Dev should get vasectomy to make Bijoy happy

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LiveLife321

@LiveLife321

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Let me tell you why some people need the high way..

- Sona pretty clearly told Dev that she has full right to know things about her body and baby and he has no right to hide some information from her.. Did Dev listen to what she said ?
- Earlier in many cases, like calling Asha maa case or folding hanky case, Sona told Dev directly where and why he is wrong, did Dev listen to it ? He listened to what Sona said only when he was made to go through the similar situation..

You see for different kids parents take different approach.. After getting complaints from teachers or parents of other kids if the kid still doesnt behave good and listen to his/her parent, then parent has to take the high way for punishments like locking up in a room, beating etc.. Not justifiable, but for some kids only those seem to work..

Yaar, I haven't asked above Q by expecting any explanation or to point out something wrong. We all are grown up individuals and we all know what is right and wrong wrt our words or our actions. Its only to address that 2 wrong things will never make a right thing. I have mentioned in my above reply as well as in my previous reply that We are calling Dev criminal because we think he is going to play with his wife's body even though we have no idea about what he is going to do but here we are discussing on how to play with his body esp with his private parts in detail. How different are we from that disgusting dev dixit here? Just because we are women and our sentiments got hurt, we can speak and say anything about men?

Of-course different parents follow different approach and i am not Q'ing here any ones choice. In the above case i will follow second approach because i dont believe in bringing change in kids behavior through physical or mental abuse or punishments. I rest my case here, further you all are wise to understand what you are speaking and discussing. Its just my pov, Sorry if i have hurt any ones pov's here. Have a good day you all lovely people.😊

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Kritikabd

@Kritikabd

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

Even Sona is wrong no one is defending her let me make this clear I am definitely not. She is behaving very regressive. But one cannot compare Sona wanting child for whatever reason to Dev hiding the truth from her and the family plus influencing the doctor to act without Sona's knowledge. Every person has a right to live with dignity and his or her right cannot be messed with even by ones spouse. It is an individual right. Dev is messing with Sona's dignity. Dev's intention is wrong.

Dev intentions are not wrong but his way of doing it is wrong.He is impulsive he doesn't think twice before saying/doing something that doesn't make him a bad person. If he would have have done the act would have definitely supported the topic and please don't call dev a criminal coz he has still not done anything which he has thought of doing.

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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: Loveforlife
The show is already hurting and degrading female sentiments. People are ok with this. but are more concerned about how an Hypothetical scenario is hurting male sentiments. The TM is only drawing parallels by presenting a hypothesis.

So if u think that show is hurting female sentiment then tallk about the show or current topics on show...rather than here publicly taking about male vasecotomy.

Actually... This post is made for fun topics.

If anyone make such Post on female and said that...hey it's fun post don't take it serious...so what u will do? will u take it as fun way ?

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MuratHayat

@MuratHayat

Rocker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#54

To those who r offended coz TM has mentioned vasectomy... :Increasing availability and expanding usage of infertility treatment is a concern with regard to a possible increase in the risk of future malignancy development for women and their offspring. IVF women third more likely to develop ovarian cancer. Use of clomiphene citrate for treatments is reported to cause uterine cancers..

Now does a woman's consent is not needed when she is to be treated for infertility?? it has to be her choice and not her husband;s who wants to mend sick mentality of his mother

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baijubavra

@baijubavra

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: LiveLife321
Let me ask just one Q here. IF your kid comes to you and complains that his friend is abusing him then what you will do?
1. Will you go and abuse the other kid the way he abused your kid.
2. Will you go and explain to his parents about his wrong doings and need for correction.
Your answer to this Q is the exact answer for all the Q's asked in this thread by each and every one.

We all are frustrated about the way Cv's/writers/makers are dumping down Dev & Sona's characters time and again for justifying Ishwari's wrong doings or each others wrong doings. If a character behaves insensitive & mindless or if we feel the track is illogical then who is responsible for those mistakes, Characters or our beloved CV's????

First of all, I am presenting this hypothetical scenario to the CVS to make them realize how wrong they are showing that a husband can make decisions about the wife's body without her consent on national TV. There is no kid involved in this hypothetical scenario and no one is actually physically harmed. I have used strong words but I am happy that the scenario has caused a debate and brought it in limelight. Hopefully, CVS will see it and refrain from showing such things on national TV which present a wrong example for young generation that a husband can make decisons about the wife's body without her consent.

I apologize if my strong words have cause any discomfort to anyone but I really wanted to protest strongly about such a wrong thing.

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Raveena

@Loveforlife

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: Kritikabd

Dev intentions are not wrong but his way of doing it is wrong.He is impulsive he doesn't think twice before saying/doing something that doesn't make him a bad person. If he would have have done the act would have definitely supported the topic and please don't call dev a criminal coz he has still not done anything which he has thought of doing.

Ohh he has already committed a wrong by telling Sona lies about the report. Being impulsive is not a free ticket to keep doing wrong upon wrong without redemption. Maybe you don't like it but I find Dev's actions outright criminal in the past and present too therefore I will write since it's my POV about the character. I am not telling or forcing you in anyway to love or hate the character or accept what I say therefore I request you to refrain from telling me what I should do.

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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: baijubavra

First of all, I am presenting this hypothetical scenario to the CVS to make them realize how wrong they are showing that a husband can make decisions about the wife's body without her consent on national TV. There is no kid involved in this hypothetical scenario and no one is actually physically harmed. I have used strong words but I am happy that the scenario has caused a debate and brought it in limelight. Hopefully, CVS will see it and refrain from showing such things on national TV which present a wrong example for young generation that a husband can make decisons about the wife's body without her consent.

I apologize if my strong words have cause any discomfort to anyone but I really wanted to protest strongly about such a wrong thing.

Lol...cvs have shown that dev want to give treatment to sona without her consult but they didn't show which type of treatment and first of all treatment still didn't started now and also they didn't give any details about. Treatment...where CVS haven't show anything in detail now and Here u made a post on male vasecotomy and giving all detail that how dev should get vasecotomy for bijoy so that his next generation cannot ...u r saying that u want to give message To CVS but by reading ur post...it's look like u have made it for fun.

It doesn't look like u r trying to give any message... Read ur post again and tell me where's it look like a message to CVS..it's clearly a fun post

Edited by rahulvats12 - 8 years ago

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Kritikabd

@Kritikabd

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

Ohh he has already committed a wrong by telling Sona lies about the report. Being impulsive is not a free ticket to keep doing wrong upon wrong without redemption. Maybe you don't like it but I find Dev's actions outright criminal in the past and present too therefore I will write since it's my POV about the character. I am not telling or forcing you in anyway to love or hate the character or accept what I say therefore I request you to refrain from telling me what I should do.

Have a Good day

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