That is what looked like to me - Page 3

Originally posted by: yyy

He can never think from others perspective. Bijoy Bose was never shown to be a sensible and sensitive person .He come across as hypocrite and biased person . I never had any expectations from him .Only sane person is Asha let's see if she stands by Dev or not .

A person who loves his wife like crazy will he lie without a reason .Any sensible person would understand this .Being angry is fine but physical abusing someone is not acceptable

[/QUOTE Yes you are right. Bijoy will never think for a second but abuses others.If not for Asha he would have met with great trouble.Where would he find such a SIL who keeps his daughter's happiness above others?

Edited by ltelidevara - 8 years ago

Originally posted by: randommusings

Dev held collar of the guy who published his n Sona's photo in paper without his permission.

Such rude behavior is unacceptable but this time Dev has crossed all limits. He deserves anger from everyone including Sona n Bose family. To lie abt a baby is very disgusting thing. N Dev didn't explore any way to mend Ish n Sona's relationship. If he knew Ish's behavior with Sona was nt right, why didn't he step in before. Why wait till situation got so bad. There are many things he shud hv tried, talk wid Ish for starters.

Idnt think Dev did a big favour by marrying Sona even after knowing her medical condition. I appreciate his gesture but any good person wud do the same without expecting praises ir rewards for this. By this logoc, everyone shud get fertility test done for their spouse to be before marriage.

Originally posted by: yyy

The whole journalist drama happened inside the editors cabin and not on the road for others to listen .There is a difference between A editor of some newspaper and son in law .Did he even try to understand why he lied to her ? I get that not every in laws can be understanding and I don't blame Bijoy for that .I would have said the same about Ish too but making a scene in public is not what I appreciate of

Not many men will do the right thing when such big truth is out .Its not a small compromise but a lifelong arrangement but I would definitely appreciate Dev for the gem of a man he is .If he was expecting praises he would have informed everyone about the issue right after marriage atleast to her parents .

Knowing something before marriage and something happening after marriage are two different things .In that case every couple should sign a disclaimer that in future of anyone meets with accident ..I am not responsible for taking care of him/her ...

Originally posted by: yyy

The whole journalist drama happened inside the editors cabin and not on the road for others to listen .There is a difference between A editor of some newspaper and son in law .Did he even try to understand why he lied to her ? I get that not every in laws can be understanding and I don't blame Bijoy for that .I would have said the same about Ish too but making a scene in public is not what I appreciate of

Not many men will do the right thing when such big truth is out .Its not a small compromise but a lifelong arrangement but I would definitely appreciate Dev for the gem of a man he is .If he was expecting praises he would have informed everyone about the issue right after marriage atleast to her parents .

Knowing something before marriage and something happening after marriage are two different things .In that case every couple should sign a disclaimer that in future of anyone meets with accident ..I am not responsible for taking care of him/her ...

Originally posted by: randommusings

When did I say Dev published the photo...I said Dev fought with the guy n held his collar who published their photo. So r u ready to call Dev from uneducated class also??

If u love smone, u wud nvr hesitate to marry them even if u knw a big thing like this. And thats what Dev did...thts wat anyone who truly loves smone will do. He is nt doing any favour on Sona.

Originally posted by: Kaustuv

i think infertility will b out next week.they were showing today's epi highlight. i had checked it on my canteen tv. It looked to me Bijoy was slapping Dev. Not interested in deceiving or spreading misinformation.

Originally posted by: randommusings

When did I say Dev published the photo...I said Dev fought with the guy n held his collar who published their photo. So r u ready to call Dev from uneducated class also??

If u love smone, u wud nvr hesitate to marry them even if u knw a big thing like this. And thats what Dev did...thts wat anyone who truly loves smone will do. He is nt doing any favour on Sona.

Originally posted by: xxZaaraxx

Why is it diffrent with a son in law?? Rude bahvoir is still rude behavoir. Even if dev has done it. And yes these are human reactions. And impulsive reactions. Even Dev has showed this same behavoir but then everyone should understand his intentions. Wich is also true. But why can't we understand Bijoy's anger than???

Is it normal to let ur wife think she is pregnant? To let het believe a child is growing inside her. She has asked dev many times you are hiding simething pls tell me the truth. But he did not. So everyones anger on dev is justified. Dev did it for sona's happiness. But that does not take away the discusting lies he told his wife. And he betrayed her trust.

When evryone will cool down and talk it out wuth a cool mind Sona will understand. And maybe Bijoy will also understand.

But to say that Bijoy is insensitive low class behavior??? Pls evry father would be that angry. And i don't see why a father in law cannot do this with a son in law??? Is a son in law some kind of god?? Son in law, son, brother, neighbour, journalist are all.the same. All are human beings and not one of them is above the other. Bijoy and Dev are both adults and Dev is not more then Bijoy.

Originally posted by: yyy

If holding collar was the only criteria to call uneducated then add Sona to the list too as she held Dev by his collar in hospital.Washing dirty linen in public is what I have problem with .Sorry , I have never seen in my family a personal issues being discussed in public by holding each other's collar ...so I find it wrong and I won't appreciate Bijoy for that .

Like I said before not every men will do the right thing even if they are in love with the girl .If Sona can be awarded with most understanding wife for cancelling honeymoon then I would appreciate Sev for his decision

Originally posted by: randommusings

Thats ur definition of uneducated class , not mine. He did all - holding collar, beating people publicly n I understand Dev's anger n action coz all those people wronged him. Now Bijoy is in same situation then y call Bijoy uneducated class ...

I still feel if love is true...then knowing such things before marriage shudnt matter at all...Y nt acknowledge Sona's mahaanta also coz rarely any girl would marry a guy who broke her heart without even thinking abt her feelings , without even trying to convince his mother, without giving their relationship a chance.

I dnt want to see CVs showing Sona going on a guilt trip after knowing that Dev knew it before marriage.