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Posted: 8 years ago
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My mom was so pissed at Ishwari tonight when she spewed that garbage moaning usne mera ghar toda, while I was🤣 and also pissed that how Sona never upgraded from us ladki to Meri bahu level in her eyes. Not even a living breathing person, just a third whoever whatever stranger out there who just existed for her, not feeling a thing. Compassion from a human to another, a woman to another woman? What bullshit.😵

Dev is such a loser, always hiding. I pity the girl, she's going to be heartbroken just like Sona cause this loser didn't clear it earlier that he was just casual with her. It had to go for months/weeks, it had to had some depth. He was having Sona's fb those truths, I dunno if he was looking at himself and having moment of self loathing.


Bijoy aw, while I agree with asha about his over protectiveness but can we really blame him? He's proving right all the time, dev was never good for Sona, he knew Dixits were evil, he wlknew going back would be mistake. Any parent would be like that. I also think asha should tone down her attitude to her, if you don't agree with him don't berate so harshly. Giving freeing to kids is different, but you should know what's happening in kid's life. A mother always knows, it's sad she never had a clue how Sona suffered in Dhouse and without knowing the depths of problem she have idea like compromise. See what those advices did.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bijoy Bose is needed in Delhi immediately. I know if he hears Sona is in trouble...he'll come running to Delhi...he is the only savior Sona has😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Its mandatory for female lead to remain pure and deprived of any sexual needs .Another aspect where indian television failed🤢 like females ki koi needs hi nahi hoti.double standard everywhere.

lmao I guess they were so pure that they asked their hubbies how kids are made, discovered their sexual parts, and words like orgasm only from him😆🥱 Indian telly does it too much, girl don't know about blush, don't know what's checking out, but at the same time rely on sexual tension eg when a stranger corners you and twist your arm, pulls you close it should scream harassment and you should fear he's going to do...You know what. You don't stand there looking at his deep black eyes.🤢
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree. That double standard is my problem as well. What I don't want is Sonakshi to go back to Dev which obviously she doesn't want. My problem is that if you are with your current girlfriend, stay there. Why are you harassing your ex-wife? He is banging on her door in the middle of the night. What kind of loafer does that? Sonakshi doesn't care if he sleeps with one or fifty woman. We don't care either.



Originally posted by: Lady_Macbeth

Well I do have a slightly different take on Dev's "infidelity" ,

I wouldn't have any problem with Dev having casual flings and ONS with multiple girls , keep girlfriends and have physical intimacy with them , since he's divorced and owes no loyalty to any one.
However the hypocrisy by certain people absolutely stuns me , that they find Dev's behavior acceptable whence they raised a huge hue and cry over Sona trying to move on with Ritwik , I mean nothing could make it more glaringly obvious that people in our society have different sets of rules applicable when it comes to physicality and relationship aspects of men vs. women.
Would they have found it so acceptable if Sona was shown having such casual flings with different guys.
Also the makers disgust me with their puke worthy mentality . If they can show Dev having flings with girls why don't they have the guts to show Sona having the same ?? The FL must remain "Pure" and reserved for the touch of the ML only whereas the ML can go around doing hanky panky and viewers supposed to find it okay !! Woww ! It makes me question my decision of watching Indian soaps at all. At least Western shows do not show such duplicity and hypocrisy.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I personally don't think a parent should spy on his adult kids. That's kind of invasion of privacy and hurtful to their relationship. However, I am glad that Bijoy Bose admits his mistakes and apologises. He is not like Dev who thinks that he is always 100% right.

I don't think Dev loves Sonakshi. He is attracted to her and he wants to pay her back for her imaginary slights. But a man in love doesn't harass the woman they love. No way, no how. Otherwise, we can say even stalkers love people they stalk.

His behaviour is starting to get alarming. I hope Sonakshi gets a restraining order on him.

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

Great one Tia!!

I loved Bijoy Asha convo.

Dont want to waste my time on Ishwari. Dev got his traits from her.

Bijoy Bose...seriously , he is the only one from whom I can hope something...he'll always protect Sona, speak up for her ...no matter what.


As for Dev, he is not actually interested in having any serious relationships...it was shown how when he entered the room, he shrugged off the girl conveniently when done with his play acting. He is clearly still affected by Sona and is trying to hurt her. He loves her ...I'm sure of that...not the way we prefer to love...his is weird kind of love which will always hurt Sona. His love for her is only destructive. Another shade of love...Kuch rang pyaar ke aise bhi.

As for Sona, I am sooo proud of her. She was only disgusted and surprised. But the effect was less on her thanks to Soha.

Waiting for Monday..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know, right. I hope Sonakshi had relationships in these 7 years and now finds a better life partner to spend her life with.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Its mandatory for female lead to remain pure and deprived of any sexual needs .Another aspect where indian television failed🤢 like females ki koi needs hi nahi hoti.double standard everywhere.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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"One thing for sure. Sonakshi no longer loves Dev like before. May be some part of her might care whether he lives or dies because he is father of her daughter. But she didn't feel jealous or sad. She just felt disgust. That's a sign of moving on."
Totally agree . And frankly speaking I'm amazed how less affected she was by all this . In fact she was more affected by the humiliating words and taunts Dev threw at her in front of the media during award function, and that's not only understandable but in fact it's expected because unless you're affected by the challenges of your business rivals ( that's where she places him now ) how would you prove them wrong , plus it's but human to be affected by public humiliation .
But she was absolutely nonchalant about Dev and the girl. That was not even a beep on her radar .
When she was reminded of it by the house keeping, she smiles tauntingly.
She in fact pities him , " Khud ko kuch nehi mila iss liye dusron ki khushiyan chin ne mein lage hai "
Lol for those who thought Sona would be heart broken and shed tears ! 🤣
Edited by Lady_Macbeth - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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If they are not divorced, he is cheating on Sona AND his current girlfriend. If he is divorced, he is cheating his current girlfriend. Either way, he is cheating someone.

Originally posted by: mily_mathew


Great post as usual Tia.But they are not divorced Tia,they signed prenup not divorce and I dont think they have had any interactions after that night.

Coming to the episode-I feel its brave to show a male lead having casual sex-have to applaud when they show something progressive.

But watching Ish is a pain,that woman is delusion personified.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

If they are not divorced, he is cheating on Sona AND his current girlfriend. If he is divorced, he is cheating his current girlfriend. Either way, he is cheating someone.


yeah,this guy is wired wrongly ..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tia all I can say he is cheating himself and just wanted to ask if the same makers who are showing him having casual sex will they be ok with Sona having it and show it on TV ...If THEY DO ..it is indeed progressive TV..BUT excusing him because he is a Man is regressive SHIT...Let us not delude ourselves



Originally posted by: tia.o

If they are not divorced, he is cheating on Sona AND his current girlfriend. If he is divorced, he is cheating his current girlfriend. Either way, he is cheating someone.

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