Originally posted by: yyy
Are we comparing a criminal like Khatri to Dev ? Khatri thereatned his mom when she was alone and had done things to her when they were poor so is Dev and Khatri the same ?Can we except Dev to treat him like a VIP .
The two man on the road were beating him and he did try to explain them but when they didn't listen to him he had to do that for his safety .
Situations are different and the above people are nothing but strangers .Here Bijoy has seen Dev and his love for his daughter.Fine he was angry but he could have dealt with it inside the home .Asha is not happy with Dev either but the way she behaved and the way Bijoy does shows the difference.
Regarding ripping apart someone who hurt his daughter...do that after knowing the complete truth .I am sure if a MIL had done this to her DIL for hurting his son then MIL would be called with names ...or if a husband did that to a wife for hurting his family then wife would be the victim ..anyway that's a hypothetical situation .
First of all, I am no biased towards feminism etc. So let me clarify, I am seeing this from a neutral POV, and if I feel for such big blatant life-shattering lie, if Dev deserves to be called names and deserves to be beaten, so does Sona.
But here practically thinking, there is one more angle. It's Sona whose father did 'Kanyaadaan' and it's Sona whose mother has to teach her that after marriage, she should be thinking of Dev's family as her first home. Despite big drama happened over the kanyadaan in the marriage episode, this is the bitter truth of our society that the GIRL leaves the house and accepts the groom's family as hers, not the vice versa. If you really think, Bijoy has given his pride/his hope and his PRINCESS to Dev and Dixit household. Did he get Dev in return ? Does Dev consider Bose family as his AT ALL ? I hope you wont say 'Yes' even after the 'Aunty' drama where it didn't take even a second for Dev to call Asha as Aunty from Maa. Anyways so where was I ? Yeah about Bijoy giving his daughter to Dev. Now it's Dev's responsibility to take care of Sonakshi. On the other hand, Ishwari still has Dev dancing on his tunes, he didn't move even 1% from his comfortable position in his life. Ishwari didn't give Dev to Sonakshi asking her to take care of Dev, leaving all attachments behind. Ishwari still makes sure she HERSELF takes care of Dev's happiness (by doing chores, by removing swing, by preparing halwa, by long speech and countless). Ishwari has refused to give that responsibility to Sonakshi to make Dev happy. So if Sona lies today and hurts Dev, Ishwari would have a point to become MAD at Sona, but not to the extreme of beating her.
The only acceptable scenario where Sona would be slapped by Ishwari for the same lie would be if Dev leaves his household and is living with the Boses and Sonakshi has got the sole responsibility of taking care of Dev, still she lies to him, hides facts from him to give him false hopes and then shatters his dreams like this.