How many of you feel the same?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I know this is a fiction and all the characters in this serial are not real. But ever since I came to know that they are going to start the infertility track , there is this sad feeling in me..that I cant reason out why? It is even worse than what I had felt during the break up...And the way this track started with enjoyment and happiness abt Sona being pregnant is something that I didn't expect. Knowing that it is going to end in absolute pain and misery for her is not bringing any joy in me...I know Erica and Shaheer are going to nail this scene with their acting skills and this is meant to entertain us ...isn't that what I wanted to see...ideally my answer should be yes but my answer is no I don't want to see this track...why ??

Is it the woman in me not wanting to see it because somewhere deep down I feel I will get to see things that I don't want to see or hear ...OR is it anxiety abt the way that this track is going to be treated ...OR that this track will lack sensitivity that this topic needs in order to gain TRP...OR is it the fear of interfertility in women as a topic... ??

My only prayer is Dev should stand by Sona no matter what...I hope he doesn't blindly listen to his mom and ditch his wife ...we have seen a character growth in Dev but many times we have seen such growth and then a sudden "U" turn when his mom gives him a dose of her emotional blast from the past.

Whatever it is...I am not happy... So I thought I will share my thoughts with you all...do you all feel the same ?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I m totally mixed feelings Abt d track !! Let's wait fr d story to unfold!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I was scared before. If they take the TRP route it will be pure torture to watch, even if Shaheer and Erica would have aced it. But now I have come to terms with this. I have immense faith that Dev would stand by Sona and would be protective of her.
As much as I want Devakshi to conceive and have their own kids, what I prefer is for her to not take this as a loss of her self worth. She is as much a woman as she is with or without the gift of motherhood. She can be sad but I don't want her to be guilty. She can be upset with Dev for hiding this from her and taking decisions for her but I want her to understand why Dev did what he did. He chose her, her presence in his life nothing else. If she cannot be a mother, he is choosing to not be a father because all that matters is them.

So all in all if they stand by each other and be each other's support system and realise that what they have is more precious than anything else I will be fine. They can decide for treatments or adoption later on when they are ready to take that responsibility.😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i am happy with the serial
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

I was scared before. If they take the TRP route it will be pure torture to watch, even if Shaheer and Erica would have aced it. But now I have come to terms with this. I have immense faith that Dev would stand by Sona and would be protective of her.

As much as I want Devakshi to conceive and have their own kids, what I prefer is for her to not take this as a loss of her self worth. She is as much a woman as she is with or without the gift of motherhood. She can be sad but I don't want her to be guilty. She can be upset with Dev for hiding this from her and taking decisions for her but I want her to understand why Dev did what he did. He chose her, her presence in his life nothing else. If she cannot be a mother, he is choosing to not be a father because all that matters is them.

So all in all if they stand by each other and be each other's support system and realise that what they have is more precious than anything else I will be fine. They can decide for treatments or adoption later on when they are ready to take that responsibility.😃


@BOLD...thank you so much !! I think I got my answer , I couldnt pinpoint why I was so upset and that too thinking abt the plot...and hence made this post...and look I got my answer...yes true...I didnt want her to feel guilty...didnt want her to loose self worth...she shouldnt feel she is in it alone...he is also going thru this with her...

Yes hope is always there when they have each other...

Thank you so much once again...!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi ashwathy!!!
Its not just you!! even i have this gloomy feeling anticipating what is gonna happen next!!! i just hope nothing goes too out of hand or ovr the top!! i just hope dev sticks to sona!! and there is no second marriage thingy in the show!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes we all know its just a fiction but since d beginning of the show we have all got attached to it bcoz this show is very close to real life compared to other tv shows, acting has been great n one way or another we have all started to associate with these characters. For me...I can personally relate to Sona n Bose family specially Asha. So when Sona acts out of character or not reacts as per my expectations...that really bothers me the most.

We all wanted the separation track but when it actually happened..it was quite painful. My expectation from this track was based frm initial promos..so was expecting two matured individuals taking biggest decision of their lives by keeping their families first n sacrificing their love. So when the breakup was so damn bitter, Dev's deewangi n all..Trp drama..I didn't like it but the pain both Dev n Sona suffered was portrayed beautifully. The scene when Sona brings drunk Dev home n he doesn't leave her hand has been one of the best scenes so far.

Hence I am expecting loads of fireworks again bcoz of Shaheer, Erica's acting prowess in emotional scenes. Finally we wud reach to a happy stage when Dev wud support Sona n wud fight with whole world for her...but expect the journey to be treacherous, long n tearful. Since marriage Sona has been through lot of pain n this wud be her breaking point. Be prepared for Gkb, Ish, Neha n Vicki's insults n taunts, be prepared for Dev being initially confused about how to handle this pain. As per the segment he wud ask the doctor to lie instead of being upfront with Sona.

This wud be a redemption track not just for Dev n Ishwari but I am assuming for Gkb n Neha too. This will also be the biggest realisation n eye opener phase for Dev. This track wud actually be a make or break track for all characters specially Dev n Ishwari. Pain of breakup is still there and any behavior of Dev tht wud lead to separation wud be a deal breaker for the loyal audience.

Expect Sona to go into sacrificial mode initially coz CVs has dropped hints for the same...Dev imagined Sona's response before marriage tht she wud say no to marriage and also Sona's getting overly close to Dixit family n giving so much importance to Ish's happiness n trying to be the best bahu.

Hopefully, unlike breakup, this time we do see two individuals taking the biggest decision of their lives in a matured way by being there for each other, understanding each other, talking out, being honest abt how n wat they feel.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tremors

Hi ashwathy!!!

Its not just you!! even i have this gloomy feeling anticipating what is gonna happen next!!! i just hope nothing goes too out of hand or ovr the top!! i just hope dev sticks to sona!! and there is no second marriage thingy in the show!!

@BOLD ...even if they bring it up...I want to see Dev going against it in his true Mr Rude manner...giving every one the fear of their life...for once even Ishwari should understand that her emotional blackmail isnt working on him
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings

Yes we all know its just a fiction but since d beginning of the show we have all got attached to it bcoz this show is very close to real life compared to other tv shows, acting has been great n one way or another we have all started to associate with these characters. For me...I can personally relate to Sona n Bose family specially Asha. So when Sona acts out of character or not reacts as per my expectations...that really bothers me the most.

We all wanted the separation track but when it actually happened..it was quite painful. My expectation from this track was based frm initial promos..so was expecting two matured individuals taking biggest decision of their lives by keeping their families first n sacrificing their love. So when the breakup was so damn bitter, Dev's deewangi n all..Trp drama..I didn't like it but the pain both Dev n Sona suffered was portrayed beautifully. The scene when Sona brings drunk Dev home n he doesn't leave her hand has been one of the best scenes so far.

Hence I am expecting loads of fireworks again bcoz of Shaheer, Erica's acting prowess in emotional scenes. Finally we wud reach to a happy stage when Dev wud support Sona n wud fight with whole world for her...but expect the journey to be treacherous, long n tearful. Since marriage Sona has been through lot of pain n this wud be her breaking point. Be prepared for Gkb, Ish, Neha n Vicki's insults n taunts, be prepared for Dev being initially confused about how to handle this pain. As per the segment he wud ask the doctor to lie instead of being upfront with Sona.

This wud be a redemption track not just for Dev n Ishwari but I am assuming for Gkb n Neha too. This will also be the biggest realisation n eye opener phase for Dev. This track wud actually be a make or break track for all characters specially Dev n Ishwari. Pain of breakup is still there and any behavior of Dev tht wud lead to separation wud be a deal breaker for the loyal audience.


@BOLD...exactly !! Hope they do justice to this track...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

@BOLD ...even if they bring it up...I want to see Dev going against it in his true Mr Rude manner...giving every one the fear of their life...for once even Ishwari should understand that her emotional blackmail isnt working on him


I am sure there won't be a second marriage. Because he already chose Sona over fatherhood and his mother's dreams.😳

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