Advice from a married woman

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Gaby09

@Gaby09

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

After watching episodes after leap and seeing what actually Devakshi are going through since past 7 years...I felt like kaaash Sona had used her brain and had a little bit more patience and had never crossed that door..

Kaash Dev had stopped her...

Kaash

I m just saying because in this case they were madly in love ..its not like a husband never likes his wife and vice versa..

I as being a married one , i wanna tell all those who have little bit problem in married lived because of others but not because of life partner...never take a decision like this...let the bad phase pass with the help of ur partner...stay strong like a pillar for each other...

watching the drama before leap was not so painful for me like i m going through n feeling after the leap...💔

Edited by mygaby - 8 years ago

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gmgi

@gmgi

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

I am happy that they broke up. They both needed this jolt to come out of the chains binding them from committing to each other and their marriage. They never had a marriage. They loved each other. But love was not enough to break open the chains.

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

Good advise, 'Asha' type advise.

But when the guy pushes you for infertility treatment giving excuse as 'Maa' and also with THIS insensitivity, when the guy slaps your father, the guy who never stands for your support to stop his family from abusing you or your family, TRUST ME, all married ladies out there, it IS time to rethink instead of giving your life and self respect to the fire for the sake of 'lau'.

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Hari73

@Hari73

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Kash. .Dev never said get out and Kash he ran behind her manoing her. But That never happened. When it is not happening then no point in staying in relationship. There should be mutual respect. If man accuses womanhood, then I would prefer stay in street, than staying with him.

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Keertiacharya

@Keertiacharya

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

But if you see , Bijoy also never treated Dev as a proper son-in-law. He never trusted him Dev and never gave him a chance to come closer to him , after that break-up track.

Sonakshi too did hide about her & Saurav's business on Bijoy's advice. Didn't she follow what her father said? Bijoy didn't behave in a matured way when Dev showed up asking apology for the slap drama. He shouldn't have insulted him like that in the middle of the road. He behaved the same way Dev behaved. He din't show any elderly maturity in handling the situation. His behavior always showed that he didn't want Sonakshi to live with Dev and Dixits , which is what happened at last.

I understand Dev must have committed more mistakes than Sonakshi if we draw a chart of mistakes and all , but if you ask me isn't that a relation of wife and husband to understand each other and it is always the case in a relationship that both are not equals and one may have to adjust more. As mygaby correctly mentioned , they love each other above all. I know it sounds filmy to say that love is the solution to all , but that is the only and last reason a relationship can be given a chance even if the rest of 99 things are going wrong.

I have asked this question before as well , If it is the otherway around and your father insulted your husband and slapped him and (Which to some extent Bijoy also did) , Will you separate yourself from your father and never see him in your life time? People talk about separation from husband since there is a way called divorce.

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Shaun

@Jade0001

Inactive

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Posted: 8 years ago

Dev and Sonakshi loved each other no doubt about that but their marriage was been controlled by both Ishwari and Bijoy

Dev and Sona eventually were doing stuff for maa instead of themselves their marriage

marriage is no game and yes maybe the first year is difficult but both partners need to be in it one can't for the marriage alone it surely will never work

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shailu

@rs-shailu29

Stunner

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Posted: 8 years ago

i support this sona was impulsive she could have stayed back like elina did and showed gkb the door and throw these ppl and mataji is too much ..she would go separate as dev decided

in sona's life infertility nd insults added to her problems 😭

Edited by Bsangama - 8 years ago

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

That is the best advice one can give any couple. This would be my advice too and title it advice from a married man.

the biggest "kash" i would add to your list is, "kaash, bhagvan in CV's ko thoda sadbuddhi detha"... they would have done differently.

i am like you. i am finding this show painful after the leap. What is being shown?

a business man, coming to an awards function drinking alcohol! Then this same businessman talks crap on stage and thanks people for presenting the award to him, then stalking his "ex-wife' to the hotel, apparantly making "arrangements" with "another" woman to spite the "real" woman..

and the audience goes.. taali, taali, seeti, seeti.. maybe i am not fit for this kind of a world..

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OrangeShip

@OrangeShip

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

I think Dev's own actions came biting back at him. If Sona had never known what Dev did to her, Ritwick and Ranveer in the name of 'protecting' himself and his family,she would not have believed Vick. But she already knew the extent to which he can go for his family, which made her think of the possibility and thats why she went to confront. And then Dev chose that day to be drunk! and did not even answer properly! Damn!

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Kamal kulshreshta

@srilotus

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#10

agree with u to some extent

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