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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Devakshi are heading towards a separation. How do I know? Mami said so... when she decides something is going to happen in Ishwari Niwas, it happens. And I shed a tear for Devakshi today. I am hopeless that way. I cannot see lovers splitting and beti ki vidai on screen without a lump in my throat.

I haven't read the posts on the forum today because I kind of know how most people will be feeling. I felt pain. There is so much in this marriage that these two are throwing away because of ego and also their unfortunate circumstances.

Ishwari did Ishwari-ing today. Brought God and her hardships into this. Mamaji was mamaji and mami was mami. However, today, Ishwari again said something quite accurate. Unfair, but accurate. When in Ishwari Niwas, live like Ishwari Niwasis. Sonakshi bringing that cheque was bound to have that sort of a reaction from Ishwari and I am shocked that Asha let her daughter go alone to return that cheque to Ishwari. Of course Sonakshi wanted to do that. Of course Bijoy wanted Sonakshi to do that. It was like you said Meg, tit for tat. But tit for tat breaks relations. I have no clue how Asha thought Sonakshi would be able to return that money in a dignified manner. The reaction from Ishwari niwais was uncalled for, unfair yet expected. However, deep down Sonakshi also knows, it wasn't about the money. It was about the slap and the name calling and there isn't a nice way Sonakshi could have returned the favour.

Mamaji, let's get to you first. Because you have already started irritating me... Sonakshi should have called you? Shouldn't you have called Vijay bhai sahib once? Shouldn't you have just dropped by to their house to try and reconcile? This is how marriages are saved when the couple is being unreasonable. Last minute dialogue-bazi is all you do and that's all you will do tomorrow.

Dev knew whenever he goes to see Bijoy; this is how he will get treated. Bijoy's reaction was natural and expected. It's just bad luck that the very day Sonakshi went to see Ishwari is when Dev came to see Bijoy.

And Devakshi argument was realistic. Dev is obviously right that Sonakshi knows nothing about borrowing large sums of monies and of course it was going to hurt her to hear that she won't be able to pay it all off. And in anger we do say hurtful things which they both did. It's just sad that no one in that household intervened and asked them both to take a breather. Did anyone notice - today for the first time Dev said he already has a lot on his plate

I was hoping against hope that Dev will baby-girl Sonakshi, take the cheque and calm everyone down. But he couldn't. Because it wasn't about the cheque, was it? It was all about Ishwari

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Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Tere Pyar Mein Ho Jaaun Fanaa 💔

That's how it felt. The whole Bose family is now paying for the love their daughter wanted. (And partly because Saurabh didn't communicate with his business partner).

Ishwari is an evil woman. No less than those terrorists. Her son will be fine!!?? Woman, have some mercy. Have you forgotten Dev's state when Sonakshi wasn't around him? Sonakshi's family knows everything about their son and daughter... Your son happens to love their daughter! You are the one in denial. That is the kamee in your pyar. How typical Ishwari!!

Having said that, Sonakshi and Saurabh should have returned the money to Dev IN HIS OFFICE... Not to Ishwari. Sonakshi needs to stop giving that woman so much importance. And who is she to put her parents' property on mortgage. Wah Saurabh.. wah sona! Go get a business loan from the bank.

I still can't get my head around the fact that everyone aside from Dev (whose money this is supposed to be) is making this personal while for him it was a purely business deal. He should have offered 5 cr to Vicky and a year to show him what he is made of... like he offered him the 1 month gym membership. This isn't the guy we or Dr Bose for that matter fell in love with. It's been days and he still hasn't spoken to Ishwari to try and sort the matter! Dev, thanks for not stalking her and not breaking electronics this time. You know the filmy baba ke pair pakad lunga would have mellowed things down actually. What awesome character butchery.

Unless there is abuse (physical, verbal, sexual) or adultery I am a huge advocate of trying everything else before separation. Now, I haven't felt that Sonakshi or Dev have faced either thus far in their marriage. I know Sonakshi faced taunts but she didn't quite stand up and this time she did and faced it. Based on the precap (which I tried hard to ignore), it feels like Dev doesn't want to change and expects his wife to do all the hard work. Now he wants to talk. If I am honest Dev, you got to try harder this time. I kept hoping against hope that we will see a better husband who is born out of a good son. Alas, my wishes thus far are yet to be granted. How would such a relation even ever be fruitful

PS: In the earlier episodes they had talked about paying the house rent I remember

PPS: Was it her birthday on 9th Jan or not? If it was, wah! If it wasn't - we viewers tend to pay too much attention to detail

PPS: We got a better view of the maisonette today and the separation music (I love it)

Nikki - dangal bakwas! I thought you will go and meet bhabhi atleast.

And Elena!!!

@Bold...agreed with u..
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Posted: 8 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: chumki...

@Bold...agreed with u..

Thanks Chumki. However, as we can see, there is so little hope these two will reconcile anytime soon. When emotions run high, someone needs to calm everyone down and think. However, here either people are mute or too busy instigating someone or the other. Its a very volatile situation now
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Posted: 8 years ago
#14
Sona should have given the money back but not by mortgaging the house. Since day 1 of this show there is absolutely no character growth in anyone. This show is giving me headache and dev and ishwari are so IRRITATING🤢 that I felt like travelling through TV and giving both 1 tight slap. The drama today was at its highest dose.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She has committed a blunder with regards to her parents' retirement plans. And its not like she hasnt had sound advice or that she hasnt had time to cool down and think.

It was about Bijoy's dignity. Sonakshi should have asked herself will she ever get respect in that house and if she wont get the respect how will her father ever get the respect?

The Dixits collectively hurt Boses' dignity so much that they are still dealing with the shock and in that process doing what Dev called "stupidity"

It was drama. However, if we put ourselves in Boses and Dev's shoes and think, the reactions were all expected (again, I am not justifying them.. They were just realistic). Imagine, we as viewers feel like this.. Someone in this situation was bound to react the same.

Ishwari - less said the better. She expected an apology from Sonakshi!



Originally posted by: Shlroy

Sona should have given the money back but not by mortgaging the house. Since day 1 of this show there is absolutely no character growth in anyone. This show is giving me headache and dev and ishwari are so IRRITATING🤢 that I felt like travelling through TV and giving both 1 tight slap. The drama today was at its highest dose.

Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

She has committed a blunder with regards to her parents' retirement plans. And its not like she hasnt had sound advice or that she hasnt had time to cool down and think.

It was about Bijoy's dignity. Sonakshi should have asked herself will she ever get respect in that house and if she wont get the respect how will her father ever get the respect?

The Dixits collectively hurt Boses' dignity so much that they are still dealing with the shock and in that process doing what Dev called "stupidity"

It was drama. However, if we put ourselves in Boses and Dev's shoes and think, the reactions were all expected (again, I am not justifying them.. They were just realistic). Imagine, we as viewers feel like this.. Someone in this situation was bound to react the same.

Ishwari - less said the better. She expected an apology from Sonakshi!



If sona would have get all about her not getting any respect from dixits, wouldn't she refused to marry dev altogether but no...in love she did marry and now to get back the pride which she could never get she is taking all these risky decisions and then as per spoiler something will happen to bijoy and dev and ishu will get all the blame which is not 100% wrong but sona's rash decisions are also included in that. I mean there is level of being delusional and there is so much tough competition between being the most delusional between dev and ishu. I mean for what does ishu want apology from sona for. All she should need from sona is a number of good psychiatrist.😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
#17
For dev & sona it was all about ego. Why did sona go to return the money & why was she so calm & still saying sorry. I did not get her today! Once again she's being thrown out of his life & there she's standing pleading with his mom.

Dev as usual is an idiot. Act now think later! But he did have a valid point about the loan &prepayment. Two things I did not get today was why do he say he's dealing with too many things already & this is not the first time she insulted his mom. Any idea?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's a culmination of all the stress that has been building up since their wedding. Sonakshi was trying to keep things in balance and almost trying to be an Asha and a Bijoy both at the same time. She was apologetic for her father's words and still needed to get his dignity back. And thus on one hand she was returning the money and on the other she was wanting to draw a line under this whole thing. She knew very well Ishwari won't take this nicely.
Dev is confused and this is all deja vu. He is already living the separation and it's killing him. He is also confused because for the first time since they became rich, money has become the cause of a problem. He is used to money being a solution. He doesn't know what to do now. Because even though he knows that his mother is wrong, he would never acknowledge that to himself. And that's what he means when he says he has a lot on his plate.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#19
The insult comment and ego etc was a war of words. Having said that he had yelled at sonakshi the night of separation and had reminded her it was his mother she was talking about.
This marriage needs a lot of energy. I don't see that energy coming from any of the characters now

Lately the way Dev has been dressing up makes him look older. The 7 year leap might as well happen
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20
Thanks dq the explanation makes sense. I pity both they are caught in storm caused by others & have to pay the price! Of course the way the handle their relationship makes it easy for others to screw ot up!

I thought dev dresses the way he does now (3pice suits) because it's winter!

I hate leaps & the thought of it quite off-putting. Why would they go this stale route is beyond me. Like the pak serial humsafar in comes kid & reconciliation because of the kid! Seen that already in so many other serials too.

I want devs realization, getting together with sona & resolving his moms issues!

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