How many of you feel the same? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

My biggest concern is with ishwari's character .SBS segment voiceover said that they have made some changes in script regarding ishwari character due to Supriyaji concern.I have a fear they will suddenly show ishwari all goody goody in this.but for once I want dev to standup for sona infront of his Maa . one scene where he will have disagreement with his ma . Not giving in to her wishes or blackmail.I want repeat of his breakup scene or Aunty calling scene where ishwari was manipulating him and he let her.But this time He refuse to do this.That will be his true Growth as a husband .otherwise His love for sona will be called conditional one .because even he had chose to marry sona despite her condition. He hid this news instead of confronting situation ,he has chosen easy way out. I want him for once make sona his priority .I am hoping too much from CV.They always made Ishwari some kind of GOD ,whom everyone should be bow down without asking her any question. 😕😕

Originally posted by: DevakshiCrazy

Same here dear
I want them to be together even if the have to face heaps and heaps of issues
I want dev to stand by sona and support her even it means going against his mom

Originally posted by: sukklover

having mixed feelings.. Don't know..

How CV going to handle this..😕

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I know...I am feeling very bad...especially thinking abt what Sona would have to face in that family especially from Neha ,GKB , Ishwari and now she has another trouble ...she will be compared with Elina...I know Dev loves her but he fails to stand along with her at most crucial times and her wishes have never been respected...so I am really worried for Sona more than any one...

Originally posted by: Drcs

I have a ver different point of view . I don't know how many of you will agree with me. I never felt that Dev is spineless. This is exactly how someone who has suffered in the childhood and rose in life through hardship and help from everyone will behave. Though many a times he knows his mother is unreasonable he can't voice against her...bcoz if he wants to say something Im sure he will remember how she toiled to providedhim and his siblings a living. The same goes with mami...its bcoz of mamaji that he is not dignifying many of her taunts with a response. Just imagine if he answers back and support sona by accusing mamiji or ma or Neha abd they all decide to leave the home...can he be ever happy...whereas Sona understands his situation well and supports...she is silent doesn't mean she accepts their taunts...these taunts will belong to her only if she retort otherwise it stays with the person who has said it...I have seen many going through similar situations but their patience have really paid well at the end...I neither sympathise nor approve Ishwari or mami's behaviour but I can feel why Dev behaves so...when people come to our house we treat them well evenif some of their actions irritate us...being humble doesn't mean spineless...this is exactly what cvs wants to show...in the last episode when Sona said Thank you ma for sharing Dev with me...I had tears in my eyes...you need to have a heart of gold to say this...kuos to cv...does that make her doormat...appreciating you MIL doesn't make you dumb...end of the days its with heavy heart that many mom share their " successful " child with his spouse...this is human psychology...if we understand this then no dramas or tensions in d family...kudos to cv for that beatiful dialogue

Originally posted by: Drcs

I have a ver different point of view . I don't know how many of you will agree with me. I never felt that Dev is spineless. This is exactly how someone who has suffered in the childhood and rose in life through hardship and help from everyone will behave. Though many a times he knows his mother is unreasonable he can't voice against her...bcoz if he wants to say something Im sure he will remember how she toiled to providedhim and his siblings a living. The same goes with mami...its bcoz of mamaji that he is not dignifying many of her taunts with a response. Just imagine if he answers back and support sona by accusing mamiji or ma or Neha abd they all decide to leave the home...can he be ever happy...whereas Sona understands his situation well and supports...she is silent doesn't mean she accepts their taunts...these taunts will belong to her only if she retort otherwise it stays with the person who has said it...I have seen many going through similar situations but their patience have really paid well at the end...I neither sympathise nor approve Ishwari or mami's behaviour but I can feel why Dev behaves so...when people come to our house we treat them well evenif some of their actions irritate us...being humble doesn't mean spineless...this is exactly what cvs wants to show...in the last episode when Sona said Thank you ma for sharing Dev with me...I had tears in my eyes...you need to have a heart of gold to say this...kudos to cv...does that make her doormat...appreciating you MIL doesn't make you dumb...end of the days its with heavy heart that many mom share their " successful " child with his spouse...this is human psychology...if we understand this then no dramas or tensions in d family...kudos to cv for that beautiful dialogue

I love Sona character . but why shud Dev stand for her when she herself has said she is independent and takes her decision. when she declared that she is not GKB he didn't argue or resent...so if she wants she cud have resented...but I appreciate her maturity...if she retorts to mami she vl b drooping to mami's level...thats not her class

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Agreed ..I am not denying what you said ...my take will be if she gives back to them the way they treat her then she is stooping down to their level which also means becoming them...so I can understand the silence of Sona...but when a husband watches silently his wife being belittled because the one who does is his family is not something that I will justify...and the same goes the other way too...Sona shouldnt stand as mute spectator if her family belittles Dev. Only if they respect each other and show how imp they are for each other will their families feel the same...

That is the problem with Dev...he is a strong character but his weakness is his mom...and this is going to backfire on his relationship with his wife...again Ishwari also gets carried away by GKB which isnt rt...look at GKB ...when her DIL came she doesnt care abt what anyone says...though she feels bad , she supports her DIL...