not even looking at him as he was playing with his video game...he said u r sad because he felt it wen big cha entered the house...i dont think ishwari affects him on daily basis anymore but he has met sona after 7 years and the meeting was v ugly...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Relationship are not bound by blood but by love . When he is all alone none of his family members for whom he dedicated his life came out to support him .

I think it goes both ways ..Golu a neglected kid found someone who loved him unconditionally and Dev a lonely soul got unadulterated and unconditional love from Golu.

Golu is someone with a pure heart so he could see his BigCha's sadness .I do feel Dev tolerates Vicky despite everything for Golu's sake


agree totally...one neglected and one lonely soul...no combination can go more deeper than this...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

Aditi, beautiful post as usual. Sona was not only Dev's wife but they were best friends. When she left him and he pushed away his mother he was left with an emotional void because he had an emotional connection only with them. Golu filled that void. They both nurtures each other.
And it is not that Ishwari cannot see. Before she did not want to see because it was akin to admitting that her son needs Sona in his life or that she is important to him just like his family. Now she wants him to open up to her. He cuts her off emotionally. She can see and feel his facade and the way he puts on a show but even when she tries to connect with him he just shutdown. She can't get through to him. The irony of it. 😔 When he showed she looked the other way and now she wants him to show he pushes her away



yes i agree ishwari can understand too that dev gets affected by sona...i hv written it in some other post and i will write it here too...

ishwari can read his eyes but only reads according to own convenience...during the first separation track dev was literally dead...he did not eat properly...he neglected office...stalked sona all the time...returned home late and wat not...still ishwari showed no concern except that dev is not inhuman so obviously cant forget sona in one day and his pain will go in a few days...

wen dev was dying inside obviously his eyes mirrored the same...mamaji cud read it and so went to his room one day to tell him that he has done a great mistake by leaving sona...

wen i say ishwari cant read his eyes i mean that she cant read it in the true form...if dev's eyes shows that he is dying widout sona then ishwari reads it as a short term malady that will get cured in a few days...of course now with 7 years gone ishwari is aware dev is still affected by sona...

today she feels that he is affected but the intensity of pain i am sure she can never feel...and the reason is that she does not want to believe that dev can feel so strongly for someone other than his mom...

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