Dev should get vasectomy to make Bijoy happy

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baijubavra

@baijubavra

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Posted: 8 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

Lol...cvs have shown that dev want to give treatment to sona without her consult but they didn't show which type of treatment and first of all treatment still didn't started now and also they didn't give any details about. Treatment...where CVS haven't show anything in detail now and Here u made a post on male vasecotomy and giving all detail that how dev should get vasecotomy for bijoy so that his next generation cannot ...u r saying that u want to give message To CVS but by reading ur post...it's look like u have made it for fun.
It doesn't look like u r trying to give any message... Read ur post again and tell me where's it look like a message to CVS..it's clearly a fun post

Rahuljee, even if they did not give all the details,it is still wrong to show that a husband can decide the treatment for wife witout her consent. He also hid the original report from her for a long time and was shown to sign some papers about her treatment that he and the doctor were hiding from her. Also, my post about vasectomy was sarcastic and shocking to draw the attention. Again it is a hypothetical scenario about a fictinal character but I still apologize if I hurt any sentiments with my POV. I just dont want them to show that a husband has the right on a woman's body. It is wrong example for the young people and should not be accepted in the name of "aisa hee hota aa raha hai" .

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#62

Messing with a person's body without his or express permission is wrong.

Being a spouse gives certain rights but then the gravity of the situation has to be considered. A husband hiding the fact that wife has cancer and giving medicines stealthily is understandable but a husband giving a wife infertility treatment without her permission because he is too scared to face his mother and stand for his wife is different.

Every situation has to be judged basis the facts involved.

Dev's actions are not spurred out of love, they are spurred out of sheer cowardice.

PS: read somewhere that Sonakshi has insulted women by being desperate for a baby so soon after marriage. Really want to know which dictionary some people refer😆. Having a child and the time of having it are both personal preferences. From where did feminism and women self respect enter into it.

All these are known as premeditated psychological frames like the only way a modern woman should behave or to get hyper on the name of vasectomy even if used only and only as a symylie.

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dsr11

@dsr11

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Posted: 8 years ago

#63

Just because one good for nothing doctor said that Sona has inhospitable uterus, how did Dev jump to the conclusion that there is something wrong with Sona's reproductive system. If a couple are having problems conceiving, tests are usually done on both man and woman involved. I am sure if they test Dev they will find that he is not making any swimmers or may be he lacks balls all together. He is the one who needs hormonal treatment to become a man. Such a pathetic man!

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baijubavra

@baijubavra

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: dsr11
Just because one good for nothing doctor said that Sona has inhospitable uterus, how did Dev jump to the conclusion that there is something wrong with Sona's reproductive system. If a couple are having problems conceiving, tests are usually done on both man and woman involved. I am sure if they test Dev they will find that he is not making any swimmers or may be he lacks balls all together. He is the one who needs hormonal treatment to become a man. Such a pathetic man!

Also, she is only 26 years old and has been sexually active for 2 months ( so only 2 menstrual cycles) . That too they abstain for most of the days because of various religious rituals (10 days puja) , family obligations, ac problems in various rooms, work related tensions etc. no ethical doctor will prescribe any medicide before asking them to try natuarally first. His mother gets so worried about him with a minor tripping accident with jhula and he is ready to blast his wife's body with all the chemicals and harmones to impregnate her. Itna toh mere relatives apni egg producing hens ko bhee nahin karte bhai! People are talking about impednding separation but in my view, it is dangerous for anyone to live this maa beta duo. Kal ko matajee ka koi naya demand aa jayega phir maa ka ladla usko pura karne kuch aur kar baithega !

Also, what is the gurantee that the baby is going to be a boy ( kul deepak?) as maatajee keeps saying. Is Dev going to order a sex change operation if they have a baby girl to please his mom? This is high time, he should talk with his mom and ask her to be a little flexible about things. I agree that she had it tough but she is the one who brought 4 kids in the world without Any planning and MR. dixit did not have any financial planning for the family in his demise. She cant act like a diva all the time and needs to mend her ways !

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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: baijubavra

Rahuljee, even if they did not give all the details,it is still wrong to show that a husband can decide the treatment for wife witout her consent. He also hid the original report from her for a long time and was shown to sign some papers about her treatment that he and the doctor were hiding from her. Also, my post about vasectomy was sarcastic and shocking to draw the attention. Again it is a hypothetical scenario about a fictinal character but I still apologize if I hurt any sentiments with my POV. I just dont want them to show that a husband has the right on a woman's body. It is wrong example for the young people and should not be accepted in the name of "aisa hee hota aa raha hai" .

First of all am not saying that he has done right or wrong but making vasecotomy post and u r saying u want to give message to CVS...if u say aisa hee hota aa rha hai then am saying yes it's happens but till now, Cvs haven't show anything that dev is doing right...they clearly wants to show that dev has taken wrong path and they r not justifying his action... They already shown that dev is wrong when sona caught him on hospital and when she said to him about his feelings for child. Maker's or writers still showing his decision is wrong to viewers so they have planned everything we r not so smart then writer otherwise we r there on thier place...the CVS Haven't completed this track yet... They r showing that dev is doing wrong decision and they r trying to give message to society by showing dev's action.

Let the whole infertility track to be complete first if they will show dev's action to justifying and correctly. Then there is way to show anger but without waiting to complete the track and reacting... It's just no use.

It's a show...we can't expect them to show as when we want.

All will be.shown but when time will come.

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baijubavra

@baijubavra

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

First of all am not saying that he has done right or wrong but making vasecotomy post and u r saying u want to give message to CVS...if u say aisa hee hota aa rha hai then am saying yes it's happens but till now, Cvs haven't show anything that dev is doing right...they clearly wants to show that dev has taken wrong path and they r not justifying his action... They already shown that dev is wrong when sona caught him on hospital and when she said to him about his feelings for child. Maker's or writers still showing his decision is wrong to viewers so they have planned everything we r not so smart then writer otherwise we r there on thier place...the CVS Haven't completed this track yet... They r showing that dev is doing wrong decision and they r trying to give message to society by showing dev's action.
Let the whole infertility track to be complete first if they will show dev's action to justifying and correctly. Then there is way to show anger but without waiting to complete the track and reacting... It's just no use.
It's a show...we can't expect them to show as when we want.
All will be.shown but when time will come.

I think you may have a valid point here ! Let's see if this is how they want to show that Dev is wrong. I agree with you that the track has just started and they may surprise us. Lekin khoon hai kee khaul jata hai. I will keep calm now ! Beech beech mei aisa thoda dhamka ke rakhna padta hai nahin toh kuch bhee dikha denge ye log. Vaise aap ke patience ke liye. 👏

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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: baijubavra

I think you may have a valid point here ! Let's see if this is how they want to show that Dev is wrong. I agree with you that the track has just started and they may surprise us. Lekin khoon hai kee khaul jata hai. I will keep calm now ! Beech beech mei aisa thoda dhamka ke rakhna padta hai nahin toh kuch bhee dikha denge ye log. Vaise aap ke patience ke liye. 👏

Well u r right he has taken wrong decision but intention is not wrong...his decision to tackle that problem is wrong and CVS r showing that and they r not justifying his action.

And we all know CVS never disappointed us...it's just they have planned something which we will know after completion of this infertility track..

If cvs had been showing like that dev's action and his decision to be correct then it is bad message for society but till now they r not justifying his action which is good...am sure they will show in future track that dev's decision was big mistake

We all know dev is from beginning like that only...when it's come to his family or loved one happiness he never thought of it's consequences and he is still doing the same and CVS r clearly showing that his decision is wrong like in last episode they showed us through sona's concern .

Edited by rahulvats12 - 8 years ago

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

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Posted: 8 years ago

#68

@Rahul I am not sure how to keep hope on CV that they would highlight this in bad light.

- Dev manipulated Sona and forced her into the job. No apology till date.
- Dev opened matrimonial profile for Sona without her permission. No apology or highlights on this till date.
- Dev cancelled Rithwik's loan by wrong means. No apolegtic behavior by Dev yet.
- Dev stalked Sona relentlessly which is a crime. It wasnt shown as bad thing even it was justified in the name of love later by Dev.
- Dev dumped Sona in a split of second for his mommy, but it wasnt shown that Dev considers it as pathetic act till date, in fact his love for his mother gets glorified upon mentioning that.
- Dev broke a simple promise regarding the look and feel of his room, swing etc, broke it and danced in joy when those were gone, no remorse by him till date.
- Dev lied to Sona on household chores and being called upon as he blamed Sona rather. Didnt feel apologetic about it yet.

Very few actions of Dev may be 2/3 he felt sorry for. I am not sure if this would be the one or not. CV didnt build their track record as trustworthy you see. Who knows it this too would be ended in a lame way by Sona forgoving Dev as always 👎🏼

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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun
@Rahul I am not sure how to keep hope on CV that they would highlight this in bad light.

- Dev manipulated Sona and forced her into the job. No apology till date.
- Dev opened matrimonial profile for Sona without her permission. No apology or highlights on this till date.
- Dev cancelled Rithwik's loan by wrong means. No apolegtic behavior by Dev yet.
- Dev stalked Sona relentlessly which is a crime. It wasnt shown as bad thing even it was justified in the name of love later by Dev.
- Dev dumped Sona in a split of second for his mommy, but it wasnt shown that Dev considers it as pathetic act till date, in fact his love for his mother gets glorified upon mentioning that.
- Dev broke a simple promise regarding the look and feel of his room, swing etc, broke it and danced in joy when those were gone, no remorse by him till date.
- Dev lied to Sona on household chores and being called upon as he blamed Sona rather. Didnt feel apologetic about it yet.

Very few actions of Dev may be 2/3 he felt sorry for. I am not sure if this would be the one or not. CV didnt build their track record as trustworthy you see. Who knows it this too would be ended in a lame way by Sona forgoving Dev as always 👎🏼

So for what...u want apologies from dev...he is like This only from starting... His character and personality is also like that he can do anything for his family or loved one...he choose wrong way but his intention is right...

And later he also realised his mistake if u think wisely...he later speak that also in front of sona in office after get drunk about how he became after seeing her with ritwik and also confronted that he has done wrong.

He felt sorry for everything just go and watch episode again...he realised his mistake that what he did but just he didn't speak about that in front of that person... He also apologize to ritwik and what he done with him on engagement day when he was drunk.

Dev was not happy with swing and so much change in room...it's not a big mistake. He just can't adjust with them because he was not used to it but still he never anything or never complain to sona about that.

I don't think CVS r showing anything different

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