Dr. Sonakshi Bose.. Nice.. Very nice..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I've liked her for her nicety even with people who were not nice with her 🤗. That showed how mature she was to tolerate her dislike for them. And because she was a nice person she was kind enough with them. Anyway I wasn't able to take it beyond certain things because even nice people have their limits...

And now when I read about how she's being changed, it looks like she's finally come in terms where she regrets being nice and apologizing for no mistakes of hers and to top it all making unworthy people her top priority 🥱.. And I am liking it. Go girl.. No need to justify you.. Let it be.. Go treat the people exactly the same way they are supposed to be treated by you. Some could be glad and some other could be scared.. But that's their problem because they asked for it. Go Sona go...👏👏 And super glad to see Baaba being the same being the irrationally supportive of Sona for her own good..🤗

Moral of the story: Being the person who always cares about others, no matter what they put her/him through, because for them caring for once means caring forever.. Sometimes it's good for them not to be so nice and stop caring for once..🥳

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Posted: 8 years ago
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My philosophy in life, and it has served me well, is that be nice and kind to people who are also nice and kind to you.
Sometimes accomodate not so nice or kind behaviour if they had a bad day or in a bad mood.

But if you continue to be accommodating, then one day you'll realize that people are taking advantage of your niceness. And being used and made fool of are never nice feelings.

So if you don't want to be taken advantage of or insulted, stand up against it. If you stand up once, it won't happen again.

You see, people think niceness, kindness and politeness are signs of weaknesses. But actually they are the sign of patience.

When they snap, they snap hard.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Absolutely!

My suspicions with the writers will always continue now. It will be the pits if they show things like Dev now becoming mahaan by helping her grow in her business behind the scenes. I would like them to honour the efforts, blood and toil of single, working and responsible mothers and show Sona as one such. Else the message will go that such people need God-fathers, seen or unseen to grow. In fact, I do not mind seeing Sona helping Dev out in his business but not vice-versa. There is too much of needless male dominance in a woman's life. I have seen strong young woman, single parents, who have not only survived but flourished in this world, and yes they have also abstaind from what men think women cannot do without, sex!

My company contracts with a woman owned interiors firm. The owner is a single mother and boy, does she know how to handle the men around her, from workers to customers! Three cheers to women!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i completely agree to this...she has actually crossed all threshold of tolerance and humiliation at the Dixits and even then she has not a bitter word to say about them shows her maturity...after the horrible lashing by dev which could have broken any person into pieces...she still respects him as her daughter's father and has raised her kid to respect that as well ...

and true that...she needs to stop bending for unworthy people...stop showing care despite being served disregard...live your life and love your own self ...as they say if the love is worth it...it should come back with respect and only respect...

i am appalled how dev has blamed sona for leaving him but chose to ignore why and how and what of it...chose to forget what he made her endure in that mad house...

i refuse to blame sonakshi here and maybe i wil lbe in minority but expecting the girl to stand by him and go back him after being blatantly told to get out is way way too much ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree wid u PP
What sona gave dixits was extreme patience n respect even if dey dint ...and wen she snapped dixits lost deir pride n dewaar of d house ...this is sth no one ever noticed n acknowledged ...n dey ve not learnt ...

I am loving dis sona ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

My philosophy in life, and it has served me well, is that be nice and kind to people who are also nice and kind to you.

Sometimes accomodate not so nice or kind behaviour if they had a bad day or in a bad mood.

But if you continue to be accommodating, then one day you'll realize that people are taking advantage of your niceness. And being used and made fool of are never nice feelings.

So if you don't want to be taken advantage of or insulted, stand up against it. If you stand up once, it won't happen again.

You see, people think niceness, kindness and politeness are signs of weaknesses. But actually they are the sign of patience.

When they snap, they snap hard.



Yes.. Snap it.. That's good.. 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Completly agree with u.She is the one who tolerate nd forgives everyone without any complain that's why everybody takes her for granted punching bag. Dev nd fandom thinks why she didn't look back nd takes care of helpless Dev
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61

Absolutely!


My suspicions with the writers will always continue now. It will be the pits if they show things like Dev now becoming mahaan by helping her grow in her business behind the scenes. I would like them to honour the efforts, blood and toil of single, working and responsible mothers and show Sona as one such. Else the message will go that such people need God-fathers, seen or unseen to grow. In fact, I do not mind seeing Sona helping Dev out in his business but not vice-versa. There is too much of needless male dominance in a woman's life. I have seen strong young woman, single parents, who have not only survived but flourished in this world, and yes they have also abstaind from what men think women cannot do without, sex!

My company contracts with a woman owned interiors firm. The owner is a single mother and boy, does she know how to handle the men around her, from workers to customers! Three cheers to women!

@bold True on that.. 😆 Can't trust the makers on anything.. drama ke liye kuch bhi.. 🤪

Yes, anyone be it man or woman, with dedication and passion for work and determination to achieve something, will reach their target.. 😃

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sun29



i completely agree to this...she has actually crossed all threshold of tolerance and humiliation at the Dixits and even then she has not a bitter word to say about them shows her maturity...after the horrible lashing by dev which could have broken any person into pieces...she still respects him as her daughter's father and has raised her kid to respect that as well ...

and true that...she needs to stop bending for unworthy people...stop showing care despite being served disregard...live your life and love your own self ...as they say if the love is worth it...it should come back with respect and only respect...

i am appalled how dev has blamed sona for leaving him but chose to ignore why and how and what of it...chose to forget what he made her endure in that mad house...

i refuse to blame sonakshi here and maybe i wil lbe in minority but expecting the girl to stand by him and go back him after being blatantly told to get out is way way too much ...

Dev!! Does he still exist?! How on earth is he able to stay alive , way from his Maa's lap 😆.. And how on earth is Ishu able to live without her son taking blessings from her.. Or may be they are still continuing.. 😉 Didn't Ishu try her pills or smoking stove drama😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

Dev!! Does he still exist?! How on earth is he able to stay alive , way from his Maa's lap 😆.. And how on earth is Ishu able to live without her son taking blessings from her.. Or may be they are still continuing.. 😉 Didn't Ishu try her pills or smoking stove drama😆


😆😆...that is so befuddling...7 years and no maa ka lap or besan ka halwa and how come ishwari has no more fainting spells...earlier she used to drop to the floor at the drop of a hat ab dekho 7 years no beta yet she is walking around that house...nautanki😆😆..i was toh sure we will have atleast the choolah drama once again...maybe she is waiting for sona to enter so that her drama starts😆

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