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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

Great write-up 👏. Enjoyed reading it .. Just wish that your take on Dev's approach to the transformed life of his, come true.. If only he doesn't throw the blame on Sonakshi for whatever he is today.. If only he accepts and takes it as the much needed transformation for his own good.. Not about the flirty attitude playing around with the girls 😆. But about the overall provider approach as a duty what he's bound to.. That was the long pending transformation in him.. He has been too much clinging and emotionally weak to everything around him in that Ishwari Nivas.. The detachment comes down hard on them but it happened only because everyone was resisting changes and now are forced to adapt to giant changes.😆 Good for them and if only Dev thinks that it is for good and not complain about it.. 😉

And gotta say that I am liking your version of Dev 2.0😉


Thank you..😊

If at all Dev could blame Sonakshi for anything, its for keeping his child away from him. That is going to be only wrong thing she has done. Although she did it because she no longer thought she could bear to live with him again, after what he and his family did to her family, she shouldn't have kept the man from his child.

For all his faults, he really loved her. He wanted HER, not her uterus or ability to have kids. But to a man who loves kids, wanted so much for a daughter, to actually have one kept hidden from him, is terrible.

I'm a bit scared of the can of worms this might open up. Maybe that's why Bijoy reacted to strongly to the idea of going back to Delhi. Because Dev will want his daughter, and might take her away.

Sonakshi however, perhaps, knows she shouldn't have kept Suha a secret, so she is determined to let Suhana choose if she wanted to meet her father.

Hearing Ishwari talk about presuming Sonakshi has moved on from him, I feel he will think (seeing a ring on her finger and a child) she did remarry. But we'll see.

What is exciting is, Suhana looks so much like Ishwari. That's got to be for a reason...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12
Lovely analysis anisa!

I agree with all that you have to say. The only thing I can't figure out is if he blames sona for leaving him. I feel he does so I wonder he's going to deal with that. Will he ever realize that not only was he played by his family but he was also a contributor to sona eventually giving up on the marriage!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7


Thank you..😊

If at all Dev could blame Sonakshi for anything, its for keeping his child away from him. That is going to be only wrong thing she has done. Although she did it because she no longer thought she could bear to live with him again, after what he and his family did to her family, she shouldn't have kept the man from his child.

For all his faults, he really loved her. He wanted HER, not her uterus or ability to have kids. But to a man who loves kids, wanted so much for a daughter, to actually have one kept hidden from him, is terrible.

I'm a bit scared of the can of worms this might open up. Maybe that's why Bijoy reacted to strongly to the idea of going back to Delhi. Because Dev will want his daughter, and might take her away.

Sonakshi however, perhaps, knows she shouldn't have kept Suha a secret, so she is determined to let Suhana choose if she wanted to meet her father.

Hearing Ishwari talk about presuming Sonakshi has moved on from him, I feel he will think (seeing a ring on her finger and a child) she did remarry. But we'll see.

What is exciting is, Suhana looks so much like Ishwari. That's got to be for a reason...

Right.. The baby hiding fact is open for a debate and argument .. but that has to be between the couple and couple only.. No place for third person's judgement.. And I just wish neither allows the others be it Ish or Baaba to influence their decisions on that.. Neither Dev should fight for a custody case just because Ishu instigates it nor Sona should let Baaba stop Dev from visiting his daughter if the father wants it and the daughter is willing to go for it..
Let the couple go emotional about it but any decision and course of actions have to be based on mutual understanding on each other's need and love for the parenting bond. And if any minimum love hidden behind all the hurt and anger, let that take over in giving the respect due for each other in their bond to nurture the new bond with their daughter.. Even if it means individually maintaining the bond with the kid on their own..😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Take a standing ovation my lady 👏👏👏 What a wonderful write up Anisa !! Your play with words just mesmerized the entire episode for me !! Oh dear bless your writing skill !

Yes it was a rocking episode and am loving this Dev 2.0. He is not an 8 yr old anymore😆 Grew the necessary spines and ready to rattle his "Ex-wife's" wall of anger. I am sensing makers are taking the original way of angry Obhodro and headstrong Khargosh and the future tashan is going to be one hell of a ride!
Thanks for this extraordinary post ..must say this is one of the best for today's epidote 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow... Anisa 👏 your write up is brilliant:)

I was waiting for your post... and here, you nailed it like always! Flawless writing... I'm so on the same page as you :)

Edited by amaypranay - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Your writing is absolutely brilliant ..what an analysis.. I loved the scene where Dev sees Sona... he seems all sober through the day and looks like he does need the alcohol to numb himself seeing her. It felt like watching Sona's engagement episode where Dev sat and drank alone only to look at Sona wistfully thinking that she was not his...
Did you all notice the orange color in the Bose house... why is it that Dev has converted his office and the Bose house to their color of love even if he is so indifferent.. I think this kind of love is too strong and it will be amazing to watch them both try to hurt each other in various ways trying to find a way to stay in touch with each other unknowingly. Until they had not seen each other, they were able to ignore and live in their own worlds.. now that they have seen each other.. its another story waiting to unfold.. and we cannot wait!

PS: I am a little done with hearing who is at fault.. some accusing Dev , some Sona.. the reality is that they both have matured because of the break up.. Dev would never have changed without this incident and Sona would never have been as determined as she is.. Life while it has been unkind to them, has also shown them a beacon to happiness.. now its time to make it complete with each other!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Anisa, you mentioned one valid point! Yes, Dev truly loves Sona! It isn't ghe calf love Vicky sported initially nor one that stemmed from an infatuation. In fact, it was quite the reverse! Initially, boyh were loggerheads at each other owing to their true nature and then came the understanding, companionship, friendship and with it the realization of a mature love! This was for both dev and Sona!
Both of them had their own shortcomings!
Sona always proclaimed to be know-it-all-because-my-baba-raised-me-well whereas Dev was the I-am-The-Dev-Dixit-so-I-get-what-I-want kind of guy.
He actually broke the mould of a mam's biy when he realized his true feelings for Sona!
All along their courtship and married life, yes, he did not openly give Sona the much needed trust probably because he felt she understood his predicament! After all, here is a man who severed all ties with her and resorted to a bottle and then became a stalker all because his beloved revered mother was against Sona.
So, Sona knew of his cons when she joined him in the sacred union of matrimony.
And in spite of him repeatedly saying he cares only for her andhow even in that last moment, him almost begging her to forget all and that he would make everything all right, she decides to judge him and consider him of not trusting her so as to sign a pre-nup!

Maybe that is what rankles him! Ok, GKB constantly belittled Sona but what do you do when dogs bark? You ignore! If you yell back at them, you go to their level. And i am sure Sona too did not take GKB's constant tirades to heart and just let them go as mere nuisance!

Eashwari - another big fish in the ocean who has the power aka tears to blackmail her son so he could jump on her commands so her daughters can live forever in the lap of luxury just because they were destitute once upon a time!

In South India, where I am originally from, there is a practice among some to breed a lamb/chicken so it can be sacrificed at the altar!

Eashwari did exactly that! She spared no expense (that she could) even at the expense of her other kids and openly favored her Dev so he could succeed in life, drumming the fact into him from childhood that he is and will be the sole breadwinner of her entire clan! He is and was the sacrificial lamb so others could benefit and she can repay her ehsaan to her brother and his family!

She did not love Dev because he is the first born but because he has conformed to her moulding and her ROI was bang on the dot!

Blame Sona when she entered and shook that capital investment! What if her daughters were deprived of that 5M?

On the other hand, Bijoy had his faults as well. When Dev accepted or even wanted Sona never to change for him, why did the dad-daughter wanted to change him?

Ok, he went berserk in trying to arrange for fertility treatment unknown to Sona but wasn't Sona already aware of his stalking nature? All this is food for our thought!

So in the end, life is a out accepting each other with their good and bad! Sona did not even give the BOD to Dev, fully knowingVicky's character! That is what broke Dev's trust in Sona and her love for him!

And for her, his constant temp solutions and her ego in restoring her dad's pride was the final straw that broke their marriage!

Well, they needed a cause for separation, kid and leap!

To me, the last week pre-leap appeared too fast and too contrived where the lead characters behaved completely unlike their true selves!

Anyway, things seem intriguing now! Let us sit back, relax and watch!

As much as I love the new song, i still want the old one!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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awesome post anisa ...
u summed it just so well
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sage- Have read your posts from QH forum. So nice to read again. you don't write much here. Also since I am in India, your writing time happens in my night time and I can't respond while you are still awake 🤔

Dev's only surprising quality is that he harbours anger. After he and his family being super insulting to Sona, why did he expect her to have faith in his love. If he loved her, he could not have slapped her revered father. There were trying times Sona faced with Ishwari and always held her tongue in check because she respected her as dev's mother. even when this mother was being rude to Sona. Sona had more impetus to slap, Ishwari, GKB and Neha, but she never did..See, I am unable to see reconciliation after slap gate. Worse is slap was not the final crime. He again insulted her when she came with cheque (calling an intelligent woman stupid-sigh! ) because he felt respectfully returning cheque to his mom( who made a ruckus out of all the money moving out of Dixit house) was an insult. If he loved her, he would have appreciated and accepted her reasons. She and family was wronged party.

Even a small push to his mother(it was unintended and in fact his fault) and he asked her to get out. such big insult in front of whole family? Why will she stay there? then you have the other drama
But if you ask me even without the ouster from Bose house, his below the belt dialogs in break up, the prenup, any self respecting woman would have left him.

In fact I am waiting to write him off, if he thinks he has been wronged. He should be sorry and remorseful. Also to those who have said he was pleading with her in last episode. Did we all watch the same episode. He did not ever plead with her... He should have been relentless in pursuit of Bose family saying sorry, but he didn't.

Unlike most people, I don't think Bijoy has an hand in this break up. Dev and his family are the only ones.
He is off course strongly against Dev, but I can't blame him.

Dev may not have explicitly asked any change. But Sona did make huge changes in her lifestyle and values. If he did not see it or appreciate it, he did not love her enough.

I will maintain he does not love her until he proves otherwise now.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: IFfreak

Sage- Have read your posts from QH forum. So nice to read again. you don't write much here. Also since I am in India, your writing time happens in my night time and I can't respond while you are still awake 🤔

Hello again! I post at random times when I'm free ... show airs at midnight for me. So I post roughly 9 hours later..😆 my morning break time.

Dev's only surprising quality is that he harbours anger. After he and his family being super insulting to Sona, why did he expect her to have faith in his love. If he loved her, he could not have slapped her revered father. There were trying times Sona faced with Ishwari and always held her tongue in check because she respected her as dev's mother. even when this mother was being rude to Sona. Sona had more impetus to slap, Ishwari, GKB and Neha, but she never did..See, I am unable to see reconciliation after slap gate. Worse is slap was not the final crime. He again insulted her when she came with cheque (calling an intelligent woman stupid-sigh! ) because he felt respectfully returning cheque to his mom( who made a ruckus out of all the money moving out of Dixit house) was an insult. If he loved her, he would have appreciated and accepted her reasons. She and family was wronged party.

I am not denying that Dixits did wrong by Sona, she tried really hard to fit in, but you can't fit a square block into a round hole, and they didn't really try to accept her.

Her walking out was just waiting to happen. And justified. He can't be mad at her for leaving, especially after he slapped her father, accidental or not. And giving Vicky enough power to destroy the Boses.

But if you loved someone, and she left without giving you a chance to say sorry? That she didn't miss you at all while you missed and pined for her? You realized what a giant hole you dug yourself into, and you can't find her to say sorry?

Even a small push to his mother(it was unintended and in fact his fault) and he asked her to get out. such big insult in front of whole family? Why will she stay there? then you have the other drama

Agreed. The old Dev was humiliated in the street by Bijoy, and behaved really badly after. No excuse for that.

But if you ask me even without the ouster from Bose house, his below the belt dialogs in break up, the prenup, any self respecting woman would have left him.

True.

In fact I am waiting to write him off, if he thinks he has been wronged. He should be sorry and remorseful. Also to those who have said he was pleading with her in last episode. Did we all watch the same episode. He did not ever plead with her... He should have been relentless in pursuit of Bose family saying sorry, but he didn't.

He was not pleading with her at all. Everybody said "I give up, to hell with all this !" and let out all their ugly. No one was reasonable that day.

Unlike most people, I don't think Bijoy has an hand in this break up. Dev and his family are the only ones.
He is off course strongly against Dev, but I can't blame him.

I love the Bose family, but they should have sent Saurabh to return the money to Dev, not Sona. Albans returning the money to Ishwari was asking for her to acknowledge her bad behaviour to Bijoy. Ishwari does not do apologies. Instead she was insulted and made a big drama.


Dev may not have explicitly asked any change. But Sona did make huge changes in her lifestyle and values. If he did not see it or appreciate it, he did not love her enough.

I will maintain he does not love her until he proves otherwise now.


Everyone went into the DevAkshi wedding with truck loads of misgivings and seeing a ticking time bomb. Watching Sona try hard and Dev take advantage of her, Ishwari play her melodrama mind games and GKB her instigating. Everybody knew divorce was coming.

No one is blaming one person. It came to a point where no more compromise can be made, and their love lost.

What I'm saying is, the love is still there. And they have both changed. Let's just see where it goes.. 😉

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