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Posted: 8 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy
yes I know this is about trio maybe I was expecting different type of dynamic between this trio .never in this show I have heard dev saying to sona ,I will love you no matter irrespective of his mom view. I was expecting they both together should solve mother's issue.Here full ishwari pooja going on .Her wrong doing her regressive behaviour is being justified in the name of mothers love.😕

At the end of the day it's all about Ishu's happiness and how Dev-Sona try and keep her happy without letting them affect it.. Even if it means to give away their happiness.. After all Ishu has got only one life and they have many more.. 😆 If she changes her ways on her own then well and good.. Else no bother just give in to her whims and fancies. And ensure that she's not put in to any unhappy situation.. And her happiness is very limited edition.. 😆

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gemini54

@gemini54

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#32

AWWW thanks I keep asking my older son to get married soon and he teases me that if I want a girl I need to adopt he is not going to get married just because I want a girl😆

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy
👏👏 You are going to be best Mother in law 😳

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vibg

@vibg

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy
In this whole infertility track are we going to get whole jap about how God has snatched both ishwari and sona's happiness.because frankly speaking in this whole problem husband should support his wife most 'rest comes later .because they are the one who is facing this,For than anyone His wife , not any third person. If he will say same dialogue again infront of sona about how ishwari's happiness also snatched , it will be double guilt for sona.Biggest problem in their marriage is that they let "Third "person involved in every matter.First they both need to give each other priority then solve Ma happiness problem.For Once Dev make Your Wife your priority 😕

but I am not expecting any such realization from Dev. whatever happens with Dixits, it's always about ishwari.. 1) neha's marriage broke..ishwari made it her parenting issue but did nothing about it😕 2) Rhia's groom possibly have ulterior motives, it's about Ishwari's ego and her refusal to respect other people's judgement. she is the smartest on the planet!!! 3) Dev came out from maut ka munh, Ishwari's ego...TODAY, how self absorbently, the woman claimed Dev got his wife pregnant cause of her😆 in 1 week of having that conversation and mataajee doing her rona dhona👏 Ishwari such mein mahaan hai. how shamelessly she claimed to Dev that mere mein badlaav aa gaya hai when she saw doubt and shock on his face about loving Sonakshi😡

even today, it was abut Dev's shock that mom xpted sonakshi as daughter. i can understand his feelings about it. but why can't he see.. mummy had an overnight change of heart for Sonakshi cause of "third party" he was worried about mom's heartbreak and Sonakshi's was secondary!

if results are negative (which I am highly doubting), he will be more worried and sad and mad for his mother.. sonakshi's heart break will come secondary😭

if results are positive, and later miscarriage or possibility of miscarriage... he will be hugging mummy (sic) instead of his wife.

Edited by vibg - 8 years ago

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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#34

What type of priority... Sonakshi is already her priority

It's not need to show him.

Priority nhi hoti toh uska problem jaante hue bhi usse sadi nhi krta

He was not worried about ishwari' today...

He was worried about sona ishwari relationship which he first time saw them so happy.

Edited by rahulvats12 - 8 years ago

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Hari73

@Hari73

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: rahulvats12
What type of priority... Sonakshi is already her priority
It's not need to show him.
Priority nhi hoti toh uska problem jaante hue bhi usse sadi nhi krta
He was not worried about ishwari' today...
He was worried about sona ishwari relationship which he first time saw them so happy.

Yes Rahul. .He is worried for sona ish relationship. but this time don't you think he should be worrying more for sona. This news how it is going impact her...If it is negative and she cannot become mother..who's loss is actually?? is it sona's or ish's? in this serial from the beginning it was always Dev not ish and their feelings. when Dev will realise sonakshi feeling.

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preethik

@preethik

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Hoping you are saying is true.because this Dev truly test.He need to see his Mom as human Not God.

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I'm saying he will support her because the separation has already happened once. I don't think he will leave her. sona on the other hand could want to leave thinking it's best for dev & ish. She is in that self sacrificing mode now.
Now I don't know how the prenup will come out. We'll have to wait & see.

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Gayatri

@Gayu_K

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#37

True...why even be bothered about gharwale n maa
Just think about u n ur wife

Edited by DevakshiCrazy - 8 years ago

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404_NotFound

@404_NotFound

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

#38

I have seen both the side of discussion and one thing I think most of the us are missing here is If Sona cannot become a mother then even Dev cannot become a father unless he is ready to let go of his love .The pain of a father is not less than that of a mother.

I cannot understand the comparison between Sona's pain and Ishwari's pain .How could one compare and declare that Ishwari had no right to feel bad or Dev should not care about his mom's happiness .

Yes Ishwari can have grandkids from her other children but will she get a chance to raise the grandkids like she can with Dev's child .Its natural for her to be disappointed but that doesn't mean Dev should divorce Sona because Ish is deprived of grandkids but it's ok for Dev to acknowledge his mom's disappointment.Like it or not the society expects the girl to leave her family and join her husband .Its easy to say we are modern and we should change but is it so easy to change the society.How many of us here have gone against the society norms .

I am not saying Dev should choose Ish over Sona .The question if choosing comes if Ishwari asks him to marry another girl ,Here a man is worried about the pain his wife and mom will experience when the truth is revealed .In no way he is prioritizing his mom over his wife .Feeling bad for your mom doesn't mean you don't care for your wife .If Ishwari's happiness was everything than why did Dev marry Sona inspire of knowing the truth .He would have married a girl who could give him a child for his mom's happiness.

Like it or not Dev is someone's son and brother not just Sona's husband just like how Sona is someone's daughter not just his wife .
It's not practical to expect Ishwari to be uneffected by this news .If Dev had issues instead of Sona don't you think Bijoy would react and most of us would have felt bad for Sona and would have asked Ritwick to come back to give Sona the happiness of being a mom

Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago

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YASHO1997

@YASHO1997

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Yes exactly!!!!

Thanks because I was running out of words to explain.

Being worried about his mom too doesn't equate with loving sona less. Here it's not about prioritising anyone. I mean when he is asking for blessings.

Is isn't it only natural he will worry for both... And I didn't even feel it was for his mom. It was for his mom accepting his love his sona...doesn't that say it all. Because this news may take away that happiness from sona too.

Loving both is not mutually exclusive... In our lives is it possible for us to love this way?

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randomramblings

@randomramblings

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

Yes Rahul. .He is worried for sona ish relationship. but this time don't you think he should be worrying more for sona. This news how it is going impact her...If it is negative and she cannot become mother..who's loss is actually?? is it sona's or ish's? in this serial from the beginning it was always Dev not ish and their feelings. when Dev will realise sonakshi feeling.

all the members thinking that Dev does not realise the feelings of sonakshi, please go and check the episodes once again. He is more worried about Sona and not his mother at all.

let's for a while think of only Dev and sona leaving out Ishwari , below will be the scenario

1. if the truth comes out, Sona will be broke, but her supportive family, will surely console her and force her to look for other options.

2. she will come to terms with her state and with the help of dev even think of options like surrogacy or adoption,

with ishwari in picture

1. She can never come to terms with the state of sona.

2. she will start her new tantrums, there by inflicting more pain to sona and causing her to go on a guilt trip, breaking her self esteem.

3. she might force dev to remarry ( courtesy mamiji and her own whims to have a grand child. ) surely she can be a grand mom for any of her daughters' kids but they will not be a dixit waris.

so basically unless ishwari is satisfied, there is no way Dev and Sona can enjoy a blissful martial life. today too, when Ishwari said hamari sona, he was surprised and even questioned his mom about it.

hence is more worried that Ishwari should stay happy inorder for sona to remain happy. it is like a=b, b=c therefore a=c.

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