Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
True...We know he loves her too but somehow that confidence that you need ...thinking that he is going to stick by her no matter what that is missing for me...I am not able to confidently say that he would...not that I am doubting his affection for her...and yes we have seen a tremendous character growth in him...but I have felt at crucial moments he becomes dumb...and especially in front of his mom and family ...I hope CVs will prove me this time wrong ...and show Dev supporting Sona in front of his family and getting back to his old Mr.Rude mode...with family mem...
I ageee ! I hated Dev in aunty track because here is this guy who claims to love his wife immensely and knows that calling his MIl was wrong but he still did it just because he could not convince his own mother. He was instead trying to sneak his way around it. This is a totally different topic of discussion if in laws should be addressed the same as the parents but once he started doing it ( on his own when the rishta was finalized) it is utterly disrespectful to Asha if you suddenly change your mind and start calling her aunty.
I hated that he could not wait for his wife to cut the cake and his going out on date with his wife was potrayed as some kind of guilty pleasure for him. Suppose, If he was going to be out with his sister and his mother asks him to change his program, would he not wait for his sister to arrive and join the new program? His behavior was beyond human decency that day. Why is his relationship with his wife treated as some illegal pleasure item? His behavior made it look like he was sneaking time off with an escort on his birthday for his pleasure that the mahan son sacrificed for his mother's emotions not like he was going on a dinner with his legally wedded wife that he had to change because of some logistics and other confusions.😡
I hate it when mamijee calls Sona names in a derogatory tone and this guy just sits there looking at his mother. What if mamijee starts calling Neha "uneducated" or "chaudhrian" aur "parayi ladki " or nikkami in front of everyone? What if someone calls his mother a widow or a cook /maid? ( she has worked as a maid before). What if some one calls Ria a chashmish and Niki a fatso ? Would he not stop mamijee politely? What if mamijee calls his business associate some name? I am not saying that one should make a fuss infront of everyone but he could talk with his mother to make mamijee behave respectfully with his wife. This is not the way a cultured family talks !
He claims to do anything for his wife but could not tolerate slight change in the room decor. How is he going to manage the changes that come with having a baby? As long as those changes dont affect his routine and his lifestyle, he is OK right ! Again, I am not saying that he should fight with his mother to get the jhula back but his wife was so emotional about having a jhula in the room (her childhood dreams ) and he felt releived when the jhula was gone without any feelings for his wife's wish that were denied in such a manner. Again, I am not saying that the jhula should have been left there or they both should decide the room decor but still his behavior on jhula track was totally selfish. When a baby is born, there are some many changes in one's routine, home decor, physical appearance, mental status etc. and people happily accept those and this sissy was trying to cope with the jhula in a room ! Seriously!
Now if they potray that the whole existence of a woman's life is to produce kids and then I actually dont mind a separation track. I would not want to live the rest of my life with such selfish people who think of me as an object of pleasure that they can sacrifice at their whim !
I am sorry for my negative rant but I feel this is inhuman behavior ! I Know they are showing it against one gender in this serial but I would have been equally angry if they had shown this kind of stuff against a man also.
Edited by baijubavra - 8 years ago
